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Pay it Forward -- even when you're not home.

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Real Estate Agent with BlueCoast Realty Corporation

Pay it Forward -- even when you're not home.

I had planned to post a different Pay it Forward post this week.  But you know how it goes, make a plan and hear God laugh.  It's okay, just means I was Blessed to have more than one opportunity to Pay it Forward, who can complain about that?

I'm in Virginia this week, spending some much needed time with my Mom.  We're having a lovely visit and I'm so grateful for this week. 

I talked with CA the other day and she was in quite the mood.  Seems the school her daughter attends was having a Santa's Shop as a fundraiser for the PTA.  Now if you've never heard of this, it's a shop, full of mostly junk, where the kids can buy gifts for their loved ones.  It's a neat idea, but CA is so practical itPicture of shopping Santa just doesn't sit right with her.  She feels that if everyone can't participate then they shouldn't have it as a school sanctioned event.  I'm working on her, but she's tough when it comes to this kind of thing.

CA volunteers in the classroom 2 shifts a week and has come to know a little boy in my granddaughters class that was not going to be able to participate.  He had made a little list and the total came to $6.50.  But it was clear he would not be able to shop.  This troubled her and she spoke with the teacher to see if there was any way to get a donation from the PTA.  Evidently the answer was no.  She planned to send in some cash for him, but . . .

When we spoke I was honored to say -- "Great.  I can help him and the school at the same time.  Take some money from petty cash, say $15, and send it on shopping day.  Let his teacher know it is to be anonymous." 

Kids are my weakness, I'll admit it.  And the chance to make a little fellow feel good about himself and get to shop with his classmates was just icing on the cake of what has already been a great week.  It's like he gave me the gift.  Isn't that what Paying it Forward is all about?

I do not share my stories of paying it forward for recognition.  I share them so that others might be inspired to do what they can, when they can, where they can.  No more, no less.

 

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Realty World Cape Fear

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Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

William ~ It's sad there is such a need, but wonderful there are people like you and your wife to fill it!

Larry ~ Oh, that's this weekend?  I had it on the calendar for next YEAR!

Rene ~ Thanks!

Ralph ~ It was my honor to help this little boy with his Christmas shopping.  My daughter, (CA) has reported that he was most excited!

Dec 16, 2010 09:46 AM
Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

This is one holiday that child will never forget!  You guys are amazing.

Dec 16, 2010 09:52 AM
Cinnamon Wright
Wilmington Real Estate 4U 910.547.1446 - Wrightsville Beach, NC
Assistant to Tish Lloyd

Wish you'd seen his face today!  He told me all about buying gifts for his Mom & Dad.  I'm teary just thinking about it!

Dec 16, 2010 10:01 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hi Tish, I read CA's post and came over here to read the rest.  What a wonderful way to Pay It Forward. 

Dec 16, 2010 10:33 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Laura ~ He is the amazing one!  Imagine, a child I've never met giving me a gift.  It's priceless!

CA ~ Your description this afternoon on the phone?  Makes me teary too.  Bless his heart!  Check this out!

Dec 16, 2010 10:35 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Tish, I'm siding with Cheeky, if it excludes any student because they can't afford it?  Well that's just not right!  But of course you two come through in the pinch!  Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Dec 16, 2010 10:45 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Donna ~ It was completely my honor!

BLiz ~ Yeah, really can't argue with her on that point.   Just thankful I was in a position to help!  MERRY CHRISTMAS to youse guys too!

Dec 16, 2010 10:54 AM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Tish, many people in a position to help don't bother going the extra yard to just do it.  You guys (all three of you) are just amazing in my book.  You just keep on giving and dreaming up new ways to just keep on giving.  Have a super holiday and enjoy the rest of your visit with your Mom.

Dec 16, 2010 11:45 AM
Cindy Marchant
Keller Williams Indy NE 317-290-7775 www.marchantteam.com - Carmel, IN
"Cindy in Indy" , Realtor, Fishers Real Estate

So great that you were able to help...my weakness is kids too!

Dec 16, 2010 01:21 PM
Melissa McKinney
Everything Pines Partners Fayetteville - Fayetteville, NC
Realtor, www.LivingFayetteville.com

That little boy has angles all around him..... He must feel so special! Way to go Tish!

Dec 16, 2010 01:21 PM
William James Walton Sr.
WEICHERT, REALTORS® - Briotti Group - Waterbury, CT
Greater Waterbury Real Estate

Now, that's the way to pay it forward, Tish! We should never miss an opportunity to pay it forward, because the do show up in the oddest ways.

Dec 16, 2010 01:43 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Pass the tissue please.................you did it again Tish..............proud to be your friend...........the woman with the heart of gold and as big as the sky!

Dec 16, 2010 02:34 PM
Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

Awesome job, Tish.  I'm sure you helped some child feel  proud that he or she could participate. 

Dec 16, 2010 04:56 PM
Steve Baklaich
RE/MAX Results St Cloud Mn real estate - Saint Cloud, MN
Treating Buyers & Sellers to Full Service Always.

Tish: This Pay it Forward was a multiple. That little boy got to give to his folks, and have the same warm feelings as you and CA, and he's not done yet. He'll Pay it Forward someday soon. CA certainly can pick 'em:)

Dec 17, 2010 09:45 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Leah ~ Heading home tomorrow -- sad to see the visit come to an end, but so grateful I had this time!

Cindy ~ Kids just get to me!

Melissa ~ Thanks, pal!

William ~ Just a matter of keeping our eyes and ears open, the opportunities abound!

Roger ~ Seems I have a friend in Ohio whose heart is just as big!

Juli ~ It was my honor.

Steve ~ CA will be keeping an eye on him I'm sure.  She's as big a softie as I when it comes to kids!

Dec 17, 2010 11:06 AM
Karen Bernetti
Southington, CT

Tish, you're story brought tears to my eyes.  You are so very special and just like that little boy, we are so very lucky to have you!  Merry Christmas!

Dec 17, 2010 02:34 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Yes ma'am, that is exactly what paying it forward is all about! Who knows how this act of kindness will change his life from this day forward! You are indeed -- VERY blessed! :)

Dec 17, 2010 04:41 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Oh, Karen, thank you!  A very Merry Christmas to you and yours!

Joni ~ I just love the idea that something so simple can change the course of a life.  For a minute, a day or a lifetime.  Merry Christmas, friend!

Dec 18, 2010 01:14 AM
April Hayden-Munson
Brookfield, WI
Brookfield Wisconsin Real Estate

Hi Tish, Glad you are enjoying a visit with your Mom!  Those are always special.  It's Nice to take care of kids - they can easily wrap you around their little fingers!  Job well done!

Dec 18, 2010 05:39 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

April ~  This was CA keeping her eyes and ears open -- her idea of "No Child Left Behind!"  Doesn't get any more important than that!!!  Even when we think we're at the end of our rope and there's no hope, God just seems to reach out and give us a big thunk on the back of the head!  Blessings abound and need to be shared.

Dec 19, 2010 12:31 PM