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The 11 Stages of Real Estate Blogging; My Emotional Roller Coaster Ride!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with LKN Realty, LLC 242267

 

 Curiosity: 

 I remember first learning about blogs several years ago when a political commentator announced to those of us that subscribed to her email that she would now be writing a blog instead.  I didn't bother to visit her "blog thing".

Months passed and then one day I decided to sit in on an Inman News conference call about real estate blogs.  One of the guests, Ardell, said the magic words: she got all of her new leads from her blog.

 

 

 Commitment:

At this point I didn't know a widget from an RSS Feed and I thought that embedding had something to do with reporters in Iraq. 

I realized that I needed to do a lot of reading to try and understand this new language.  I found the Real Estate Tomato, RSS Pieces, Copyblogger, ActiveRain, Searching Seattle, Long Beach Real Estate, Miamism, St. Paul Real Estate Blog, 3 OceansMybloglog, Real Estate Voices, Trulia Voices, Meebo, and, of course, istock.

 

 

   

 Fear: 

I called RSS Pieces and  they designed my blog. 

There is was, a frame with no picture; a book cover with no content; a blog with no posts.  The fear set in.  What do I write first?  Aren't readers going to wonder why I have a blog with only one post?  Who is my target audience?  What if I get no hits at all?

I looked at all of the successful real estate blogs again.  They were like an encyclopedia of information. I had none.

RSS Pieces told me I needed to write at least 3 posts a week.  I just sold 3 properties in one week.  How was  I going to find the time to write so many posts let alone read and make posts and comments on ActiveRain?

 

 

 

 Lonliness: 

Everyone was laughing at me:  the tech support people who created my blog had that tone in their voices that just made me want to hide.  Okay, so I don't know how to add a picture to a post.  But, I'll bet you don't know how to sell real estate.

And what is all this chatter on ActiveRain about carnivals and what does TLW  ROAR!  mean?  I felt like I did the first day in a new high school in a strange city.  Who was I going to sit with at lunch?  Is everyone laughing at me? 

 

 

 

 Addiction: 

So, I started to write.  First I wrote some posts for my own blog and then a few posts on ActiveRain.  I started out slowly but the more I wrote and the more comments I made the better I felt.  And, I got a post featured...wow, it was amazing!  I guess my BA in English from Berkeley wasn't useless after all. (Dad)

Pretty soon stacks of paper began to pile up next to my desk:  One was for articles about blogs, one was for ideas for future posts, one was for posts I just had to write this week, one was magazines and newspapers I had to read for more ideas.

Before I knew it, I was writing every day.  Once in a while I had to attend a closing or a meeting and darn all those newspapers and magazines piling up.  But wait, there may be ideas for posts in them....read, I must read them all, I must read them all now.

 

 

 

  

Insanity:

Before I knew it, I was waking up in the middle of the night, would start thinking of topics for posts and never get back to sleep. 

I had a scratch pad in my car to write down ideas when they came to me. 

Everything seemed to lead to a new topic for a post. 

My brain was on overload. 

Too many ideas , too much to learn, too much to read, too much to write. 

Heeeeellllllllpppppppp Meeeeeeeee!

 

 

 

Desire and Commitment 

The fear and frenzy gave way to a more focused approach to learning.  I realized I wanted to be successful at generating leads through blogging and I was committed to spending the hours and days and months and years it would take to do so.  

 

 

  

 

 Excitement:

The words began to find their way to the computer screen.  I wrote with a passion I hadn't felt in a long time.  I wrote about topics about which I honestly cared and about which I actually had some expertise.  I wrote about my 16+ years of real estate experiences, the community I love, and even tried to make a contribution to the ActiveRain community by writing comments. This was fun! 

 

 

 

 Joy: 

Good things started to happen.  The number of hits on my blog was steadily increasing.  My posts were getting more comments.  A few more of my posts got featured on ActiveRain.  And, I won a contest.  Wow, was I happy...I didn't even know who to tell first, my mom, my husband, my kids, my clients and friends!

 

 

 

 Happiness:

I think I can actually do this blogging business with the support of all those around me.  I no longer wonder if but know, while I still have a lot to learn, that I am going to make it happen and I am going to enjoy it no matter what because I have found something that challenges my creativity and my writing skills while pushing me to constantly be learning and stepping outside my comfort zone.

 

 

 

                                                    

Fulfillment:

Last week I closed three sales with three wonderful couples I had originally met online.  Knowing that they are settled in homes and communities that they love and that I made a difference in their lives is what all of this is truly all about.

Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

TLW:  That's great...Eleanor would approve!

Aug 29, 2007 02:47 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Lane:  Yes, this is what I would call a fluid snapshot of life as a blogger.  At any given time we may find ourselves in not one but several of these emotional states!
Aug 29, 2007 02:49 AM
Brian Quigley - 720-524-3215
The Mortgage Network NMLS#244003 - Denver, CO
COBROKER1 - NMLS#2085418 Beacon Lending
Thanks the words of encouragement for the newbies
Aug 29, 2007 04:20 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Brian, I'm glad they are encouraging words, that is what I was aiming for plus a bit of humor!
Aug 29, 2007 08:05 AM
Dru Bloomfield
The Penrose Team - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale AZ Real Estate

Diane, Not many monsoons this year, but lots of record breaking heat. 

