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Whose Team Are You On and When Did We Get to the Playoffs?

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Real Estate Agent with CENTURY 21 Judge Fite Company

It may be that a blog is not the place to vent....but here I go.

It seems that lately every offer I present or receive has a combative agent on the other side.  I feel like Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?"  Have these agents ever considered that often what is in the best interest of the client is for the REALTORS to work together towards a common goal?

I certainly do not advocate working against your client or leaving something 'on the table' that could be saved for the client.  However, I do not believe that in order to get the best deal possible for my client I have to treat the other agent as an adversary.  Isn't there a saying that goes "...more bees with honey...."?

It seems to me that no matter what kind of market you are in (up, down, seller's, buyer's, resort, land, development, etc.), having a good working relationship with the other party is a win-win.

So, here's the point...what do you think?  Is everybody experiencing this?  Is it nationwide or just a handful of agents that I've dealt with recently. Are new agents learning this behavior in school?  Is it a generational gap?  I suppose it could be me but, of course, I don't think so.

Please let me know what your thoughts are.

Adam Brett
The Adam and Eric Group - Fullerton, CA
The Adam and Eric Group, Fullerton's Finest

I am rooting for the Lakers...  Oops - wrong post...

I am with you - we need to work together to get the sales - but we also need to reserve a bit and get what is best for our clients.  A fine line to walk. 

Apr 29, 2008 08:52 AM
John Estheimer
Keller Williams Real Estate Media PA - Media, PA
REALTOR/e-PRO
Hi Leigh.  I am a new agent, and I would say that is certainly not what what I learned in class.  And luckily, so far, I have not run into any situations like you describe.  I absolutely believe that we need to work together, and we should be working together.  Perhaps it is a result of the market.  Things in the Philadelphia area have not been affected like they have in other areas of the county, and maybe that is why I have not run into it here.  Good luck.
Apr 29, 2008 08:56 AM
Mott Marvin Kornicki
Waterway Realtors® • Notary Public & Apostille - Sunny Isles, FL
Miami Notary & Apostille 786-229-7999
Everybody has good and bad days. I've been on the recieving end of some not so pleasant people- I just shrug it off and keep on moving. I'd say that most are pleasant and cooperative. One never knows what someone else is dealing with at any moment. We ARE human!!!
Apr 29, 2008 08:56 AM
Leigh York
CENTURY 21 Judge Fite Company - Fort Worth, TX
Experienced. Educated. Professional.
Adam, John and Mott - All good points.  Until the last month, this was a rare happening.  Our market is really good.  I suppose I just expect everybody to be happy.  Thanks for your input.
Apr 29, 2008 09:04 AM