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Is it just me?

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Real Estate Agent with Fathom Realty Washington LLC

 

We are blessed and cursed in the real estate industry.  We get to see the best and the worst of what our economy has to offer.  This morning I fear I got to witness the worst.

It is 10:00 in the morning and I'm scheduled to show a house to a investor.  I show up 10 minutes early for the appointment and wait for my investor.  The listing says there is no for sale sign or KeyBox and so I've made my appointment through a third party.  This always gives me an uneasy feeling so I take many precautions beforehand

My clients show up and immediately are nervous because of the sad state of the outside.  I go to the front door and ring the doorbell, no one answers.  After about a third knock someone peeks out the front window and opens the door.  A naked person answers the front door dressed  in only a blanket and I introduced myself.

The woman at the front door did not try to cover herself or hide behind the door.  I told her that I was here or the 10:00 showing and she told me she was expecting me.

As she opened the door I counted five sleeping bodies in the living room alone.  The two bedrooms each had another three bodies covered by blankets that barely cover themselves.  This was probably one of the fastest showings of my real estate career.  We were in and out of the house in a mere three minutes tops.  We then went into a unlocked garage which had the couch with two more children sleeping on it.

My clients made a beeline for their car and drove away promising a call me back a couple hours later.  I looked at my paperwork as I sat in my car, checking to see who the occupants of the house were.  I thought they may have been horrible renters but it turned out that the house was owner occupied.  In all there were fifteen occupants in this two bedroom home.  The house was purchased in 2007 for $215,000.  The listing price for this house was now $50,000 and in a short sale position.

Why has the American dream of home ownership come to this.  My parents lived through the great depression and told me of times like these.  But I'd never thought I would see such deplorable conditions in my lifetime.

Working with depressed properties, you would think I would get used to scenes like these but for some strange reason, each time I encounter these conditions, I feel horrible.  It's not a sick feeling or a feeling of superiority, it is a feeling of despair.

Is it just me?

 

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Comments(71)

Tim Tanz
Platinum Realty - Saint Louis, MO
St Louis Real Estate

That is sad. 

Sep 21, 2011 03:35 PM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer

It's not just you.  Sometimes when I think I have seen it all I realize that I really haven't!  There are always events like this that snap me out of "it is what it is" to "WTH is going on here?"

Sep 21, 2011 04:27 PM
Ellie Penaranda
239.776.5077 Downing-Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Florida Real Estate - Waterfront & Beach Co

Unfortunately, I have encountered same on one of my showings - 9 people, with a bed (actually just a mattress) in the utility room between the hot water heater and washing machine... It was not a short sale and the house was clean... but 9 in a 2 bedroom home.  I found it extremely sad that there didn't seem to be another way out for that family.   

Sep 21, 2011 05:39 PM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

That is truly a sad situation. And since it is a short sale, where will they all go when it sells?

Sep 21, 2011 06:03 PM
Valerie Baker
Exit Real Estate Professionals - Spokane, WA
Spokane Realtor

Sigh . . .I am disheartened by the horrible situations that we encounter and hear about way too often in these hard times.  Your post brought tears to my eyes, but some of the comments actually made me cry. I am reminded of a line from the movie, The Green Mile, that has stuck with me through the years. 

"Mostly, I'm tired of people being ugly to each other. I'm tired of all the pain I feel and hear in the world every day. There's too much of it. It's like pieces of glass in my head all the time. Can you understand?"



Sep 21, 2011 06:38 PM
Marge Piwowarski
Phoenix AZ Horse Property - Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix AZ Horse Property, LLC

Paul, This is sorta like a present time "Grapes of Wrath" situation.  I think there are pockets of desperate poverty all around the country that maybe haven't been seen since the Great Depression. 

Enough to give me a little depression.  I do believe we will recover, but I hate to see the defeat some feel now. 

Sep 21, 2011 07:23 PM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Paul, now this really hits me in the face. How awful it must be for them. How sad. I feel like crying for them. Not even attempting to cover oneself alludes to the idea of ZERO self esteem left. A lack of caring or even a lack of recognizing reality.

