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Being Smart. . .

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Industry Observer CalDRE #01165532

 

 

On Being Smart. . .

Actually A Smart @$$

 

I don't recall the exact date I was called that phrase but do remember the person who said it.  Yes, my mother caught me in the act of being a smart-mouthed kid.  Although it was a demand to stop being a smart aleck - I knew what she meant. 

 

Don't be a smarty-pants or a wise guy, Mister.  Perhaps it was prior to pondering becoming a part of my life but my tendency of having a smart mouth has a long history. 

 

Not at school, mind you.  I guess I understood at a young age the importance of location.   There is after all a time and a place for such things.   

 

Definitions of the term smart @$$ vary and even spelling doesn't seem to have consistency.  Is it one word?  Two words?  And if two, is it  hyphenated or not? 

 

Typically, I have found the spelling isn't important but the intended message when directed at you is pretty clear.  Stop. I acknowledge that character flaw in myself and over the years I have learned to control it.  Maybe, that's why when I found this quote a bell sounded in my mind. 

 

The quote, in part, is: 

 

Daily,

I visualize the smart-ass troll

who lives deep in my sub-conscious,

and pelt him

with rainbows and unicorns. 

                                                                      Julie Plec 

 

The quote gave me a bit of a smile but also provided pause.  Let's face it...when one is a smart  @$$, pause may be the right reaction. 

 

 

 

The image in this post is from canstockphoto.com.  

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

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Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
"Sold with Potranco Realty"

I would rather be called a smart-ass than a dumb-ass.

Sep 26, 2020 01:15 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

James Dray - me too!

Ba`b Ratliff - It seems you and I along with Brian England had similar replies with that particular name-calling experience.

Sep 26, 2020 07:08 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Well I remember people saying dumb ass alot of time to otheres but I guess I was neither.

 

Sep 26, 2020 08:07 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Oh there are times Michael when I want to say something, but STOP. I don't think it's about being a smart... but rather the person I want to say something too has the habit!

Sep 26, 2020 08:26 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Will Hamm - okay.

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 - STOP is helpful in conversation, thought and action.  

Sep 26, 2020 09:14 AM
Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
Superior Service!

If I may rise to your defense: Better a smart @$$ than a dumb @$$.

You are welcome.  ;-)

Sep 26, 2020 09:13 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Rocky Dickerson - I may qualify in two categories at times.  Thank you for the defense and the comment.  

Sep 27, 2020 06:31 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Ha, as usual food for thought. And, I love all of the comments - Bernie is really good at Jeopardy. I always tell him I was out playing while he was reading. :) 

Sep 28, 2020 09:13 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Oh, and I was going to say, I've called him a "smarty pants" before, in a loving manner, of course. ;) 

Sep 28, 2020 09:17 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Debb Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD - I am certain love is a part of this particular name-calling activity.  

Sep 28, 2020 09:35 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Oh yes....

the smart-ass troll

who lives deep in my sub-conscious

I just may know this all too well.  That troll comes out to play often. LOL

Sep 29, 2020 11:52 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Michael Jacobs - it was true with me and I suspect other children that we were reserved in school but smart mouths at home.

Sep 30, 2020 06:34 AM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Michael,

Smart alecky reigns on social media. 

Maybe that's why we don't hear about it. it's become enmeshed as a cultural norm.

Oct 03, 2020 04:33 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Sharon Tara - a regular visitor for me.

Grant Schneider - I typically adhered to the request to be on your best behavior at school.

Kris Collis, Associate Broker - that's definitely a possibility.  

Oct 03, 2020 06:13 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I was never called that but, I'm sure I called others that under my breath at some point in life!! LOL

Like waiting to send an email response to a smart alek, I love the sage advice you shared in the quote, 

"pelt him with rainbows..."

Oct 07, 2020 08:53 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Debe Maxwell, CRS - I like the quote as well but the smart advice comes from its author Julie Plec.  

Oct 07, 2020 09:42 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Michael Jacobs ,

Love this post and I must admit I can think of severl classmates in school that fall into that catoray! Love the quote..perfect fit.

Oct 10, 2020 04:45 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR - I imagine there are others who can identify those who could be classified as such.  Sometimes the visit to "see" may be only a trip to a mirror.  

Oct 11, 2020 04:59 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Michael, I know I can be a smart-a$$ at times, depending on the situation.  

Oct 20, 2020 07:29 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Joan Cox - location definitely matters.  So does timing and other factors. 

Oct 20, 2020 08:29 AM