A Grateful Thought | My Mother Is 97 Today

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What a day! My mother is 97 today and is at Maples Nursing Center in Wrentham.

Tammy, Brittany, Sandy and I visited her with presents and cupcakes. It was not a good day for my mother today. We never know what to expect when we visit and can only hope for the best.

Gladys was a personal loan officer at Ben Franklin Savings Bank for decades, and when I saw the look on her face I knew it was a tough day. That's the look loan customers received when they didn't pay on time!!!

Last week she was good and had the nurses laughing....not so much today!!!

The nurses and a few of the residents sang with us, while she held her baby doll. I'm very thankful for that doll. It calms her down, and she talks to the doll.

My mother is physically very strong, but her dementia seems to be progressing. We're fortunate to still have her with us and hopefully she'll be in a better mood at the next visit.

By the way, she still has a sweet tooth. She ate the frosting off one cupcake!!!!

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Elyse Berman, PA
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How lucky you are to still have your mom Barbara Todaro .  Bless her at 97!  That doll is a great idea as they say people with dementia lose a decade at a time.  I had to take a class in order to take my mother to a certain doctor.  He  ran a memory clinic and I remember them saying that.

Dec 01, 2019 01:52 PM #9
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Elyse Berman, PA I'd rather see her with that doll in her arms all day than increase her medication to calm her.... that doll was my granddaughter's when she was 5...it has skin just like a baby's and a cute face.... hair that feels real.... 

the crocheted items that doll is wearing and the blanket were crocheted by my mother many years ago.... 

Dec 01, 2019 01:58 PM #10
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Congratulations to your mother! 97 years is amazing!

Dec 01, 2019 02:53 PM #11
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Those are strong Armenian genes Lisa Weiler 

Dec 01, 2019 02:54 PM #12
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Good evening Barbara Todaro ,

Your mom is lucky to have such an extended family to help her celebrate 97 years young!! Maybe tomorrow will be a more positive one for her.

Dec 01, 2019 05:58 PM #13
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Hi BarbaraT- how lucky your whole family is to have your mother still with you!  I hope that tomorrow will be a better day for Gladys. 

Dec 01, 2019 06:38 PM #14
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She's lucky to have all of you there to help celebrate.  Hoping she has a better day tomorrow.  I noticed at the hospital where my dad was, an old woman would carry a baby doll around.  I guess it must be a common practice.

Dec 01, 2019 07:57 PM #15
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Barbara that is a lot of generations in that picture 

Dec 01, 2019 10:01 PM #16
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Hi Barbara,  Thanks for sharing your story and the fabulous picture.  Your  mom looks great for 97.  Dementia can be so tough on everyone.  My father-in-law really suffered with that before he passed away.

Dec 01, 2019 10:43 PM #17
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Thanks everyone for your nice comments...... I appreciate them....

Dec 02, 2019 02:06 AM #18
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Morning Barbara.

You are so fortunate to have her still with you.  The photo says it all, may you be blessed with her for at least another decade.

Dec 02, 2019 02:11 AM #19
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Barbara Todaro thanks for sharing your mother Glady. I'm sure it can be hard but she is loved and well taken care of. You all look so happy, may God bless you and your family.

Dec 02, 2019 03:14 AM #20
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Wow Barbara, a blessing to have your mom at 97.  Happy Birthday!!!

Dec 02, 2019 03:56 AM #21
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Regardless of the dementia, Barbara... you are so blessed to still have your Mom with you... I wish I still had mine (she would have been 100 in September). Happy birthday to Gladys!

Dec 02, 2019 06:03 AM #22
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Hello Barbara - Happy Belated Birthday to Gladys!  By the way, she can have my cupcake - it's more than okay if she prefers the frosting only.  I am going to pass on the cake part too along with that even sweeter part.  

Dec 02, 2019 06:40 AM #23
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Thanks, again, everyone for your nice Birthday Wishes for my mother...

Dec 02, 2019 06:43 AM #24
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Happy Birthday to such a beautiful woman!  There is so much love in the Todaro family!!!

Dec 02, 2019 06:50 AM #25
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Wishing your mom a very happy and blessed 97th birthday year.

Dec 02, 2019 01:47 PM #26
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Oh, that is such a sweet picture, Barbara. I actually thought she was holding a baby and thought how strong she must be to do so. 

I have Alzheimer's in my family and having them not know who you are is expected but, boy, no matter what, it still stings a bit. I love that she's near you so you can visit her often though - that is so important and so many seniors don't have their family nearby. She's one lucky lady!

Happy Belated Birthday, Gladys!

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Good evening Barbara Todaro - we have friends with Alzheimer's in their family.  It is wonderful that you are close to your mother.  Every single moment counts.

Dec 02, 2019 06:43 PM #28
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