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Do you Blog Dangerously?

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Real Estate Agent with Virtual Properties - Atlanta Real Estate 255736

Blogging DangerouslyWhen I first started blogging I thought it was no different than what I used to do years ago, which was constantly update my webpage.  The whole thing involved ftp uploads and a wee bit of code, but it was fun and it kept the content fresh. 

Now that I'm a year into this, I see it's a bit different.  For one, there's a lot more people doing it now.  It's a wonderful way to share your voice with the world, to show them how real or not you are and how informative you can be.  I've been blessed with some wonderful feedback.

So what's so dangerous about sharing your opinion?  

Before I jump into the dangerous aspect of blogging, I would like to take a time out for our "left coast" readers.  See, I was fooled much like my liberal friends (hey, I'm just trying to be funny here) into thinking that Freedom of Speech, means Freedom from consequences.  It simply isn't the case.  Your job for instance, is a priviledge, not a right, so therefore anything you say can't be protected by that right, however after you get fired you are certainly welcome to continue stating whatever it was that got you fired... as long as it is factually true.   So in this conversation, I would say that your real estate license, or inspector license or whoever is reading this that is an "independent" contractor license could be easily removed if you say something a bit off.

The thought that most of you have right now if you are anything like me is that you want the whole world to know how great YOU are and how bad some of the situations we as Realtors get into.

The danger does not lie in losing your job, or the ability to do your job.  No, the danger lies in unnecessary lawsuits.  So you might wonder what guidelines you might follow in order to make sure your blog is safe.  

  1. Never use actual names of companies, unless it's documented as fact or positive
  2. Never write anything negative, unless it is documented as fact, even if it is true
  3. Practice WWYBD, Like What Would Jesus Do, except now we're talking about Your Broker.  Would they get excited that you wrote something "edgy?"
  4. When referencing particular events or deals, make sure your disclosing PUBLIC records, and not personal information without something signed! by the parties
  5. When in doubt, don't post it, it isn't worth it.

Some of you might be wondering where this all came from.  Well, I am proud of the fact that I built my business on being brutally honest with my clients and that should come through in my writings.  This past year, three instances made me reconsider blogging.  

  1. I had an instance where a client's earnest money was being delayed in being returned by a large builder.  I wrote a blog about it, got the earnest money back and my client felt like a king, but I also got threatened in some pretty devious ways.
  2. I wrote something about the quality of workmanship in a particular neighborhood.  Later, I had the opportunity to meet with the CEO of the company (which could mean thousands of listings... yes, thousands).  Due to the blog, I couldn't tell him to Google me, which is one of my favorite things to tell prospective clients.
  3. I blogged about a closed deal and my client didn't feel that the deal happened the way I blogged about.  Think, "Just Sold, Full Price" and the client thinks, "Gave the home away with all my furnishings."

So at the end of the day, it's not worth it to lose my livelihood for a good read.  To recap:

Document or get people to sign before you blog, and don't blog negative!  

Emily Lowe
RE/MAX Homes and Estates, Lipman Group - Nashville, TN
Nashville TN Realtor
I think you are exactly right!  We always have to watch what we say!
Apr 11, 2008 04:40 PM
John Novak
Keller Williams Realty The Marketplace - Las Vegas, NV
Henderson, Las Vegas and Summerlin Real Estate
Some good advice on how to keep our blogs on solid legal and ethical ground. If we always try to look at things from a positive, learning-based perspective our writing is sure to draw a loyal audience that is eager to work with us.
Apr 11, 2008 04:43 PM
Ruthmarie Hicks
Keller Williams NY Realty - 120 Bloomingdale Road #101, White Plains NY 10605 - White Plains, NY
Very important considerations to think about.  Thanks for the reminder!
Apr 11, 2008 04:47 PM
Shari Evans
Better Properties Washington - Port Orchard, WA
Moments Like These

Well said. Finding that fine line of being who you are and writing as if talking vs as they are told at Disney "you are always on stage" is not easy. I recently had a very negative/interesting/crazy issue during a transaction and as I blogged about it, it was not too difficult to generalize it enough to stay safe while still sharing my experience for others to see the train coming. Thanks for sharing your thoughts as they are relevent for all!

