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The Active Rain secret, unspoken brother and sisterhood... Are you in?

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Real Estate Agent with Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes

I never picked up on this until a few months ago but there is a secret, unspoken brother and sisterhood in AR...it is called the brother and sisterhood of comment reciprocation (at least that is what I just named it).  

I learned this when one of the most popular bloggers on AR wrote a blog that had 200 or so comments... including mine.  Even though I was 1 of 200 or so comments, he still took the time and reciprocated a comment to one of my posts in return.  That was when a light turned on, it is easy to read a comment on your blog and move on but it is a great sign of respect to take the time and do the same for that person.

If you want to have successful blog posts that continually have topics that receive comments and conversation, you have to continually reciprocate comments to those people that support you as well.  People that are always leaving you comments and subscribing to your blog...make sure to remember to reciprocate that back to them.   I am guilty as the next person of not doing this all the time but I continually try to improve on that as well.  Good luck.

Overland Park Real Estate

Comments(24)

The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts

Josh: Thanks, I guess my best writing must come late at night

Susan: Thank you

 

 

Mar 12, 2008 05:20 PM
Sonya Rosser
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Metro Brokers - Douglasville, GA
Hi Michael, thanks for the post.  I know I am learning to pay it forward.  And it feels good.  Keep up the good work.
Mar 12, 2008 05:22 PM
Katrina Madewell
Charles Rutenberg Rlty- More than 5,000 agents(813) 777-1196 - Tampa, FL
Tampa FL Homes for sale | Tampa Bay - (813) 777-1196

Night Owls like me are on here regularly... want in on the comment-hood ? 

                          Ping you are it....

Mar 12, 2008 05:22 PM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts
I see your posts everywhere Sonya, you must be doing something right.
Mar 12, 2008 05:23 PM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts
Katrina:  The comment hood, that is funny.
Mar 12, 2008 05:24 PM
Ryan Vivo
Gateway Realty - Fairfield, CA
NRBA Realtor Solano County, Gateway Realty 707-384-5894
That is a great and useful tip.  I will start doing that!
Mar 12, 2008 05:32 PM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts
Thanks Ryan, this post has been keeping me pretty busy with comment reciprocation (i don't want to be a hypocrite).
Mar 12, 2008 05:33 PM
Bill Exeter
Exeter 1031 Exchange Services, LLC - San Diego, CA
1031 Tax-Deferred Exchange Expert

Hi Michael,

Yes, you are so right.  It is even more fun to actually do business with other ACTIVE RAINERS.  Great post!

Mar 12, 2008 05:46 PM
Dick Betts
TOUCHSTONE REAL ESTATE - The Villages, FL
REALTORĀ® The Villages, Florida
Hey thanks for sharing the secret, I never thought about it but will start doing what you suggest.  Now that you have posted your blog I think back to the times the 100,000 bloggers have done just what you said.
Mar 12, 2008 05:51 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Michael,

Reciprocation is key to engaging other rainers in conversation, and the conversations lead to real relationships and business referrals.  Thanks for posting.

Mike in Tucson

Mar 12, 2008 11:19 PM
* Rate A Home
Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI
Michael, great post and heads up for the entire Active Rain Family.
Mar 12, 2008 11:27 PM
Leesa Finley
RED Properties - Wake Forest, NC
RED Properties - Raleigh NC Real Estate
Michael - Very appropriate post!  I have met some wonderful friends here and it is through commenting that you really get to know a person.  Thanks for reminding us all...
Mar 12, 2008 11:38 PM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts

Bill: I agree, doing business with other AR's is even better

Dick: It took me a while to realize it as well

Mike: That is definitely key, building a relationship withe the person by engaging in conversation

Duane: Your welcome

Leesa: Agreed, and your welcome

Mar 13, 2008 01:32 AM
ActiveRain City and State Listing Group
Christiansted, VI

There have been many good posts on this subject, but I guess we all need someone to continue to point out the things that seem to matter the most.

For more dialog on this subject and with the idea of keeping this important thought about the value of comments in the forefront more reading is available such as: In SEARCH of Comments!

 

Mar 13, 2008 02:00 AM
Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Hi Michael,

Taking the time to reciprocate is the best way to build relationships here in the Rain, looks like you are doing great! :)

Mar 13, 2008 02:08 AM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts

Don:  Thanks for the comment, I agree it is important to be pointed out.  I didnt mean to be late to the party, I have never read a post on comment reciprication.  I will check out your post as well.

Suzanne:  I try anyway

Mar 13, 2008 02:27 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, RealtorĀ® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate
Michael - I agree with you and great post. I also try and communicate with those who post on my blogs - we are building relationships. And then most of them I end up subscribing to their blogs as well. . .
Mar 13, 2008 03:48 AM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts

Hi Sharon,

Agreed, you are great about comment reciprocation and I appreciate that.

Mar 13, 2008 03:53 AM
Sasha Miletic - Windsor Real Estate
RE/MAX Preferred Realty Ltd. - Windsor, ON
Hi Michael great post. thanks for the good advice
Mar 28, 2008 04:42 PM
The Michael Pierce Team
Better Homes & Gardens Kansas City Homes - Leawood, KS
Kansas City Real Estate Experts
Your welcome Sasha, I am glad you found it informative.
Mar 28, 2008 04:45 PM