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Message to Santa, your Elves Need Better Sales Training! Is This What Buyer's Feel LIke in This Market?

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Managing Real Estate Broker with NextHome Experience 17050

 I took a detour on the way home from an appointment yesterday to pick up a few Christmas gifts at SouthCenter Mall. (Since the mall is about a 15 mile drive one way, I try to take advantage when in the area). I decided to peruse the Men's fragrance counter at a National chain department store to see if I could find something different to surprise my son with this year. I had barely set foot in the store when I was asked, for the first time, if I could be helped. I politely declined, said I was just browsing, and moved on.

Five feet later, my eyes settled on an Aqua de Gio gift set. But before I could even raise my arm to reach for it, another sales person was telling me what a great deal it was because I "was basically getting the aftershave for free".  

Ok.  I thanked her but told her I had just begun looking and moved on.

Three feet further down the counter, another Salesperson jumped (well, stepped aggressively) into my path to demonstrate Usher's new fragrance set. I think she said it came "complete with soap on a rope".  Yup! Soap on a Rope.

Though my smile was still in place, my guard was going up rapidly. I found a nice quiet corner at the Burberry display and was left in relative peace to sample those fragrances...for about TWO MINUTES until the Bvlgari demonstrator shoved a sample card in front of me and sprayed it.....almost on me! She later came running from one side of the counter to another when she saw me looking at their gift sets but I scooted off before she could get to me....mostly just for fun!  

You get the picture. After 20 minutes I was beginning to feel as if I were under assault!!!   No fewer than 15 different salespeople asked if they could help me (I did the math, that's one query every 1.3 minutes), if they could take my item for me "to hold", if they could introduce me to the latest greatest "you'll-smell-like- George-Clooney if you use it" product. (Ok, I made the last part up, but it was a little like that)

So why was I so irritated? I mean these people were only trying to do their job and be helpful right? Even if they were on commission, I should understand that and be sympathetic....kindred spirits and all that stuff ...?

Nope, it wasn't happening. First of all, I blame the store. They should never have had so many people in such a small space at 1:00 on a Wednesday afternoon and secondly, they should have given their employees better TRAINING.....

I think don't think it's a stretch to say the number of hungry Realtors exceeds the number of ready to buy Home shoppers right now. Is this what Buyer's today are feeling? Like chum in the Shark pool? How can we create a better sales experience for buyers?

By giving them the sales style they want.

Some buyers need to be guided towards a decision but others want to arrive there by themselves. A good Sales person knows the difference. Brian Buffini suggests there are two types of Sales People:

"The Motivator or the Facilitator" 

 The Motivator will be able to nudge someone along towards making a decision.  They will sometimes be perceived as pushy, but some buyers prefer that selling style. Some buyers need that selling style.

 The  Facilitator will be respectful of the customer's desire to make his/her own decision and will be more laid back in allowing that customer to arrive at the decision on his/her own. Sometimes this sales type is perceived as being too passive.

Some buyer's want a Facilitator and some want a Motivator.

 Only one of those sales people listened to the clues I was leaving which strongly suggested I wanted a "Facilitator" not a "Motivator". He was respectful, answered my questions when asked and did not try to suggest or sell any other products to me just because I had asked a question about something.  I ended up buying from him and was happily rewarded when he loaded me up w/ samples :-)

I know not every shopper is like me. Some people want to be sold, in fact, need to be sold because they just can't come to a decision themselves. But you must know your customer and the sales style you will need to adopt based on the signals they are giving off. Ask them what type of good and bad sales experiences they've had in the past. This will help tell you what they want from you.

Sales training, scripts, role-playing...it's back to basics stuff that will make you a better Real Estate professional and ultimately give your clients a much better sales experience. After all, we all want to be appreciated Elves don't we?  

Enjoy the Ride!

Colleen "Fish"

www.ColleenFish.com   www.MapleValleyRealEstate.com

Serving Seattle and South King County for 18 years!

 

 

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Colleen Fischesser REMAX

 Serving the beautiful Pacific Northwest Since 1990!

 

Colleen M. Fischesser, Managing Broker

RE/MAX Advantage, L.C.