Apr 11, 2008 04:58 PM
Anonymous
Tom Ikonomou

The internet is a double edged sword. Very well said and thanks for the reminder.

Apr 11, 2008 04:59 PM
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Robert Machado
HomePointe Property Management, CRMC - Sacramento, CA
CPM MPM - Property Manager and Property Management
Good advice, thanks.
Apr 11, 2008 05:11 PM
Dick Betts
TOUCHSTONE REAL ESTATE - The Villages, FL
REALTOR® The Villages, Florida
Just had an agent today tell me a lawyer called her about one of her blogs, she quickly took it down.  Good advice
Apr 11, 2008 05:42 PM
Patricia Beck
RE/MAX Properties, Inc., ABR, GRI, SRES - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Realty
This is a good reminder for everyone, I never even thought about it until I was reading a book about blogging and how people have been fired or not hired due to something they blogged about. 
Apr 11, 2008 06:41 PM
Sabrina Kelley
ERA Herman Group Real Estate - Woodland Park, CO
Woodland Park Colorado Mountain Homes and Land

As REALTORS we so throughly expose ourselves to the public. We can become vulnerable to attack on many fronts.

Play it safe and smart when you blog. Thanks for the reminder.  

Apr 11, 2008 07:52 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info
And especially don't talk stink about clients. :)
Apr 11, 2008 09:01 PM
Russ Ravary ~ Metro Detroit Realtor call (248) 310-6239
Real Estate One - Commerce, MI
Michigan homes for sale ~ yesmyrealtor@gmail.com
Yes we have to be careful of what we blog. We may get ourselves into trouble.
Apr 11, 2008 10:03 PM
Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton
Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC - Hilton Head Island, SC
I think I'm a conservative safe blogger.  My mom impressed on me not to write things that I would be sorry for later.
Apr 11, 2008 11:25 PM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate
I have a golden rule that I try to stick by and so far I'm ok. If I mention an issue or a gripe ...I will never expose the person or the company...I might change the names to protect the innocent. As far as racial discrimination or vulgar words...I would refrain from those as you never know who is reading your material. If you are a Realtor(R) you might want to watch what you say or say a s little as possible about discussing commissions and or fees.  Oh...also never ever blog when you are drunk or on any meds as you might regret it if you hit that little submit button.
Apr 12, 2008 12:31 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Joshua,

It goes to prove....you never know who is watching you......and you have to be careful not to let your emotions get the best of you....we are professionals....then there are those who are just looking for a fight (right or wrong)

Apr 12, 2008 01:28 AM
Greg Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA
North Georgia Mountain Property,Blue Rid

Thanks for this blog. I am new to blogging, and I need to learn some rules before I just into blogging to much. Being careful is what I am hearing so far. Write only about the facts and not my opinion. Thanks for helping me to stop and think before I vent or just want to blog.

Apr 12, 2008 02:10 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
Joshua, this is a really great reminder on what we say is on the net forever. Thanks for the reminder. 
Apr 12, 2008 02:22 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate
This is a very good blog and I agree about being positive with what you are writing.
Apr 12, 2008 02:41 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes
Great post Joshua, I wonder if people are reading this post and others like looking for a way to get offended and take us to court!
Apr 12, 2008 03:10 AM
Mitchell J Hall
Manhattan, NY
Lic Associate RE Broker - Manhattan & Brooklyn

I blog as a marketing tool. I always have the consumer in mind. I would never put in writing on the internet anything about specific clients or other agents.

Apr 12, 2008 06:02 AM
Arizona Real Estate Associate Broker
MR Realty - Mesa, AZ
Never Kiss and Tell is a good rule of thumb.  Great reminder~
Apr 12, 2008 07:11 AM