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All of this Multi-tasking is Killing ME!

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Real Estate Agent with Century 21 Realty @ Home 0225076822

Multi tasking while selling homes in Farmville VirginiaIs it just me, or is multi-tasking changing the face of America?,and for me I am not sure it's for the best.  I reminisce for the days of years ago, where I could move thru my day focused on one task at a time.  With advancements in technology, and demands of consumers, home and more I am always doing more than 2 things at one time. 

My personal and business email come into my phone.  My Facebook page notifies me of new messages thru my phone--and this is where I control my social calendar. I have voice mail on my home number, my cell number and at the office.  I have 2 email addresses, a Facebook page, a Twitter feed, & a LinkedIn Account. My customers can get me via email or text messages or good ole fashioned voice mail, and often I have consumers who leave all 3 if I am out of the loop.  When I have an event on my calendar I receive a pop up warning message so that I don't forget. I have a full calendar day in and day out.

While showing homes, I catch glimpses at my phone for both text messages, missed calls or email messages.  While hanging out with friends I find myself doing the same. There are technologies that I want to add to my repertoire and grow my businessAnd I have decided the insanity needs to stop!

Focussed on reading a bookA few years back I read the book, The Power of Full Engagement.  The book teaches focusing on one thing at a time.  It speaks of while doing one task focus on that task exclusively.  Give 100% to that task, and then move on.  IT is about focusing on energy not time!  After I read the book, I spent quite a bit of time really focusing on the concepts presented in the book.  Of course this was before I owned a business, before my boys were teenagers, before I tried to volunteer and give back to my community.  It was when my life was lot simpler and it was easier to apply the principle of the book. 

I recently went out with a friend in her car.  Shortly after entering her car, my phone battery went dead.  I was in full panic mode--how could I possibly make it thru an evening without my device that keeps me connected to my friends, family, work and clients.  I proceeded thru the evening and enjoyed myself, with occasional moments of worry.  When I got home and plugged in the phone, life had successfully gone on with no traumas. 

When I am done with this blog post I am going to go find this book, and I am going to re-read and remember and apply the principles again.  I am going to focus my energy and not my time.  I am feeling really good about this!

 

Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Pamela, my booklist is long too.  I am slowing down and looking at some of my past good reads to remember good stuff!

Debbie, that is true about the weekends. 

May 22, 2011 01:10 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Navona, I am going away this weekend with a friend, the rest of the family is staying home. It is a long trip, and I believe there will be no cell service. I am trying to let it go already...

May 22, 2011 03:28 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Navona!

I included this post in Last Week's Favorites.

May 22, 2011 03:49 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Navona - Constant connection--I often wonder whether it is a valuable addition or an evil addiction we've embraced in or lives.  Last night my cell phone rang at 12:30am.  I let it go to vm, but I did listen to the message (family emergency maybe, but it was a wrong number with a slurred apology).  It's exhausting to always be plugged in.

May 22, 2011 04:36 AM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Navona, unplugging actually makes me feel lighter and allows me to get more done in real life.

May 22, 2011 04:58 AM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Andrea, enjoy your trip!  Something will happen for that long away from your phone, go ahead and just be ready for it!  But at some point that has to be okay.

Patricia, I love your lists and am so honored to be on it!

Norma, the drunk wrong number calls are amazing!  They do disturb us....

Maria, you have a special gift if you can let go and unplug.  Good for you.

May 22, 2011 05:23 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Navona, I lost my cell phone and was out of contact for a few hours. I found out that I didn't really miss anything. Life does go on. We need to take time to smell the roses. This multi-tasking is very draining on our lives. Let's get back to the simpler things in life that really matter.

May 22, 2011 10:06 AM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Jerry agreed, let's get back to the simplier things in life!

May 22, 2011 10:34 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Navona, Isn't it amazing how we have become dependent on technology.  Many years ago when I went away to college I drove 3 hours without a cell phone. I would be in panic mode if my children did that. (LOL)

May 22, 2011 03:41 PM
Allison Stewart
St.Cloud Homes - Saint Cloud, FL
St. Cloud Fl Realtor, Osceola County Real Estate 407-616-9904

Navona- electronic leashes can be very restricting.  If you feel naked and vunerable without one; that is not good.  From time to time it is nice to feel unrestrained-unleashed-and disconnected.

