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Commemorating Texas Women

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"History, despite it's wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again." --- Maya Angelou 



Texas Women

 

Women's Museum, an Institute for the future is located in Fair Park: www.thewomen'muem.org

 

Texas Women University, a public University located in Denton, Dallas, and Houston. www.twu.ed.

 

National Cowgirl Museum and Hall of fame, located in Fort Worth. www.cowgirl.net

 

Women who shaped Texas History: http://www.womenintexashistory.org/bios/

 

Texas Women who overcame adversity in a BIG way:

Sarah Horton Cockrell (1819 – 1892) - As a widow, she was left in debt, with small children, and a ferry business. Rather than just pine away, Sarah set up Corporations of her own, including The Dallas Bridge Company and S.H. Cockrell, a flour mill business. She is credited to the construction of the first iron bridge over the Trinity River in Dallas. 

 

Lizzie Johnson (1840 – 1924) - Affectionately known as the "Cattle Queen of Texas," after the Civil War, Lizzie rounded up her cattle - she was the first woman who drove cattle over the Chisholm Trail. She also worked for the Women's Christian Temperance Union and a strong voice for Prison Reform. In 1871 Lizzie Johson was the most successful Cattle Dealer and Real Estate Investor in Texas. 


Bessie Coleman (1892 – 1926) - Born to an illiterate slave, she is the first Black American Woman Aviator & Barnstormer. Since no American school would take her, she went to Aviator School in France to earn her Pilot's License.

 

Author's Note: Why are these three women are significant to me personally? As a widow, I was left in huge debt and no life insurance policy with two children and no job because he wanted me to be a stay at home mom. To support myself and make sure my children had opportunities for growth and development, I took a job as far away from home as possible (from Lake County, IL to Denmark, Maine) where I worked as a Bookkeeper at Wyonegonic Camps for five years and my children became campers, Counselors in Training & Camp Counselors, one for 8 years; the other 10 years). We lived in a rustic environment, no luxuries, learning to navigate by flashlight and the stars. I believe I got my courage from my Grandfather who left Austria and immigrated to America, working at the Coal Mines in PA; then leaving PA for IL to construct bridges over the Chicago River. Although I'm not a Real Estate Investor, I am a Realtor in Dallas, Fort Worth. Although not born a slave, I slaved my whole life to become educated and I worked hard to support myself and my children. I started working at 13 years old; then cleaned classrooms to pay for my parochial High School Tuition. When my daughter quit Public School and wanted a better education, I fought to get her enrolled in a High School/College Prep School. Because I didn't have the financial means, the only way the school would take her is if I committed to an agreement that was against my moral principals. I fought for three weeks and I won. She was enrolled, after school started, graduated, receiving $1,000 in Scholarship money for College; then went on to earn her Masters in Education; currently working on a PhD. My daughter had to go overseas to further her education and get a job. None of us were ever privileged to any type of entitlement. I wouldn't change the past for all the gold in that pot at the end of the Rainbow.

 

©Patricia Feager 11/28/2015

 

 

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
3575 LONE STAR CIRCLE SUITE 315
FORT WORTH, TEXAS 76177

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Comments(28)

Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Dear Ron and Alexandra Seigel - Your words are tugging at my heart right now. I'm at a coffee shop trying not to get emotional in public by myself. Thank you for really reading what I write and because you get me, I appreciate you very much. 

You're absolutely right! There are a lot of whining people coming in by the boat loads who clearly are getting entitlements because that's the new change in America. Ironically, I stumbled upon an old letter I received from a guy I knew from the neighborhood where I grew up. He mentioned that his parents came to America in 1950 with only $5.00 in their pockets and that's how it was for others at that time. I'm  sure if my Grandfather had lived longer than when I was five, and if he spoke English, he would have had a similar story. If the Coal Mines contributed to his early death, my family didn't know and there was no compensation nor where there big Lawyers on T.V. saying you could get big money for your claim, pain and suffering. 

I know I'm not the only one who suffered hardship but I never thought of it that way because shame got in the way. I've kept stories like mine hidden until I had the nerve to blog and share the fabrics of my soul. You consistently know how to uplift me when I need it the most. Thank you very much. Alexandra, you're like a soul sister.

Nov 28, 2015 12:33 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Patricia - this is inspiring.  It is important to profile women's courage and achievements.  I would agree too with Roger and Sharon.  I love your conviction and spirit.