I am so sorry to read such a disheartening post but only because you had to experience it. It is a good read.

Just very sad.

We can only keep putting one foot in front of the other and never give up. A little faith goes a long way! Thanks for sharing this with us.

Deb

Sep 21, 2011 08:13 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)
If your investor was a male as well, I probably would have advised you not to enter the home of any woman who came to the door naked. I get your drift and it is very sad and scary (a bit creepy based on your description). This is our world. It is still hard to believe that it has come to this.
Sep 21, 2011 09:16 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Wow, Paul.  That would be weird.  I think the condition of our economy has help rob a lot of struggling people of any hope.  Did it sell?  8-)

Sep 22, 2011 01:19 AM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired
Hi Paul Like, they are considerate and generous, and any one needed a place to stay could stay at their house, while they still had the ability to offer the help? Phil
Sep 22, 2011 01:34 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

What a horrible way to start your day..I'll bet you and your buyer spent the rest of your day appreciating all that you have.  This recession has forced so many middle class families into poverty--not sure that was the case here but I know of many people who feel they will never be able to regain what was lost unless there is more job creation with wages well above minimum. 

Sep 22, 2011 02:26 AM
Robert Slick
Beach and River Homes - Georgetown, SC
NRBA, RDCPro, Trident/CCAR MLS

I really feel for the children cought up in the foreclosure crisis. They wiil have scars like the children of the depression did/do.

Sep 22, 2011 02:41 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Paul, now that is an interesting marketing strategy!  But seriously, it is very, very sad.  I was thinking it was an awful situation, not just for the owners, but also for all of their house guests. 

Sep 22, 2011 02:45 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

I'm sorry Paul, I'm with Judi #42 on this one. The woman comes to the door naked and there are people sleeping all over the house. Sounds like a wild party to me. And kids are sleeping in the garage unattended? Sorry don't mean to be unkind, but I would more likely report these people. This doesn't sound like a hard-working family down on their luck at all.

Sep 22, 2011 02:49 AM
Howard and Susan Meyers
The Hudson Company Winnetka and North Shore - Winnetka, IL

Paul...this is truly a very tragic situation.  Unfortunately, we fear that it is not isolated and probably growing.

Although this particular situation may be beyond repair, something needs to be done to help underwater homeowners to stay in their homes. 

With a national rate of approximately 23% (yes, that's approximately 1 in 4) of Americans with mortgages being under water, letting simple market forces to play out, will multiply this tragic situation exponentially.

Are we ready to deal with the consequences?

Sep 22, 2011 02:50 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I have had this experience many many times through out my Real Estate career and I am always moved by it. It promotes a reflection of gratitude in me and causes me to ponder about life quite a bit...When you see people doing what they have to do to make ends meet causes one to appreciate the saying..there go I but for the grace of God and remain aware and thankful...It doesn't have to be this way...but it is. good post and host

Sep 22, 2011 03:33 AM
Colleen Sample, REALTOR, GRI, CDPE - Your Treasure Coast Real Estate Expert
RE/MAX of Stuart - Stuart, FL

Oh Paul, that's so sad... It's terrible when we encounter situations like this. Who knows where those people will end up in the future, if they have anywhere to go.

Sep 22, 2011 05:02 AM
Cheryl Thomson REALTOR Ret Army
United Real Estate DC Metro Region (703.216.5635) cheryltee47@gmail.com - Prince William, VA
Associate Broker in Northern Virginia

Paul, I know this was NOT funny to you at the time but for some reason I can't stop smiling...I can't imagine what you thought when she came to the door!

Sep 22, 2011 05:06 AM
Bonnie Vaughan
Scranton, PA
CNE SFR - Buyers/Sellers - Lackawanna & Surroundin

Paul,  I cannot imagine walking into a situation like that.  I'm sure there are thousands of situations just like it around the country.  Not only do you want to cry for the folks who have hit rock bottom, you want to cry for the United States.  How is it we have sunk so far in such a short time?

Sep 25, 2011 04:39 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

For some people the American Dream dissappears when they wake up.  It's hard to fathom what events brought them to this situation.

Oct 03, 2011 05:00 PM