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To Disable Comments Is To Always Have The Final Word???

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While we are on the topic of commenting and responding to comments, there’s another function that is used too often.  That’s “disabling comments.”

I’ve seen most of the disabled comments on listings, and I’m sure the blogger (listing agent) has a reason for disabling. I don’t disable comments on listings. What I always do is send a link of the post and its comments to the listing agents, so they can forward to their sellers.

Homeowners appreciate reading comments about their homes, especially when details of the home are pointed out. If there’s a nice window fenestration on the front elevation of the home, the homeowner and/or builder put thought and effort into that amenity. To eliminate the positive opinion of that design being shared because of disabling comments is a missed opportunity for the listing agent. 

There are situations that warrant the use of disabling comments. One example would be a personal post that shares information about a tragedy or illness of a personal nature. I would reblog and disable comments on my post to direct all comments to the original blogger.

The disabling of comments is a function that has value, but there are agents who use it often. I can only assume their reason is to avoid needing to respond to comments that are left on the post.  The social aspect of blogging is totally eliminated when comments are disabled. There have been times when I read a listing post that was not a typical listing, and I had a comment in mind that would have fully described what was presented, along with a brief promotion for the listing agent. After scrolling to the comment section, I would find out the comments were disabled!!

You have no idea how frustrating that is and how much I dislike it.  Comments should be welcomed, with MOST blog posts. It’s the social aspect of blogging. To disable comments is to impair the energy and worth of the post.

What’s the value of disabling comments on a social platform?  Your thoughts?

 

 

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Barbara Todaro, Great Grandmother to Caleb, Santino, Aiden and Gianni       

Todaro Team - Retired

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Comments(49)

Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi BarbaraT- There have been times early on when I reblogged a post and disabled the comments so that the original blogger would receive the comments. I don't think it's necessarily selfish if someone disables the comments. They have a different perspective and reasoning for what they're doing. 

Oct 29, 2019 12:32 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Kathy Streib I fully agree as I said in many responses here.... I think I've done that once or twice in 10 years..... with an explanation in the introduction so the reader would understand and not be "wild" when they were ready to write a comment but they were disabled!!!  the original author appreciated the comments much more than I....

Oct 29, 2019 12:47 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

There are people who do it on re-blogs and I disagree with that too. Primarily because I read their intro and comment on THEIR intro, then go comment on the original, if I haven't already.

I WANT to thank them and sometimes a blogger will write a lengthy preamble to the re-blog...and I've formulated a response to THEM in the comments and BOOM, disabled! One particular blogger has gotten me SO many times with that and it is maddening! I'm an adult - I KNOW to go comment on the other post and if not for them, I would have missed the post if Ihaven't seen it already. 

OH and NOT TO MENTION (sorry, not screaming at you, Barbara!) - when they re-blog mine, I can't THANK THEM! 

Oct 29, 2019 06:49 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Barbara:

I agree there could be times when a disabling of comments really is acceptable, but most of the time it just frustrates, and disappoints, me.

Jeff

Oct 29, 2019 09:41 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

wow..... I've never seen you that heated.... Debe Maxwell, CRS LOL....

Jeff Dowler, CRS there are a few occasions when it's actually appropriate...

Oct 30, 2019 04:08 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Barbara. I couldn't agree more with you. Blogging is social and when comments are disabled the author is actually saying I don't care what you think.

Oct 30, 2019 06:55 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Totally agree with this post. People who disable comments don't understand the most valuable part of blogging. Giving potential clients and referring agents the option to comment can build rapport.   Thanks for the post.

Oct 30, 2019 10:00 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Sheila Anderson yes, they said their piece and you can keep the response to yourself...

Carol Williams comments are as important as the blog post when it comes to knowing and understanding how that blogger thinks....it's like another piece of identification and recognition....

Oct 31, 2019 01:46 AM
Ron Aguilar
Gateway Mortgage Group - Saint George, UT
Mortgage & Real Estate Advisor since 1995

Some people prefer to speak loudly and avoid listening. I seldom work with those people in life. 

Oct 31, 2019 07:09 AM
Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

I have read a few to the end to find they have disabled the comments.  Never could figure out why this is done.  Frustrating it is.

Nov 01, 2019 08:47 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Barbara Todaro - yes I know one example of a person who decided to just get information out there but no longer wants to interact.

Nov 02, 2019 04:26 AM
Matthew Klinowski, PA
Downing Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Golf Guy | Find Your Dream Lifestyle

Good morning Barbara, thank you for mentioning this topic. I've always wondered why people don't allow comments. I appreciate it when others review any listings or reports I post and I enjoy reading and posting on other listings. I've learned how to improve my posts and presentations of properties by viewing how others display their listings and the comments other people make. Have a good weekend.

Nov 02, 2019 04:48 AM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Great point Barbara Todaro  . I love comments, well most comments. But comments being added exposure, added information, questions, answers and allows more communication and most important, added exposure

Nov 02, 2019 06:07 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

I don't think I've ever disabled comments on a post. Although, yesterday, I had to disabled the outside comments due to an infestation of spam. Comments are important in building relationships and often bring us more information too. 

Nov 02, 2019 08:11 AM
Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

I am never gonna allow comments on my listing posts. 

My listings are the star of the post. I do not want anything diverting attention away.

Also, I've seen inappropriate and counterproductive 'constructive criticism' from members. 

One 'stager' ripped my [professional] photos, declaring how if I'd hired her (100 miles away) she could have done so much better! 

I write plenty of non listing posts where comments are welcome. 

Folks can do it any way they want. The beauty of choice!

Nov 02, 2019 08:42 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Candice A. Donofrio commercial/investment properties are a different entity.... homeowners like to see nice comments about their properties....

if I were a commercial broker I wouldn't want comments....

Nov 02, 2019 09:01 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

Good point! 

Nov 02, 2019 09:04 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Barbara it doesn't bother me that people disable comments. One guy in particular, who used to be a regular social guy in the rain, has done just that. They made a strategic point of focusing their business locally and knew time would be short. They didn't want to feel obligated to comment back. I am fine with that. Do I miss him? Of course.  Do I like all the great comments people leave. Of course!  I appreciate them all!!

Nov 02, 2019 01:44 PM
Barbara Todaro

I guess that's what makes the world go 'round.... I enjoy reading comments and commenting, too.....

Nov 04, 2019 07:12 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi Barbara Todaro ,

I'm so glad that Carol Williams featured you post in her Second Chance Saturday post. I've never understood the disabling of comments but read through the comments and can see why some feel that way. It's a choice and nice to have choices!

Nov 02, 2019 05:52 PM
Barbara Todaro

sometimes we have too many choices!!!

Nov 04, 2019 07:13 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I find it frustrating to read an entire blog and then find out the comments were disabled. I haven't used the 'disable' comments function yet.

Nov 04, 2019 06:15 AM
Barbara Todaro

oh, frustrating is saying it nicely....very nicely, Kat....

Nov 04, 2019 07:13 AM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

I have never disabled comments and never really thought about it.  I always thought communicating with others was the whole point of blogging.  But I appreciate your blog and the responses.  Makes alot of sense why some do and some don't.  I will continue Thank you. Barbara Todaro 

Nov 05, 2019 03:56 PM