Serving Seattle and the Chelan Valley

206-491-3819  (Cell/Text Seattle)

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This is a personal blog based on my opinion and experience in the real estate industry. All content is provided for informational purposes and should not be construed as legal, financial or tax advice. Laws, industry practice standards and procedures vary by state. Readers are advised to contact appropriate third parties for professional advice when needed. Any questions please let me know!

 

Krista Fuchs
Prudential Fox & Roach - Exton, PA
Chester County Realtor - (484) 459-8025 - Home Buying and Selling
Totally agree!  I'm in many social groups and get asked real estate questions regularly.  I can quickly tell when I'm being a motivator and they want a facilitator.  And I have no problem with being a facilitator because I truly view myself as a service provider and I honestly enjoy helping people.  The bugger about it is that my husband is in sales and everytime I'm a facilitator he says "How's that welcome sign feel on your back!"   Ugh, that burns me up!   Throughout the years my selective hearing has been improving.  I'm getting good at smiling, nodding and saying uh-huh...
Dec 06, 2007 01:49 PM
Debbie White
Southeast Alaska Real Estate - Juneau, AK
I Sell Alaska!
Colleen - I'll bet I could guess just which store in SouthCenter you were in!  They get kind of pushy in there.  It's amazing how the new crew for the holidays want to outdo eachother.  Sometimes I wonder if the supervisors are watching and admonish them if they don't attack the public like that!

Guess we could learn from them, huh?
Dec 06, 2007 02:22 PM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes
You are right. If i go into a store and am treated that way , even if i want something I usually end up leaving, as the sales associates are just too much to deal with.
Dec 06, 2007 03:12 PM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Jeremiah, I remember that friends episode well...fortunately no guns were involved LOL!

 

Rebecca, I'm amazed such aggressive agents manage to stay in the business at all. But they do, because they manage to find a certain % of the buying/selling population who want to be treated that way. Believe it or not...

 

Christina, I think this is all the more reason to try to work by referral. The client is much less intimidated to call and because of the trusted referral, they know what they aren't going to be exposed to... 

 

Carol, "the sweet smell of success" sometimes it's sweeter than others though right? :-) I'm needing some air freshner right about now in my office LOL!!

 

Chris, I think we have to be careful by not recognizing we are sales people or by shying away from the term because it has a negative connotation. Remember, a good salesperson helps the client get what they want, but sometimes it's necessary to help them see what they want. A great salesperson is really something to see!

Krista, I sure hope when you husband says that he's on the couch for the night? LOL!! OUCH. I'm naturally a Facilitator but have learned to become a Motivator when necessary. Whichever is your natural tendency or comfort level, it's definitely wise to develop the skill to help the "other side". PS: Pinch your husband for me next time he says that to you...:-)

Debbie, yep...why have I never noticed that before? UNBELIEVABLE!!!

B&C, can you imagine if you were a homebuyer and just walked away from a Realtor at an open house because they weren't reading your "signs"? Big MISTAKE on their part.

Maple Valley RealtorBy the way, I smell lovely today.....tried a few of those Samples :-) 

 

Colleen "Fish"

www.ColleenFish.com      www.MapleValleyRealEstate.com

Serving the Seattle/South King County Area for 18 years! 

 

Dec 06, 2007 03:38 PM
Zulma Villegas
REMAX Homes & Estates & Orange Cities Escrow - Orange, CA

I actually started in sales in cosmetics many years ago in one of the finer department stores. It was in that department store where I felt I sharpened my listening skills and connecting with clients. A cosmetics sales persons goal is to get clients in her chair so that her clients can try as many products as possible. Most of the pushy sales people had obstacles with that, but I, on the other hand, was never the pushy type. I always found a way to connect with shoppers that came to my counter. They key was getting them to talk about themselves and showing people you care. My trainer used to say "People don't care how much you know...until they know how much you care." This is so true! I've used this same philosophy for years in my real estate career.

 

Dec 06, 2007 05:09 PM
Anonymous
Amy Anthony Coile

 I loved this post! I actually thought I was being a scrooge!  Glad to know it happens to other people and me feeling flustered is normal!  I love the quote above about people don't care how much you  know until they know how much you care.  This is so true.  I have always said I sell myself.  Everything else should follow.  Happy Holidays.

