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Give Yourself A Gift For 2012: Get Your Stuff 'Under Control'

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Home Stager with Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY

Welcome back to my latest series, Give Yourself A Gift For 2012: good ideas and smart people who can help you enter the new year purposefully, with a clear head and lighter heart.

When comedian George Carlin first debuted his routine on "Stuff" in 1981, he observed that sometimes we have so much stuff, that we pay to store some of our stuff...' IMAGINE< an entire industry based on keeping an eye on your stuff!! ' The audience was hysterical-what a concept!

Several years earlier, Business Week made some predictions about business in the future, one was the computer would render us to be a paperless society. HA!

A lesser-known-but correct prediction was our having a computer on every desk, but it has been 'paperless society' that we remember. (Fact is, the boom of affordable desktop copiers-and consumer-oriented retail stores that sell them- helped to more than DOUBLE the worldwide use of paper from 1980 to 2000!)

What was out there and funny then is all too real now. There are a number of things that have brought us to this glut of stuff, but one big question-how to deal with it?

At the least, excess stuff is annoying and inconvenient. It weighs us down, affecting our concentration and productivity; in more severe situations, it can be unhealthy, even life-threatening....sadly, three Westchester residents lost their lives in recent years when fires started in their over-loaded homes...they couldn't get out, and firemen couldn't get in.

As our lifestyles have changed, businesses have grown to meet these needs and provide solutions for for these issues. Organizing is one of those services.

Marcia Sloman was one of the first professional organizers in Westchester county, and her company, Ossining-based Under Control Organizing has been helping Westchester get organized since 1992. I've known of Marcia for years, but it was only after a series of phone calls and emails that we finally, recently met. Minutes into the conversation, it's easy to see why she has been so successful: she is warm and friendly, precise and very focused, but with a light touch.

Numbers on how much time we spend looking for things vary, but all of them give pause: Online I found surveys quoting anywhere from 16 minutes a day (or approximately 1 year of your life) to 55 minutes a day (a mind-numbing almost 14 years of your life!).

Even at the lower end, it's still a lot of time lost...wouldn't that be a great burden to have lifted from your shoulders in the New Year? Getting cleared out and organized not only will save you time and energy, again, you re-claim some valuable real estate in your home. Marcia's services run the gamut, but some of her specialties are managing paper and stuff, and making the most of two finite entities:  time, and spaces.

Solutions or systems mean little if they're unrealistic, or, frankly if you don't trust or respect the person coming up with them...it's that way with Staging, too...one great, very user-friendly mindset Marcia recommends to deal with a big project: Divide things into the following groups: Trash, Recycle, Sell, Give Away or Donate.

Organizing styles-especially as far as paper is concerned-also figure strongly into her approach. Marcia creates filing systems for the "In-nies"-those who need stuff to be out of sight, but easily accessible; and can have specialized storage spaces made for those "Out-ies"-folks who need an open, visual display to keep things orderly and find-able.

Bottom line-while having someone help you clean out your closets, your garage, or set up your office might seem like an indulgence, ask yourself: so how's doing it yourself working out for you?

If the answer is not so good, start a conversation, give yourself a gift, and get on with your life!

 

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Our spaces affect us profoundly...and so many other parts in our life fall into place when our spaces and possessions serve us in the best way they can. But getting there is much more than a pursuit of pleasing aesthetics.

 

Decorating and Staging are different, but much of the skill sets overlap, and each creates unique solutions that considers the needs, goals, resources, expectations, hopes and dreams of each client.

Bettering Westchester, Putnam and lower Fairfield counties since 1981, The Refreshed Home works collaboratively, and brings a thoughtful approach to the creative process. Proud to make a difference, as well as make a living. Offering specialty services such as remote and buyer consults, listing photo/video styling, guided and accompanied shopping, and accessory rental. We get in, get out, and you get on with your life.  Talk to me TODAY about how we can better your space!

  

                    

 

Marie Graham ASP, IAHSP, IDS Your Stager With A Mission!

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Don Sabinske
Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
Sabinske & Associates Inc.

Getting rid of stuff is priority number one in January along with getting the taxes ready.

Dec 27, 2011 07:09 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Marcia is awesome.  I even recommended her to my dad, and my dad raved about her again this weekend.  She is amazing.

Dec 27, 2011 07:23 AM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

You're right, it's a great way to start the New Year Dan! Thank you for stopping by!