Aug 29, 2007 11:23 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents
I remembered going through the exact stages..... Till today, I dont know what ROAR means.....
Aug 29, 2007 11:27 AM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Diane-I love this post!  You put a lot of thought and energy into this.  I thought for a moment i was reading on my experience in the rain.  I'm sure a lot of us have felt that way.  Keep up you fabulous posts, I look forward to reading more. 
Aug 30, 2007 04:34 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate
Diane:  What a great post.  I am not sure where on your list I happen to be right now.  There are little bits and pieces of several of the steps going on in my brain right now.  I joined Active Rain about two weeks ago, and I am less confused in some areas, and more confused in others.  But, I will print your list, and maybe if I put it under my pillow, everything will be alright.  LOL  Thanks for the cool post.
Aug 30, 2007 05:41 PM
Arizona Real Estate Associate Broker
MR Realty - Mesa, AZ

Diane~

Thank you so much for stopping by my post and suggesting I read your post here! You wrote it so much better than I could express in words to my best friend. Great job/post! I feel frustrated and yet excited to learn all I can with blogging! It's nice to know that I am not alone discovering this learning curve..at times I have felt I must be really not getting it and yet I kept going with all the great posts and support! I am pressing forward and look forward to expanding my knowledge with ActiveRain! Happy Blogging!

Aug 30, 2007 08:33 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
Diane - this is fabulous and I love your pictures!!  You figured that part out very well, didn't you?  GREAT post.  Gave you a five and a big smile.  :oD
Aug 30, 2007 08:52 PM
Pamela Burdette-Miller
RE/MAX Unlimited Real Estate - Danbury, CT
Diane, Thank you, thank you, thank you! I'm new to blogging (11 days) and am happy to see that the fear stage is normal! Knowledge is power and may help me avoid or shorten some of these stages, but if I find that I'm in the midst of one, I'll feel normal.  Thanks again. 
Aug 30, 2007 11:59 PM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Dru:  So I heard...how many days over 110 degrees?  Yikes.  Thanks for your comment
Aug 31, 2007 01:23 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Loreena:  Thanks for the comment.  I think ROAR exemplifies TLW's zest for life and personal strength.
Aug 31, 2007 01:25 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Julie, you are so kind.  Thank you for the encouragement!  I loved writing this post...it was inside my head for quite a while and I finally spent the time to write it!

 

Karen Anne:  Welcome!  I think there is no particular order to these emotions.  I find that I go back and forth depending on the day but the rewards are AWESOME so hang in there.  If I can help in any way drop me an email!

 

Candice:  I'm so glad it was worth it to stop by!  On any given day I will sit back and wonder if I am really going to get this blogging thing down.  One post at a time!

Aug 31, 2007 01:32 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Sarah:  Thanks!  Ever since I discovered istockphotos.com I have been like a kid in a candy store.  This post took hours but it was because I wanted to find just the right picture for each emotion but it was really fun too!

 

Pamela:  Welcome to you!  We all go through these emotions over and over.  Congratulations on joining this awesome ActiveRain community.  You now have 44,000 new friends who will help you succeed.  Call any of us any time!

Aug 31, 2007 01:36 AM
Gary Bolen
McCall Realty - South Lake Tahoe, CA
CRS - Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information

Diane, this is a cool, fun post. Know the phases as we think we all have them. The insanity and addiction images are in the really realm. Good show.

Also want to thank you for taking your time to comment on the crest nonsense we recently did. Like your post here, it was most appreciated. 

Sep 02, 2007 05:40 AM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
What a encouragement! I felt many of the same feelings that you articulated so well. I was and still am learning blog world, and I have book marked your site for all of those real estate links. Thanks for sharing     :)
Sep 03, 2007 12:23 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Gary:  The most fun was finding the picutures!  Thanks for the comment!

 

Diane:  Thank you!

Sep 03, 2007 02:02 AM
Jolynne Photography, Creative Wedding Photography, Family Portraits, Bar Mitzvahs
Jolynne Photography - Hemet, CA
Bat Mitzvahs, Senior Pictures, Event Photography
Hello Diane...I'm not sure if there's a 'statute of limitations' on how long a post can be around before it's featured, but this is a fantastic post.  I see myself in the 'addiction phase', frantically picking up tips so that I can get more focused (especially on the localism posts).  I really appreciate your insight.  Keep in touch!
Sep 12, 2007 02:42 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Joey, you are too kind!  I had kind of hoped this one would get featured because it was so much fun to write and I thought it would make everyone laugh.  But, I'm sure glad you found it and enjoyed it, thanks so much for the comment!
Sep 12, 2007 04:16 AM