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What a Senior Real Estate Specialist Can Offer . . . and a Happy 92nd Birthday to My Favorite Gal

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES

On Saturday we celebrated my mother-in-law's 92nd birthday.  She uses a walker now - thanks to a broken hip - but she still manages her own affairs, plays bridge (including duplicate), gardens, and dotes on her cat, Muffin.

She is also the reason I decided to become certified as a Senior Real Estate Specialist (SRES).

Five years ago my mother-in-law decided to sell her house Florida and move to Goodwin House here in Alexandria.

She made the decision on her own time and very quickly.  It left little time for preparation but I found a competent agent and her house sold in two weeks.  We were very lucky.

But not everyone is.   Just going through the process with her and remembering what my own parents had endured long before I became an agent, I decided that I would take the time to learn just what a Senior Residential Specialist can offer.

Consider this: my in-laws were products of the great depression and did not believe in credit.  During their lifetime they built three different houses in three different state and they NEVER, EVER had a mortgage.

It was all done with cash and a handshake.  They probably never even used a real estate agent but simply bought their land directly from the owner - with cash and a handshake.

Just think how strange today's transactions must have seemed to my mother-in-law.

SRES agents understand that this extreme downsizing is often done under duress or when the homeowner is not in the best of health, physically or mentally.  It may occur after the death of a spouse or partner with whom the client has shared a lifetime.  It may mean leaving friends and moving to another city or state.   Each of these components is difficult and taken together it is almost a tsunami.

SRES agents learn that a "team" approach is often helpful.  If needed, I will put together a team to include a social worker, health care provider, investment counselor, family member, estate sale/moving specialist, etc. etc.  Some of the members, like a health care provider
and investment counselor, may have already worked with my client for years, but having everyone working together can make a huge difference.

SRES agents learn that patience is key.  Terms and conditions need to be explained and then explained again.  The client may ask the same question every day for weeks.  Patience.

SRES agents learn about communication.  And for me, this - and patience - are key.  In two recent listings I have done for senior clients, neither had computers, fax machines, or cell phones. One did not even have an answering machine.  Because of that, most of our conversations were face to face and I had to hand deliver documents.  It was definitely a change from the way I normally do business but you know what?  I kind of liked it!  Old-fashioned simple communication at its best.

SRES agents are often the voice of reason between family members.  A SRES agent is a neutral entity, working in the best interests of his/her client.  It is a local SRES agent who understands the market and knows that pricing is key for today's buyers. 

Can I help you or someone you know make the move of a lifetime? Let me show you what a Senior Real Estate Specialist can offerCall me at 703.927.4554 or email at michael.bergin2@verizon.net. 


Michael

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Michael Bergin

Your Realtor in Alexandria and Northern Virginia - ABR - SRES - Military Relocation

Shelley Rowton
Move To Realty - Austin, TX
ABR, RSPS - (512) 507-5779 MoveToRealty of Austin

I have been wanting to get the SRES designation. I grew up with a mom that worked in geriatric nursing, and grew up spending more time with the elderly than kids my own age.  I absolutely love our older people and get so much out of helping them move through the phases of life with dignity!

Aug 30, 2010 08:03 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Shelley -

It'a a good course and help you see the process through a different lens.  Your background and interest will serve you well.

 

Aug 30, 2010 08:25 AM
Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire

Great post Michael....you are right, Patience is the key word here! Put when all is said and done you have a very grateful client...and clients family!

I am just about done with one  and asked my clients Daughter (who is overseeing the whole thing) if she would write me a referance. She said of course and that what she appreciated the most was that even though her Dad's transaction wasn't going to mean much Commission for me(it's a mobile home), I had treated him with dignity and was extremely patient.
That was so nice to hear!

PS You have your Mother's smile! Wish her happy Birthday!

Aug 30, 2010 10:42 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Joan -

I understand completely.  I did a sale for a clergy friend who had nothing  - even went to my broker and got them to lower the commission rate so he could go to a retirement home with something.  Just following the Golden Rule - do unto others . . .

MB

Aug 30, 2010 11:24 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

That is a great specialization, Michael, and certainly one that is going to be much needed.

Aug 30, 2010 02:36 PM