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Fenway - baseball teaches us lessons in life and real estate

For many, myself included, baseball is much more than a sport or game, it's full of life lessons.  Many movies, books and stories have been told that cause us to reflect not only on the stories being told and experiences shared but cause us to reflect on the things that truly matter in our life.  More often than not, you will find great examples of courage, strength, passion and true human spirit. 

 

The game of baseball can teach us a lot about the game of life.  Baseball has a way of bringing out every possible emotion in us whether we're playing on the team or we are simply a spectator. 

 

Like many of you, baseball has been and still is a big part of my life.  From watching  my dad coach several teams, to attending the Boston Red Sox games with him at Fenway Park to now enjoying the game with our daughters and watching my husband scream at the tv as his team does something either really great or something completely frustrating.  

I think great similarities between the game of baseball and the game of life and yes, even real estate can be drawn:

team - we are all part of a team 

The Team

Baseball and real estate create interactions.  Many of us are on a team - brokers, work with other agents, our clients, stagers, mortgage consultants, marketing and social media consultants.  Just as a baseball team requires working together towards common goals and towards your dream of helping people realize their dreams, being a part of a team requires great commitment from everyone.

Being a Real Estate agent gives you the opportunity to affect someone's life in a very positive way. The game of baseball can teach us many lessons and serve as an inspiration to us in everything we do in helping clients realize their American dream of owning their own home.

 

The Slump

Just like some of our favorite baseball players, we find ourselves in a slump.  Perhaps our markets have not rebounded as other areas have.  Everyone hits a slump at some point or another.  We can learn a lot from baseball players who find that despite all the practice, commitment and desire they have, sometimes they just won't connect that bat to the ball.  Do they give up?  Follow this advice: 

"Whenever I went into a slump, I went back to fundamentals. Wait on the ball, be quick, use a light bat and choke up."  ~Ted Williams~

Change some things up, tackle some of the small, more manageable tasks on your overall marketing plan and perhaps you will come out not only swinging again but getting those hits.

 

hitting it out of the park

Hitting one out of the Park

"Hitting one out of the park" has to be an amazing feeling for a player and can be related to  real estate - getting that home sold or finding that dream home for your client.

Handling Defeats

Sometimes we find nothing is working the way we want it to just like in a game.  The team practices and has been playing well only to have everything fall apart in front of the fans.  Even the great players strike out some days.   Sometimes a deal falls through, the financing doesn't work out, a seller doesn't accept the offer, or a client changes their mind.  We must remember:

"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game!" ~Movie - A Cinderella Story

 

Not just a physical game.

It takes physical and mental gameBaseball is not just a physical game but a game that requires great thinking and concentration.  Things are happening fast, one play or mistake can change the game entirely.  The same goes for real estate.  Like baseball it's physically demanding - running from one listing to another, open houses, and just being on the go constantly.  It also requires great thinking and concentration.  Are you able to think outside the box, do things differently if they're not working, and change things to meet the needs of each individual client?    The market is constantly changing, the players are always changing and you have to be willing and able to adjust to all those changes. 

 

 

Baseball even encourages us and dares us to be different.  Ever hear of a rally cap

Rally Cap - My husband rallies for his team and me 

 

A Rally Cap is a baseball cap worn inside-out or in another unconventional manner (backwards, sideways)  by players or fans, in order to will a team into a come-from-behind scenario, as a sign of good luck and usually occurs late in the game.

While a rally cap may be primarily associated with baseball superstition, I think the real estate industry and many of us dealing with things in our own lives, can benefit from wearing a rally cap.  Who knows perhaps it will spark a comeback for us all! 

 

 

Throughout my childhood I watched my dad coach many baseball teams.  He always taught and insisted his players do three things: 

  1. Play to the best of their abilities (even when losing)
  2. Have fun
  3. Be a good sport whether they won or lost

My dad ~ My Hero

 

In his mind, there was no place for crying in baseball and so I find myself taking my dad's advice, wiping away my tears, putting on my rally cap and hoping that my dad's outcome in his "game of life" has a positive outcome.  This post is dedicated to my father, my mentor, my hero and the strongest man I've ever known.  I love you dad and I'm wearing my rally cap with the hope that I can turn the outcome of your game around.

