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Fail your way to success

Reblogger Lenn Harley
Real Estate Agent with Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate 303829;0225082372

WHAT MICHAEL JORDAN SAID IS NOT WHAT MICHAEL DID!Home for sale

Michael Jordan may have said "I have failed many times, and that's why I'm a success." 

However, the reason he succeeded was because he worked hard and practiced his skills sufficiently to avoid failure and enjoy the success earned by hard work and experience.

Courtesy, Lenn Harley, Broker, Homefinders.com, 800-711-7988.

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Original content by Norm Werner

From the Jack's Winning Words blog come this tidbit of wisdom - "I have failed many times, and that's why I'm a success."  (Michael Jordan).

Michael would be right at home starting a career as a Realtor®, since learning by failures seems to be the methodology of choice for training of new agents. I suppose that there is really little choice about that, since it would be impossible to cover every variation that comes up in a real estate deal. The nature of the beast is that every deal is different, with unique challenges. How do you teach that? Most companies with good training programs cover all of the basics and focus some on problem solving and using available resources wisely to resolve issues. Some even have mentoring programs which pairs up experienced agents with rookies. I've done that with several newbies.

A key to succeeding in an environment like real estate sales is not of be afraid to make those mistakes, to fail, so that you learn. Most mistakes can be corrected. A common reason for failure among new agents is that the fear of failure prevents them from even trying. They get frozen in place by the fear that they'll look stupid in front of a potential client. "What will I say if they ask me how long I've been an agent or how many homes that I've sold?", is a common question for new agents. That's where the mentoring programs can help a lot by providing that seasoned veteran to ride along and provide a crutch to lean on, if needed. Another fear is how to compete for listings against seasoned agents. Here again, having a strong company behind you, like Real Estate One in Michigan, is a great equalizer. You are a part of a bigger, stronger team than any of those competitors.

One key for Michael Jordan and for new real estate agents is to learn from those failures. What worked and what didn't. What could you do differently next time - and remember that there will always be a next time. What tools or resources could you have used and how will you work them into your future business opportunities.

The other key to success is to keep trying. Don't let failure get you down, it's just part of the job. It means you're doing something - maybe not right yet, but at least something. Hearing a NO from a potential client, is better than not hearing anything at all because you never tried. So, get out there and fail today. Today's failure will help you succeed tomorrow.

 

 Norm Werner

Real Estate One

 

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Comments(23)

Ellie Shorb
Compass Real Estate - Chevy Chase, MD
Realtor DC, MD & VA Luxury Home Expert

I agree.... MJ was a late bloomer in basketball and did not make his high school team when he first tried out. He would get up every morning early and practice shots. As a Tarheel, I am a big fan. His persistence paid off big time. What an amazing talent!

Jun 20, 2011 11:21 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Lenn - In order to succeed we can't be afraid to fail.

Jun 20, 2011 11:25 PM
Jim Hale
ACTIONAGENTS.NET - Eugene, OR
Eugene Oregon's Best Home Search Website

The fear of failure ....can either keep you from trying.......or motivate you to do the things that help you avoid failure.

A good real estate company has no vested interest in helping its agents gain experience through failure.  It's goal should be to provide the trainng experiences that help an agent succeed not fail.

Jun 20, 2011 11:33 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Jay.  You'll find that in every single champion.  They don't become champions because of talent. 

Gita.  I agree completely.

Wallace.  Indeed and every significant achievement has come after significant hard work by someone.

Ellie.  An amazing talent because he trained and trained and practiced.

Conrad.  I don't see "failure" as an option.  If one plans to succeed and works hard, failure isn't in the game.

Jim.  That is the focus agents and companies need to succeed. 

Jun 20, 2011 11:38 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

If you don't learn from experience...be it success or failure...you are doomed to never rise to the next level OR sink to the bottom of the ladder/well/unemployment line.

Jun 20, 2011 11:42 PM
Carol Zingone
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Florida Network Realty - Jacksonville Beach, FL
Global Realtor in Jax Beach, FL - ABR, CRS, CIPS

It's so true, nothing ventured, nothing gained. We can't improve without failing.

Jun 21, 2011 12:55 AM
Dick and Dixie Sells
Sells Real Estate, LLC - Trinity, FL
Realtors, Tampa Bay Florida Homes For Sale

Everything, every day is a learning experience, or should be!

Jun 21, 2011 01:27 AM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Associates - San Antonio, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

Terrific post to reblog Lenn!  There's also a great story about Abraham Lincoln.  I hear he failed many, many times before he became successful :)!  He never quit though and that is the point :)!

Jun 21, 2011 01:43 AM
Don MacLean
New England Real Estate Center Inc. - Easton, MA
Realtor-Homes for Sale- Easton, Mass 02356

Thanks for the re-post it made me start thinking.

Jordan did fail and many times. Not in the long run, but at times and during games.

Missing free throws and game winning shots at the buzzer. He's a winner because he won more than he failed. We only remember the victories.

Hard work and a god given talent.

Enjoy the day

Jun 21, 2011 02:18 AM
Rob Arnold
Sand Dollar Realty Group, Inc. - Altamonte Springs, FL
Metro Orlando Full Service - Investor Friendly & F

That's why when you start out selling real estate you need to work under a mentor or with a team so that you can learn the ropes while not endangering the finances of others.

Jun 21, 2011 03:46 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Nike's phrase spells it out simply: Just Do It

There are many reasons why that phrase worked for them so long ago, and continues to do so. You don't see them changing that phrase of success, do you?

Jun 21, 2011 03:55 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Thanks for othe reblog Lenn. Experience is indeed the best teacher, and we get experience by doing.

Jun 21, 2011 04:22 AM
Jason Frey
PureWest, Inc. - Livingston, MT

Successful people, in any facet of industry, usually make their professions look so easy because they have had several "learning experiences" along the way that they have refused to let become failures.  Keep learning, adapting and trying.

Jun 21, 2011 04:28 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Michael also knew what caused his success and repeated it over and over again. I think it is better to focus on what goes right and repeat than focusing on what goes wrong.

Jun 21, 2011 05:56 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I also believe when Michael Jordan failed he practiced what he failed three times harder than before he met that challenge… 

Jun 21, 2011 07:11 AM
Bob Jakowinicz
National Realty Centers Livonia--Bob Jakowinicz - Livonia, MI
Michigan Real Estate Agent-- MI Real Adventures

Lol, everytime someone says to me wow you are doing good (or something like that) I am thinking I am failing more than they are even trying. 

Jun 21, 2011 07:31 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Lenn we can't achieve true success if were are to scared to try.  It is not a failure if through it we later succeed.

Jun 21, 2011 12:24 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Lenn

Michael Jordon worked hard at basketball and I agree with you he played his experiences forward and learned from them and succeed as a result.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jun 21, 2011 02:05 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Lenn - Failure may not be the goal but life does get in get in the way of our plans.

Jun 21, 2011 11:57 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

I used to play baseball. I was a terrific hitter. However, over 60% of the  time I failed to get a hit. I used to work for a company that encouraged risk taking and did not punish for failure, if they approved the risk.

Jun 22, 2011 07:12 AM