Dec 06, 2007 07:37 PM
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Kelly Sibilsky
Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD. - Lake Zurich, IL
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I hate being bombarded the minute I walk in the door and I would never do that to somebody. I am a facilitator, myself, and prefer that style myself when I am wearing my customer shoes. Of course, I don't feel as if I am a salesperson at all...so I guess it makes sense that this is how I work.
Dec 06, 2007 11:52 PM
Josette Skilling
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Bethesda, MD

Nice post and I so hate when this happens.  I hate perfume so when those pesky girls come at me I run!

What I'm finding as I progress along is that I can faciliate only so far and then we need to move into the other styles of communication.    I shift as the different facets of the transactions are occuring.  But I don't think I even realize I'm doing it until you define the styles.  I would have considered it too pushy before but I'm realizing in this market that buyers are letting good values go, thinking there's more.   When there's not more and I know it, I push - still in my softer style....

Dec 07, 2007 12:31 AM
George Tallabas
RE/MAX Advantage - Nampa, ID
Idaho Real Estate
Colleen - Great post and oh so very true!  True professionalism and courtesy is a lost art.
Dec 07, 2007 01:04 AM
Kerry Jenkins
Prime Properties - Crestline, CA

I have always hated pushy salespeople, but on the other side of the coin, so many companies don't have enough people when you need them!  Case in point:  Home Depot (which I have boycotted due to always leaving pissed off that no one was helping me).

BTW, where did you get your caricature made...I like it!

Dec 07, 2007 03:35 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News
Colleen-nice analogy. I find that each buyer is different and I need to adjust the way I work with each of them based on what I learn during our initial meeting and outing.   I'm wondering how some agents will survive in a market where they can't bully another agent or buyer into the decision they want.
Dec 07, 2007 05:47 AM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Zulma "People don't care how much you know...until they know how much you care."  You are so right! I'm sure your training has help your RE career greatly!

Amy, I think many of us are feeling a little scroogie this year...I know I AM!! 

Kelly, can you even imagine jumping on someone like that entering an open house? Oh My...if agents are doing this....good luck surviving is all I can say :-)

Josette, finding the balance is the key. At least you recognize that sometimes you have to kick it into a different gear. I'm sure your clients appreciate it.

George....Thanks!

Amy....oh MY GOSH, I am sooooooooooooooo with you on the HOME DEPOT situation. HELLOOOOOOO does ANYONE work here?

Cindy, I think you and I probably do know agents who are like that but do survive. But they're always on the offensive because they have no repeat or referral business.

 

Dec 07, 2007 10:34 AM
Aggie Friend Kay Perry, A&M Class of '94 & '97
Kay Perry, Broker - College Station, TX
They are only doing their job.  Also they need to be 'visible' to help reduce shop lifting.  It's a difficult job.  What's even more irritating is when you need a salesperson, you can't find one.
Dec 07, 2007 11:48 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Colleen,
There is a lot to be said for being able to read your clients.  A professional agent is respectful and sensitive to his/her clients needs.
Dec 07, 2007 12:41 PM
Shelby Morris
Realty Exchange - Columbia, TN

Colleen - great post!  There is a difference in being attentive to a client and being overly aggressive.

Dec 07, 2007 03:20 PM
Shelby Morris
Realty Exchange - Columbia, TN

Colleen - great post!  There is a difference in being attentive to a client and being overly aggressive.

Dec 07, 2007 03:20 PM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic
Sometimes buyers do feel we're crowding them. I try to give them ALL  the information they need in order to make an informed decision then give them room to decide.
Dec 08, 2007 03:19 AM
Julianna Hind
eXp Realty - Tacoma, WA
REALTOR, 206-679-4768, Tacoma Federal Way, Auburn, Kent, WA

RE: giving them the sales style they want

 ... that really is key isn't it! Speak their language and you already have established common ground. Thanks Colleen!

Dec 08, 2007 02:18 PM
Al Maxwell
Keller Williams - Marietta, GA
Real Estate Agent
I do think that they feel this way. People want experienced agents and ones that really can get the job done.
Dec 09, 2007 11:37 PM
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