"Life will always throw you curves, just keep fouling them off... the right pitch will come, but when it does, be prepared to run the bases."  ~Rick Maksian

Did you see any similarities between baseball and how you approach real estate?

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Ready to take your Marketing to new levels? Anne Marie Malfi ~ Malfi Marketing Solutions.com ~ Copyright 2009

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Kris Wales
Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center - Macomb, MI
Real Estate Blog & Homes for Sale search site, Macomb County MI

Anne Marie, it's hard for me to understand how you are not swamped with comments on this one.

You hit for the cycle with it!

May 04, 2009 07:10 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

What a great post, I agree with Kris...where is everyone?  Happy to see Fenway in the photo!  I hope your dad is ok...sounds like a wonderful man.

May 04, 2009 12:22 PM
Sheila Kennedy
J29 Project - Rochester, NY

Awesome post Anne Marie - love it!  I grew up watching baseball and playing softball and you are right on about your team work and rally caps and all of the lessons that  I need to remember!  How cool to have your hubby and your dad in the same post!  They both must be so proud of you!  Great job - thank you for all of the time and effort!

May 04, 2009 02:10 PM
Jess Graves
JessGravesDesigns.Com - Bristol, PA
Bucks County Decordiva of Home Staging

Baseball, ......What a great illustration! So many elements that compare to life, perhaps that's why we love this game so much! Let's hope your Dad will go into extra innings and finish with grand slam!

Wear your cap Proudly!     Jess

May 05, 2009 12:16 AM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Kris - LOL - I'm ok with that - I post becuase I feel I have something to share.  Truth be told I was surprised that no one really commented either especially with the amount of clicks - perhaps I did not reach many with this post - oh well.

Sharon - thank you and yes, I love Fenway.  As for my dad, it's not looking too good but we are trying to remain hopeful and will at the very least make the most of our time together - I am planning on heading back up to Boston for some much needed visits.  He truly is a remarkable man!

Sheila - thank you so much.  Yes, a rally cap is what we all need.  Yes, I am blessed to have two such wonderful men in my life and they certainly are not stingy with their support and pride.  Thank you!

Jess - I thought so too - so easy to relate the game to life and real estate.  I'm with you- here's hoping my dad gets lots of extra innings and a grand slam - if anyone can do it - it's him!  I am certainly wearning my rally cap!

May 05, 2009 01:30 AM
Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

I love the analogies Ann Marie and of course I am very fond of your 1st picture. Nice job with this article!

May 05, 2009 04:03 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Hi Anne Marie!  Most of us can identify with this post.  We can all see the loving supportive family you come from... awesome!  You emphasized a very important point..... "rallying" up of yourself, even if it means wearing a "rally cap"... we must move forward!  Excellently done!

May 05, 2009 05:54 AM
The Rains Team
Keller Williams Realty Atlanta Partners - Hoschton, GA
A higher standard in real estate

Hi Anne Marie: great analogy between baseball and real estate. I can tell that your dad has made a huge impact on your life and I will be praying for him!

--Anne Rains

May 05, 2009 07:21 AM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

HELLO ANNE MARIE!  My sentiments are along the lines of everyone else - I was surprised there weren't more comments - or a feature.  Your words are so true of life lessons and real estate experiences.  Your words remind me that those who come out on top are the ones that "rally" for others when they are on top and are the ones who have our support when they are down.  I am so sorry about your dad - I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts over the next few days and will look for a happy follow up post! -- Gabrielle

May 05, 2009 08:27 AM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Hi Bill - thank you and yes, somehow I knew if you visited that you would comment on that picture - LOL - how can you not love Fenway!

Diane - thank you for saying that and yes, I am truly blessed with a loving and supportive family.  Exactly - who can't use people rallying for them and I guess that is very much how I see my role in my work and my family life - have to always keep moving forward - thank you for your visit and please say some prayers as I know you do them with such great spirit.

