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Marinating in Joie de Vivre

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Mel Peterson - Joie de VivreMarinating in Joie de Vivre.  Lately, I've had to remind myself to step away from the ledge.  I say that with my tongue held firmly in my cheek... we all need reminders... yes?!

I was reading an email I received from a friend awhile back and it made me smile.  It said... 'Declaring your strength gives you joy, as if you're marinating in it.  Many of your blogs come from this place.  Your marinade bubbles over.  Some might call it Joie de Vivre.'

My 'marinade' bubbled over in the form of tears this past week... something I've struggled with my entire life.  I rarely cry in front of others... perhaps I've considered it a form of weakness.  Not any more.  My tears, which have quietly been reserved for those closest to me, are now flowing like a river that can't be dammed.  I say... let em' flow!    

For the past 18 months, my colleagues and I have worked tirelessly to present our REALTOR Association with an MLS joint venture that will benefit  our REALTOR members.  The idea has been met with approval by the majority of REALTOR members in our community.  However, a small factious group has threatened to stop our efforts with a recall petition and now a lawsuit.  In my younger days, I would've put up my dukes and invited the challenge.  But, not today.  Instead, I'm taking a deep breath, I'm going to drink a mocha, kick up my heels and marinate in Joie de Vivre.  

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Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

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Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Oh, you gotta be kidding? I can't believe it Mel...those rascals. I'll think positive things and hope they don't stall the efforts for too long. Enjoy your mocha and Joie de Vivre marinade. ;) Crying is a lovely form of emotion - it also helps reset some chemicals in our brain. To quote the experts:

Tears are a body’s route to recovery; the return to a state of rest. Let them flow. xxxooo

Aug 27, 2012 02:33 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Mel, Yep, everything will turn out the intended way...why worry and stress about it? Great attitude and go ahead MIJdV!

Aug 27, 2012 02:34 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

I like your philosophy Lou!  I'm doing just that!

Yes indeed... Debb!  Those rascals are messing with my Joy ;-)  I'm hoping it will be over soon so I can resume my regularly scheduled life... looking forward to hanging with you girls at the lake... soon!!!

Makes me think of the song... Don't Worry, Be Happy!  It's represents my life mantra... Wanda.  Now you've got me contemplating selling leather bracelets with the initials... MIJDV ;-)))

Aug 27, 2012 02:45 AM
Dale Bledsoe
Crown Key Realty - Tracy, CA
Realtor in Tracy, California

The title of your blog really grabbed my attention and your words were felt in my heart. Very nice way for you to have started my day. Thank you. Your work for a better MLS for your Association will benefit many if it is received with open minds. Good luck and a really good blog.

Aug 27, 2012 03:00 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Mel my friend-In life there is unfortunately bad apples that try to spoil the whole bunch. While you are soaking in your marinade of joy may those nasty apples rot in their jealous juice of misery. Just think Fishhawk Lake next month and your marinade will be overflowing with peace and love.

Aug 27, 2012 03:27 AM
Mary Elizabeth Allen
Lake Monticello, VA

Mel - we are SO alike in that crying thing! I red-hot hate for anyone to see me cry (unless it's sappy movie stuff, cuz that's different). My best friend, whom I've known since I was 18, has seen me break down and sob exactly once. Once, in all the years we've known each other.

And as for that other MLS issue, don't let 'em get you down! Haters gonna hate, but your sunshine will outlast them all. And I'm glad your sunshine was back on the Rain today! :)

Aug 27, 2012 03:48 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Thank you kindly... Dale!  I'm glad I could bring a smile to your day ;-)  Smiles... it's one of the most precious gifts we can give to others... and it doesn't cost a thing!

'Jealous Juice of Misery'... had to LOL on that one Sharon!  Thank you for making me smile this morning.  It's a new day... and it will be filled with Joy!  I'm definitely looking forward to a reunion with the girls!

Oh MEA... Thank you for your lovely email (I've been buried and wanted to respond sooner).  Your words of encouragement have brought sunshine to my day!  It's funny, I can relate to your 'best-friend' story too... I think my BF has seen me cry twice in 35 years (ok, I'm dating myself here).  Now, I'm going to have to stop by and say hello to your blog!

Aug 27, 2012 04:16 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Oh, Mel,

This post is a delight, and it set off my marketing mind to new heights.  Have a great week, LOL A

Aug 27, 2012 05:23 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Mel,  There will always be these few "rascals" that want to fight mainstream and/or create controversy.  Life is too short ... marinate in all that is good.  Reading your blog makes me bubble over too!  Thank you :-D

Aug 27, 2012 06:07 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

I'm glad you think so... Alexandra!  I'm often inspired by your beautiful pics of Santa Barbara and I couldn't help but think of you when I used this pic for my post.  There's something quite freeing about kicking up one's heels ;)))

It's nice to see your smiling face Kathleen!  Once of these days, we need to get together for a cup of 'joy' (smiles) and laugh out loud ;)))

 

Aug 27, 2012 06:24 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Don't know the details, but when a few want to rock the boat and kick up their heels and want to spoil it, yes it's frustrating.  All we can say is we tired and celebrate the Joie de Vivre ... marinate in that, then in one's own juices I say!!!

Aug 27, 2012 07:08 AM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Joie de what?  (HS Spanish...go figure)

Mel, I say, turn up the heat, boil off the impurities, and let 'em stew. 

Carpe Mocha!   Brian

Aug 27, 2012 07:52 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Had to laugh Carla... 'All we can say is we tired (hee hee, ain't that the truth) and celebrate'... yes indeed!

The inspiration for this post... Brian!  I like your advice and I'm going to Carpe Mocha in an hour ;))) 

Aug 27, 2012 08:46 AM
Florida Tolbert Team Keller Williams Advantage
Keller Williams Advantage III Realty in Lake Nona - Orlando, FL
Keller Williams Land Luxury Division Specialist

Mel,

I have mango margaritas that can make it all better. 

Aug 27, 2012 10:27 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

I can't believe any Realtor would sue a board over an MLS. In the bigger picture this is a reflection of our country, the majority cannot rule because ohters can sue knowing they will lose bu they can be heard yet a second and third time.

Aug 27, 2012 12:46 PM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

Hi Mel, Marinating in Joie de Vivre - what a wonderfully positive blog title! No matter what you do in life or business, there will always be a few who fight everything ... many a times, just because! I have full faith that your dedication was not in vain .. 

The tears are perfectly fine Mel.. and therapeutic, too!

Aug 27, 2012 01:21 PM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Seems like some are taking things a little too serious...your attitude is a joy!

Aug 27, 2012 09:42 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Gary ~ I keep asking myself... Are we having fun yet?  And I keep waiting for the answer to change.  Perhaps that's Einstein's definition of insanity ;-)

... at least not in public... Richard!  I don't think I could spin this story any better than it's already spinning... I'm getting dizzy as we speak.  I appreciate the support... a boat ride on the lake could provide temporary relief for what ails me ;-) 

Aug 29, 2012 05:13 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Miss Mel~that boatride and much more await you with open arms (much like your profile photo)!  We can sit on the lake, by the lake, moonwalk with one of your four-legged friends, talk til we are completely talked OUT, then simply bask in our galpal friendships while the sun goes down on another perfectly spent getaway-day at Fishhawk Lake.

Can't wait!!!

Aug 30, 2012 03:19 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Totally smiling out loud on that one... Kevin!  I may have to become a margarita fan!

I hear ya Charles! 

Thank you Andrea!  The credit for the inspiring title goes to fellow rainer... The Wizard Behind the Curtain 


Aug 31, 2012 03:31 AM