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Are You Green With Envy?

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Is there a luxury real estate marketing team in your marketplace that is just “knocking it out of the ball park”? Are you “green with envy” or are you inspired by them to excel in you own practice?

 

Envy can be a strong motivational force that can either spur you on to greatness or hold you right in place. There is nothing wrong with feeling jealousy or envy, providing that you do not hold on to those feelings too long. Instead, just move on as quickly as possible. Make a rapid transition from being motivated by envy to being inspired by your competition.

 

One symptom that you are holding on too long to envy is attempting to copy your competitor’ moves. If you are a basketball fan you may have noticed that more and more players are attempting to copy Stephen Curry’s (Golden State Warriors) remarkable three-point shots from well behind the three-point line.

 

The real secret to the success of GSW, including Stephen’s personal achievements, is the team’s esprit de corps. GSW ended the 2015-2016 regular season with the best record in the history of basketball. Having fun and getting all players engaged takes a higher priority than individual accomplishment. It is from that ground of being that Stephen has soared.

 

Those players who attempt to copy Stephen wind up playing “hero ball”. Fixated on getting admiration from others, which they think is the prize, these heroes try to take their entire team on their shoulders to save the day.

 

The funny thing about GSW is that their team spirit is inimitable! If you are able to duplicate it, you make it your own in your own way. This is different from copying the moves of other teams.

 

The only other team that has this philosophy in the NBA is the San Antonio Spurs. It is very likely that the Western Conference will be a battle between the Warriors and Spurs. You may prefer one to the other. But, true basketball fans will be thoroughly entertained and richly rewarded simply by watching basketball played at its highest level in that playoff series.

 

There is no scarcity of admiration for these two teams or their individual players. They have both transcended the need to fan the flames of hero worship. The respect for each other is high because each of the members of these teams know the secret that esprit de corps is more important than playing hero ball.

 

Remember; if you find yourself feeling green with envy in your luxury real estate marketing practice, quickly make the transition from being jealous of your competitors and worrying that they are getting too much admiration, to being inspired by them.

 

Written by Ron & Alexandra Seigel-

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Comments(33)

Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning A & R. I am always inspired by greatness and am always striving to better at what I do and from time to time, hit a home run, but I don't mind a lot of singles.

Apr 28, 2016 07:45 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning A.  I envy no-one as I am in competition with just one person and that person is me. 

Apr 28, 2016 08:48 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Alexandra and Ron. Unique and focused says it for me. You can't be someone else but you can learn from someone else.

Apr 28, 2016 10:21 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I think it is wrong for small children to copy the long range shots that Steph is able to make, it will certainly hinder their skill progression.  Instead they should copy his pre-game workout routine that has become quite the rave, where he is working on his ball handling skills!

Apr 29, 2016 12:37 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

I've never been envious of anyone or anything.....

Apr 29, 2016 03:01 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Envy can be paralyzing - remember "Iago" who was green with envy!!! But, I agree that it is so important to feel motivated to be the best that you can be and admire the competition and learn from them! Great post

Apr 29, 2016 06:16 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Alexandra and Ron -- green is better in a pocket than in an approach to life.      

Apr 29, 2016 07:12 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Michael Jacobs you have such a great way with words, and you summarized this post beautifully.  Thank you.  A

Apr 29, 2016 08:23 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Ed Silva I agree that they have good coaches, and "Pop" set the tone for what coaching should look like.  Steve Kerr played for great coaches from college to the pros.  It is good to see the coaching evolution from the Pat Riley style "The Art of War", to Steve Kerr style.  A

Apr 29, 2016 08:25 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Larry Johnston I happen to be a big fan of Andrew Wyeth, and my favorite painting is  "Christina's world!", and another one where the curtain is coming into the window pushed by the wind...I don't know the name of that one.  A

Apr 29, 2016 08:27 AM
Larry Johnston

Ron and Alexandra Seigel,  Hi Alexandra, that would be "Wind from the Sea"

Apr 29, 2016 12:33 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Joanna Cohlan there is no doubt that Iago demonstrates the pitfall of jealousy...and we all have seen moments like this with people we know.  A

Apr 29, 2016 08:28 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Brian England You are so right about that...they should be practicing the fundamentals instead of the tricks.  I think that few people realize that practicing the fundamentals every day regardless of how years one has been in any profession is what allows you to come up with the trick shots.  A

Apr 29, 2016 08:30 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Ron and Alexandra Seigel ,

Love your advice! Get inspired by your competition and make things happen! I loved Michael Jacobs comment! "green is better in a pocket than in an approach to life!" So true!!!!

Apr 29, 2016 11:17 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

It doesn't pay to sit on the sidelines and let all the others pass you by. Get moving and make some positive changes.

Apr 30, 2016 01:44 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

 

                   Thank you Ron and Alexandra Seigel for my ah-ha moment. 

Apr 30, 2016 10:43 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Excellent advice and you and Ron inspire us all. Love Michael's comment.

Apr 30, 2016 10:30 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Thanks to Kathy I was able to see your post this week..congrats on being included in her wrap up!

May 01, 2016 12:09 AM
Kimo Stowell
HI Pro Realty LLC RB-21531 - Honolulu, HI
REALTOR Associate® RS-76763 - Honolulu Hawai'i

Aloha RnA, the better of two evils, envy and jealousy, is envy. Envy wants what you have which can indeed motivate those who recognize their own potential and  are brave enough to go for it.

Jealousy, however, despises someone else for having achieved that which they themselves have only wished to achieved. Jealousy combined with Envy is how wars are started. 

Envy in the hands of the jealous is a dangerous weapon. Envy in the hands of an ethical humanitarian drives one to answer the question, if others have done it why can't I?

May 03, 2016 06:45 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Larry Johnston thanks for letting me the name of that picture...Wind from the sea is aptly named.

May 03, 2016 06:51 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kimo Stowell Neither one of us gets jealous or envious for very long.  We remember that they are showing us it can be done, and inspire us to do that too. A

May 03, 2016 06:52 AM