Nov 28, 2015 02:50 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

I simply cannot beat Alexandra's comment. She is so right about you. Wear it proudly, Patricia. You are an amazing woman- strong, brave, resilient and gracious. 

Nov 28, 2015 03:08 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Debb Janes I consider you and Alexandra (Ron and Alexandra Seigel) examples of women of courage. I believe I spent so many years trying to prove my worth for the sake of survival I didn't even notice how others perceive me because it was more important for me to raise kids to become educated and respectable towards others. I guess I never peaked behind the curtain and looked at myself. Thank you for letting me know what you think of me.  

Nov 28, 2015 07:18 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Patricia, I always enjoyed getting to know you better and the interactions we enjoyed here on the Rain. Wow you are an amazing and strong woman... funny there is a connection you living in Maine... we living in MA....so I am sure you love Maine Lobster too:)) Your family coming from Austria... I lived almost four years in Austria.... anyway loved how you shared your trials and tribulations.... must admit Women are much stronger than Men.....Endre

Nov 28, 2015 03:49 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Endre Barath, Jr. - Austria is a place where I would love to visit some day. My daughter tells me it's beautiful and she felt something mystical about being present while she drove through the mountains and her heart was at peace. You will probably enjoy this story - the first time I convinced my spouse how important it was for us to take a family vacation, I picked Massachusetts. He borrowed a friend's camper, we drove to Cape Cod and went camping. For years, adults my age would say, "You took your kids to Cape Cod and not Disneyland?" I said yes, and they loved it! By the way, none of us ever went to Disneyland and the kids never asked to go either! So I guess, we didn't miss Disneyland, but we sure loved Massachusetts, especially pulling the Camper around the hair-pin turns at night to get to the camp site while driving across the wide state of Massachusetts! My heart was in my throat and the kids screamed the whole time but they loved it too!


Can you imagine a world where both men and women were balanced when it comes to being strong - I'll bet there would be more rational thinking!


 

Nov 28, 2015 07:27 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

I am curious, Patricia, what did the school insist that you do that was against your morals? It's odd that you would write a post today about women in history because that's what I did, too. See, two peas in a pod. Coincidinky? I don't think so.

Nov 28, 2015 05:22 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

I can't wait to read your post Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Real Estate Agent, Top 1% of Lyon Agents! Two peas in a pod? I love that idea!


Honestly, I don't feel comfortable sharing what happened at the school.   

Nov 28, 2015 07:31 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Patricia- there is so much to admire about you, Patricia.  You are sensitive and always supportive of others.  So many women have had to gather all of their strength just to support not only themselves but their families. You did what you had to do, no whining or making excuses.  Stand proud, as I know you do, and continue to set an example for us all. 

Nov 28, 2015 06:31 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Kathy Streib - you're such a great woman Kathy. Wouldn't it be great to have an AR Women's Retreat on the beach where you live in Florida? We'd spread out our blankets and share women's stories and for the painful ones, we'd break up pieces of shells and toss them back into the ocean. Then, we'd build a fire, sip wine or lemonade to comfort one another as we empathized with each other. Those of us who experienced the storms of life that wore us down like the sands of time before our prime would feel refreshed and validated by our peers. And what was said on the beach would roll away with the surf as the sun went down. We'd spend the night talking and those who were tired would sleep but in the morning before we departed we would remind each other that broken spirits, like broken shells are never alone and the pieces, though they can't be put back together, remain strong and very beautiful, regardless of age or condition.


Your words of wisdom were inspirational - as you can tell, caused my mind to wander, reminding myself that great thoughts are like hard drift wood, very smooth and supportive too. I love to walk the beach, to stand up and notice things like broken shells and drift wood with the sound of the ocean lapping against the shore. Thanks again Kathy.

Nov 28, 2015 07:47 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Sharon Tara - Those friends of yours are examples of women of courage. They are the untold stories kids don't read about in school but if faced with adversity figure out how to achieve the impossible without a graduate degree, trophies, or recognition. They are the women you could bet your life on and they would never let you down. Thank you for sharing these stories of amazing women who you know and admire personally. I wish them peace of heart, continued success, good health and true happiness. May they always have close friends like you. Thanks Sharon.

Nov 28, 2015 06:55 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Brian England and Kathy Streib - Kathy is right! I'm just a transplant and there is no substitute for the real native born Texas Woman. They are proud and they are right about everything! 