Anne - thank you so happy you enjoyed and could relate - he is a huge inspiration and has a major impact on who I am today so thank you for your prayers - they mean a lot to me.

Hello Gabrielle - I have to say - your comments always make me smile and make me feel great - whether they are here or on another post I come across  - you are just so genuine.  thank you for the wonderful compliment - it's ok to not be featured - there are just way too many great writers out here and I'm happy with having my regulars stop by for some chat.  Like I said above, I consider myself a great rally person both in the work I do and in my home life - we all need support and that is one role I love taking - I can tell you do too!  Thanks for keeping my dad and family in your thoughts - it means a lot and I too hope that I can post a happy follow up post. Thank you!

Thanks to everyone for the great comments and support for my dad - it means so very much to me - more than I can say. ~Anne Marie

May 05, 2009 01:54 PM
Chip Jefferson
Gibbs Realty and Auction Company - Columbia, SC

My husband being a baseball coach compares life to baseball all the time. I reblogged this so our readers can enjoy. Great post and I hope Dad hits it out of the park!

May 05, 2009 11:13 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Anne Marie, What a great analogy! I coached (?) my daughter's teams eons ago and it was one of the joys of my life...

 

May 06, 2009 02:40 AM
Ginger S
Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC - Wilmington, NC
Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~

Anne Marie, This post is brilliant! Even more so because of the mention of the Sox and Ted W! I grew up in Beantown too! Loving the Sox & the Celtics &  Ted was my Dad's favorite player!

Ginger

May 06, 2009 03:54 PM
Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing and Online Advertising Consultant
Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision - Lake Geneva, WI

Anne Marie,

I will put on my rally cap with you my friend and will pray for your father and the market in turn.

May 08, 2009 09:23 AM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Hi Laura - thank you for wanting to share my post with your readers.  I thought it was a great comparison too and thank you for your kind words on my dad.

Paul - thank you - lol - I'm sure you were a great coach both on and off the field.

Ginger - thank you!  I didn't realize you were from Beantown as well- how nice.  I simply love my hometown and sports was a big part of my childhood - how can you not love the Sox.  Funny I just watched Fever Pitch over the weekend and it reminded me so much of my post.

Rebecca - thank you so much my friend - I so appreciate your friendship and the support you provide.  Yes, lets wear our caps for both my dad and the market.

Thank you to everyone for your great responses, stories, and memories that you shared here.  We all have such great stories to tell and share.  I also want to thank you for the support you provided for my dad.  My family will be going through some tough times in the next few weeks and months but knowing that I have many great friends and prayers out there will make things a whole lot better.  Thank you from the bottom of my heart. ~Anne Marie

May 12, 2009 02:32 AM
Fred Carver Real Estate Consulant
Retired BC Realtor - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hi Anne Marie..I'm just getting back to reading and trying to get caught up on some of your great posts. I love this one comparing life to a baseball game. Your Dad had a great outlook to Sports, so few have today, especially the one about being a good sport.

Cheers, thanks for sharing your story :O)

May 15, 2009 03:09 AM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

HI ANNE MARIE!  I just came back to see if there was an update about your dad.  From your note on 5/15 - it sounds like you need all the warm thoughts you can get  -- here is mine coming your way - take care of yourself OK? -- Gabrielle

May 19, 2009 10:51 AM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Hi Fred, so happy you're catching up and thanks for the compliment.  Yes, my dad has a great outlook and always taught us to be great sports in everything we do!

Gabrielle - thank you - you are so sweet!  Yes, please continue to keep us in your thoughts - I posted a quick update today and need all the good vibes to come our way.

May 21, 2009 05:53 AM
Ryan Shaughnessy
PREA Signature Realty - www.preasignaturerealty.com - Saint Louis, MO
Broker/Attorney - Your Lafayette Square Real Estate Partner

Anne Marie - Baseball, life and even real estate have some great parallels.  I would add two things.  First, I look for singles (instead of home runs).  I like moving our customers around the bases to home (get it... pun intended).  I would add that there are always those who will second guess the manager's decisions.  Tune out of talk radio and the pundit speak and go with what works for you and your team. 

May 21, 2009 12:32 PM