 

May 22, 2011 11:05 PM
Marie Story
Coldwell Banker - Pinecrest (Miami) - Pinecrest, FL
Broker Associate, Pinecrest (Miami) Specialist

There is nothing wrong with occasionally turning the phone off, such as when with clients, at weddings and funerals, dinner with family or friends, meeting with teacher, etc - No one will die.  We are not brain surgeons!

May 23, 2011 02:41 AM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

H Navona, There are times that we must absolutely need to be disconnected and we manage it. So just increase those times and enjoy it ~ I say.

May 23, 2011 03:12 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

I agree with you here as I have thought of this myself. Do you REALLY focus well doing 2 things at once? I watch friends do it & the answer is no. If I can see that they don't, I'm sure others just haven't gotten around to telling me yet.  5 things at once is my explosion point & I don't feel good while that is happening.

May 23, 2011 04:00 AM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Marchel, You are right!  I couldn't imagine my kids going 3 hours anywhere without being able to talk to me.

St Cloud...naked isn't a good feeling.  Need the technology. But breaks do make sense.

Marie, I do say that--we are not brain surgeons!

Sandi, I think by taking more time away from technology will make it happier when it is done.

Lyn--I have enjoyed several days of trying to do only 1 thing at a time--people try to make me do 2 things at once...it is expected.  Will continue to try.

May 23, 2011 07:25 AM
Linda K. Mayer
License # 01767321 - La Verne, CA
Realtor, SRES, SoCAL, A REALTOR YOU CAN TRUST

Navona, It makes one wonder if we can really do a GOOD job at something with all of the other distractions.  I guess that's something for another blog.

May 23, 2011 11:38 AM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

That is a great blog idea Linda!

May 24, 2011 12:56 AM
Talena Noriega
Kenneth Brown, Licensed Real Estate Broker - Bronx, NY

This past Saturday was my mom's birthday and I spent a few hours at the beach with her, my sister and my nephews - with no service on my phone! What a relief is was to realize there was no service because I can just put the phone away and not let anything take me away from the moment. When I got back to the car, I saw that I received a vm and text alert from a past client of mine, wanting to list her condo and start searching for a home.  I returned her call with an apology that I missed her call, and told her what a fabulous time I had at the beach with my family.  We then went on to talk about her condo, etc., and then it hit me . . .it didn't matter that I had been "unplugged" for an amount of time! I just plugged back in when I was ready, and continued business as usual - looking back, if my phone had reception, I would've walked away and answered her call, and missed out on precious time spent with my family.  Sometimes it takes a reminder like this to pull back and realize, technology is great, but it's greater when you allow yourself to disconnect and focus on whatever it is you may be doing, that's worth doing right!

May 24, 2011 11:47 AM
Virginia Dean
Keller Williams Tulare County - Visalia, CA
Real Estate Done Your Way

i need to read the power of one....with starting over in a new market, with a different broker, I am finding myself strung out and fractured in my training.

I know what I did before to get started and need to calm down and focus on it again, adding more technology of course.

thanks for the post.

May 29, 2011 04:44 AM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Navona, I am so guilty of this.  I feel like I've lost an arm if I don't have my phone with me and constantly check it.  For what?  Who knows!  My brain is just wired to multi task and gets bored when focused on one thing.  It is negatively affecting our society and brain. I know it's given me mild ADD.  I suggested this post as I am sure all of us Rainers are among the worst multi taskers out there!

May 31, 2011 02:52 AM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Talena, we are blessed with clients that will allow us to not be on 100% of the time.

Virginia, Good luck with the getting back in the groove of it, being fratured is a terrible thing, I hope your new environment ends up being great.

Coral, lost an arm?  that sounds so dramatic, but is true! ADD is the new adult disease.

Jun 01, 2011 02:48 PM