You and your dad are both right, too Debbie-she is great!

Dec 27, 2011 11:25 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Marie: How is doing is yourself working out for you? Kinda sums it all up, doesn't it?  This is a wonderful post and a great reminder of how "stuff" can cripple us. My family, especially my 27 year old son, loves George Carlin's riffs about "stuff". However, looking inward and making changes is a little more difficult, isn't it? Happy New Year and Continued Success!

Dec 27, 2011 10:23 PM
Melissa Stahl
Melbourne, FL
Realtor, Exit 1st Class Realty

Marie, This is goal number 1 for me next week.  I was hoping to have it done this week, but my assistant doesn't start till next week.  As you can see, "it's not working out for me, doing it myself" so I'm giving myself a gift of organization and getting help!giving myself the gift of organization

 

Dec 28, 2011 10:26 AM
Elva Branson-Lee
Solid Source Realty GA - Atlanta, GA
CDPE - Atlanta Real Estate & Short Sale Agent

Marie, that is a very interesting statistic you present here....that instead of computing reducing paper use, it actually doubled worldwide in just 20 years!  Oh how I love the .pdf file and e-signing! Yet, like the rest, I still have more paper piles than I want. Here's hoping 2012 will see an improvement.

Dec 28, 2011 10:52 AM
Don Hess
KW Elite Keller Williams 1280 Plaza Blvd. Lancaster, PA 17601 - Quarryville, PA

No matter how many "back ups" we have we all seem to like a hard copy as the ultimate back up. Something we can hold in our hand. Having said that, I'm looking at the cartons of hard copies that I have in my office. I won't even get into the non business related "stuff" that seems to be clogging my attic and basement. Maybe I'll just have public sale one of these days. :) Great blog. Happy New Year!

Dec 29, 2011 02:18 AM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

Anne-yeah, that looking inward part can be a killer!

Melissa-sounds like a great gift, one that will bring you dividends all year round-good luck with your new assistant, and Happy New Year!

Elva-let's not forget that sometimes people generate paper to validate things like their billing??  I know a RE attorney (stay tuned, she's coming up soon) who has been putting A-L-L a clients' closing documents on a DVD for years.

Hi Don-thanks for stopping by and commenting. Too much paper affects us all I think, so you are in good company. Don't know that we'd ever really go paperless, but even if each of us just did a little better....Happy New Year to you as well! 2012 is going to be great-pass it on!!

Dec 29, 2011 08:15 AM
Joy Daniels
Joy Daniels Real Estate Group, Ltd. - Harrisburg, PA

I appreciate organiztion - my son's room - the entire basement (he's 23 and between college and law school) is a wreck. . . . are their people that will help clean up that type of mess??  Do you know anyone in the Harrisburg/Central PA area?

Jan 01, 2012 06:10 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Marie--Donne sent me here via her post and I am so glad.  Good ideas.  I am off to reorganize before the football game.

Jan 01, 2012 06:17 AM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

Joy-Yes, there are people who do this work and do it well. Don't personally know anyone in your area, but NAPO (national Association of Professional Organizers is a good place to start.  Just like any other designation, it's the first 'gate', and  just like what we do, it comes down to finding the right person you can work with. Check out the directory, follow links to organizers' sites, and make a few phone calls. Good luck!!

MARY!  I am so glad Donne 'sent' you here, too, thanks for letting me know so I could thank her in a timely manner.

Jan 01, 2012 10:08 AM
Michelle Francis
Tim Francis Realty LLC - Atlanta, GA
Realtor, Buckhead Atlanta Homes for Sale & Lease

Marie, 

I had a good friend who is a personal organizer first help me 7 years ago in preparation for a construction proerct we were doing.  It was tremendous and has made me better organized, however, I still have a ways to go.  My goal is to continue to improve and weave less stuff & organizing into all aspects of my life, as well as help my kids do this.  (Some come by it much more naturally than others.)

All the best in 2012, Michelle

Jan 01, 2012 01:04 PM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

Hi Michelle! It SOUNDS like such a simple thing, but in reality, not so much. We are a society of STUFF, and all sorts of things pull on us to hold on to what we have. Good luck with this, and yes, indeed, may 2012 be your best year EVER!

Jan 01, 2012 05:43 PM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

This is definitely on my top ten things that I must do in 2012. Thanks for the reminder, I need it!

Jan 02, 2012 06:00 PM