And about those signs, "Don't Mess with Texas!" Those are law abiding signs and it's true - nobody better mess with Texas! I learned that during the first 3 weeks living in Texas. 

Nov 28, 2015 07:04 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Grant Schneider - I think it's beautiful that you are an advocate for women's rights and you support your daughters in becoming confident in who they are as young women. As Americans I think this is an area for improvement and it begins with equal pay. By the way, have you seen the movie, "Suffragette?" It's one of the most important movies I've seen in a very long time. At the end of the film, they list the countries by order of when women earned the right to vote and I was surprised to see that in Russia, woman earned the right to vote before women in America. In Switzerland, it was 1973. But even worse, women at the Vatican still can't vote.

Nov 28, 2015 07:12 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia these women set an example not only for other women but for men as well. 

Nov 28, 2015 08:00 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

When it comes to support, you're a true trouper George Souto ! We can all gain strength from a man or woman who leads with conviction and makes a difference for the greater good. To be in that 20% who sets a fine example for others to follow is really commendable.

Nov 28, 2015 09:05 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello my friend Patricia,  interesting blog and more interesting for all those Texas Women.

Nov 28, 2015 08:48 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

You're a great friend Will Hamm. Thank you for your continuous support to so many of us here on ActiveRain.

Nov 28, 2015 09:09 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Thanks Will Hamm for your kindness and support. All the best to you!!!

Nov 28, 2015 09:06 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Your story and the other 3 ladies you mentioned are all very inspiring Patricia Feager, MBA, GRI, Cert Negotiations Expert, Military Relo Prof 

Nov 28, 2015 10:39 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Thank you Bob "RealMan" Timm... and it has nothing to do with any particular breed of women either.'

Nov 29, 2015 08:00 AM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

This is really cool Patricia, Texas has so many wonderful women that need mentioning.

Nov 28, 2015 11:13 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Thanks Noah Seidenberg!

Nov 29, 2015 08:01 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Patrica

Thank for sharing the information on Commermotating Texas Woman.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Nov 28, 2015 12:25 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

I appreciate your support Lou Ludwig 

Nov 29, 2015 08:01 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Patricia Feager, MBA, GRI, Cert Negotiations Expert, Military Relo Prof ,

You are an amazing woman who clearly worked to show your children they were truly loved. Education can be the key to success which I'm sure your daughter feels such gratitude for you helping her down that path. You are

so supportive of not only your children but others. I admire you greatly!

 

 

Nov 28, 2015 10:00 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

I am touched by your comments Dorie Dillard - that was so kind of you to say. Every woman wears a dress of their own and many generations of women have learned to cover up the wounded scars with humilty.

Nov 29, 2015 08:04 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Patricia, this post is so powerful, and know how far you have come with two kids.   You have done so well my friend!   Your name should be on this list too!

Nov 28, 2015 11:20 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

You're an angel Joan Cox - thank you.

Nov 29, 2015 08:05 AM
Kimo Stowell
HI Pro Realty LLC RB-21531 - Honolulu, HI
REALTOR Associate® RS-76763 - Honolulu Hawai'i

Aloha Patricia, If every man was forced to live a s a woman for a year, what  would the world be like? It would be a world with a lot more appreciation for the experience's of individuals without the chauvinistic clap trap. 

Nov 29, 2015 06:27 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Thank you Kimo Stowell - a woman shouldn't be measured by her hardships but by how she manages to survive adversities without being a burden to society or to others. Your comment is very thought provoking. Too many women have been silent. I do wonder what kind of world we'd have if, as you say, "every man was forced to live as a woman for a year." This would make an excellent essay, don't you think?

Nov 29, 2015 07:59 AM
Kimo Stowell

The irony of the experiences could fill a million hours of prime-time TV but it would also change the world. Imagine how most men would fare applying makeup everyday, dressing in skirts, and dealing with the judgment, rejection, and all that mind numbing objectification. The reality is most of what we define as gender really isn't gender at all, but affected behaviors used to define our perceptions of what it means to be one gender or another. Hats off to you my dear for having to work over the slippery shellac of chauvinism.

Nov 29, 2015 09:45 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Looks like Texas has always had courageous pioneer women in every fold of our culture with you Patricia Feager being one of the most extraordinary and forward thinking.  You are a dynamo and your children were raised with a moral compass, values and an incredible appreciation of their mother's strength-now that is not only a legacy to Texas but to this nation.

Nov 29, 2015 10:40 AM