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They Just Don't Care (and 4 things you can do about that)

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lake Homes Realty

 

I'll say it: People don't care. Well, more accurately, they don't care about all the things you care about. You may find people where you have common interests. However, even then, the level of care you each have for different things will probably vary wildly.

Bored businessman I was working with a client recently to refine their marketing message and the use of social media and advertising to share their message. Like most homeowners, agents, brokers, and entrepreneurs, the client LOVED their product. And it is a genuinely great product. I buy it and even give it as a gift to others. The client was insistent on sharing all the reasons the product was great. "We won these awards and recognition, and everyone tells me they love it."

Okay, you're great. I happen to strongly agree. The problem is the typical consumer does not know you, has been trained to not trust advertising, is bombarded by messages they've had to learn to ignore, and has no relationship with you. The same goes for any business audience, including an audience of one.

You care, they don't. Many homeowners (and unfortunately many agents) miss this critical point when thinking about buyers. And forcing your message on them is more likely to irritate them than interest them. After all, how do you feel about pop-up advertisements when browsing and sales calls at dinner? Same thing.

The problem this creates for effective communication is that if someone does not care about your listing, topic, product, or message, they will likely ignore you. The fact you care might instill curiosity or at least some level of mutual courtesy. Maybe. But not likely.

So what can you do about this? Here are a few ideas to consider:

1. Realize that not everyone will care about your house, brochure, listing or other service or product. Accept it. Embrace it. You'll feel better right away because this acceptance will mean generally mean that it is not all about you any longer. It is nothing personal (usually).

 2. Be of true value to the consumer or audience. Immediately. Don't waste their valuable time first.

3. Unless someone comes to you asking questions, never educate first. I don't have the time or patience for everyone to teach me why I need to listen to them. I'm sure you don't and neither does your audience.

4. Have a clear point. Don't make anyone work too hard to understand the maximum value or benefit. Cute or witty may get your advertising firm a nice award, but will it consistently sell your property, idea, product or service?

Naturally, there are a host of other great ideas on sharing a message and there is no single magic approach. If there such a single approach, we'd all know everything and advertising agencies would have no purpose to exist.

Just be sure to honestly put yourself in the position of your audience. If they won't care, you've got work to do. And that's okay; we've all got work to do on this.

 

 

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Glenn S. Phillips is the CEO of Lake Homes Realty, the multi-state, full-service, lake-focused real estate brokerage powered by LakeHomes.com.

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marti garaughty
garaughty.com - Montreal, QC
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Sep 29, 2012 03:33 AM
Melissa Marro
Keller Williams First Coast Realty - The Marro Team - Orange Park, FL
Jacksonville Real Estate and Home Staging

really good advice. If you don't understand the position of your customer and what their needs and cares are then you will not win them over. 

Sep 30, 2012 01:24 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Great Post.  You know what is right and YOU care.

Sep 30, 2012 07:46 AM