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The Road to 500,000. A Few Things I've Learned Wandering in the Rain

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker 69190

 

Blythewood, SC Homes for Sale  Well, I'm not going to lie, this took a lot longer than it should have, but as I logged in this morning I noticed that thanks to some over night comments, I was pushed over the 500,000 point mark here on Active Rain. I have been a member of this site since late 2007 or early 2008, whichever the case may be and there was a wide expanse of time that I abandoned my efforts and moved on. This is the main reason that I am just now reaching this mark, but I am now there none the less.

 

Blythewood, Sc Homes for Sale  A lot of has changed in my time away. There are new owners, a lot of now bloggers typing away, and unfortunately for me many of my favorites from years ago seem to have moved on to other places. Some that I know of have retired from the business all together and I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't want to maintain a real estate blog anymore.

  There are still a few things that remain the same though and I have managed to learn a great deal from the time I have spent here.

 

There is a ton of free information at your disposal. Use it.

  When I first stumbled across Active Rain, I knew nothing about Internet marketing at all. The phrase long tail keyword may as well have been another language. Now I target them on a regular basis in order to place blog posts and web pages higher in search engine rankings and to target buyers who are further along in the process and closer to buying. If you are curious about a topic, there's likely a post on here already that explains what you need to know.

 

You should always blog responsibly.    

 This could easily fit under the heading that you may be surprised how many people you reach through your posts. When I first started here, i loved a good joke and or prank and I had a reputation at one point in my life for taking things a little further than I should. Most of the people I encountered here on a regular basis back then were a little on the edgy side themselves and that usually  only encourage  me. So one day I wrote a post bidding Active Rain farewell as they prepared to shut their doors. At the bottom of the post I skipped down several spaces and wrote in aren't you glad this is a joke. People went ballistic. i had no idea that many people were reading my posts and I did not have the foresight at the time recognize the impact I may have either. As a result the office phones for AR exploded with concerned members thinking I had just let the cat out of the bag. not my proudest moment as I was contacted by the owner at the time, stripped of most of my points, and told they were having a meeting to discuss removing me and banning me from the site as a result of the prank. I kept my head down afterward and just focused on work related blogs but the truth is even after a follow up from the owner on how well I had been doing and how much he appreciated my positive influence in the months that followed the incident, things felt a bit different. Most of  employees that I was in contact with on a regular basis at the time still haven't spoken to me since and most have moved on themselves from what I can see. So try to remain aware that people do read what you write and if you get carried away or do something stupid like I did, you can cause some major issue for yourself and others.

There are people here that really like to help you.

I have encountered many folks on AR that will practically go out of their way to lend a hand. If you don't know how to do something technical or industry related, all you really have to do is ask. No one is going to treat you poorly for not knowing the answer and there will be plenty of good people that will step up and give you their best advice on the subject. And believe me, a lot of it will be very good advice.

 

You get what you give.

 

Perhaps this is the best phrase to explain why people are helpful in this community, you will get out of it what you put into it. The harder you work at producing good high quality content, the harder your blog will work for you. the more you try to help people here through what you have learned in your experiences, the more people will want to help you learn through theirs. The members of this community take it seriously and they want the best for it. So they expect you to give it your best too.

 

Blythewood, SC Homes for Sale

  Yes it's been a long road indeed to get from there to here and the story stretches out over the course of a decade. Some of it is good and some bad just like any other story I guess. But hopefully if you can learn from a few of my mistakes, then you won't have to make them yourself right?

 

  That's one more milestone in the books for me. Congrats to all those who made it before and here's to the next one.

 

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Super job and when's the actual party celebration again?

Mar 21, 2018 03:56 AM
JL Boney, III

I need to find a good space and then the formal invitations will be sent.

Mar 21, 2018 07:49 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Real Estate LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Joyce Marsh Homes

Congratulations on reaching this 500,000 Point milestone. It took me quite awhile to reach that mark myself. Wishing you great success in all you do.   

Mar 21, 2018 04:48 AM
JL Boney, III

Great success to you as well.

Mar 21, 2018 07:49 AM
Matt Brady
Watermark Capital - Del Mar, CA
One of San Diego's Best Equity Advisors

Congrats on 500K, I like your advice on working on the quality of your blogging. If I retire to SC I will call you.

Mar 21, 2018 06:36 AM
JL Boney, III

Quality is key when gaining attention for your blog.

Mar 21, 2018 07:50 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

People who share demonstrate care....case in point

Mar 21, 2018 06:38 AM
JL Boney, III

I can agree with that, thanks.

Mar 21, 2018 07:50 AM
Sal Poliandro - Helping People Win

Well said Richie Alan Naggar. Ten years goes by fast. 

Mar 21, 2018 08:04 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

JL congrats, on reaching the 500K milestone - sounds like we took a similar path, I have been here about the same length of time and have similar numbers, and totally agree, I have learned more here than I ever expected and continue to learn every day.

Mar 21, 2018 08:18 AM
JL Boney, III

It's a lot to take in, but you can sure find some good stuff here.

Mar 21, 2018 12:28 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I didn't know you back then, but actually that had me laughing out loud at your sense of humor. Shame it was looked on with such seriousness. Obviously they had not read Ron and Alexandra Seigel's post about laughter back then. Glad you made it and I am enjoying your current posts.

Mar 21, 2018 08:24 AM
JL Boney, III

Things escalated quickly my friend and I had no idea it would go in the direction it did.

Mar 21, 2018 12:30 PM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

I did not know about your scandal.  No blog-shaming here... welcome back and congratulations!

Mar 21, 2018 10:20 AM
JL Boney, III

It was over and done with pretty quick, but caused a little stir at the time.

Mar 21, 2018 12:30 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

You've seen the BEFORE and the AFTER of ActiveRain.  Remaining to be seen, what's NEXT?   Great community that keeps me coming back day after day.  Bill

Mar 21, 2018 02:52 PM
JL Boney, III

I have indeed seen the before and after, so the next makes my curious too.

Mar 21, 2018 04:15 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

JL- I too have been here for about as long and don't remember your scandal! LOL Congratulations on this wonderful post! And I am thoroughly enjoying your posts!!!!

Mar 21, 2018 05:09 PM
JL Boney, III

I think most of the people who really knew about it have moved on.

Mar 22, 2018 06:30 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello JL - it doesn't matter necessarily how "long" it took but that you made it. Congrats on this major ActiveRain achievement.

Mar 21, 2018 06:29 PM
JL Boney, III

The important part  is making it, thank you.

Mar 22, 2018 06:31 AM
Alesha A. Wilson, M.Ed.
Buy and Sell Oklahoma LLC - Oklahoma City, OK
Buy and Sell Real Estate with Confidence

Congratulations on joining the 500K club!  And thank you for sharing such an authentic post!

Mar 21, 2018 07:29 PM
JL Boney, III

Thank you.

Mar 22, 2018 06:31 AM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Congratulations on hitting the big 500000! Some people just cant take a joke! Glad they didnt kick you out.... 

Mar 22, 2018 01:40 AM
JL Boney, III

I can understand where they were coming from, like I said, it got out of hand too quickly.

Mar 22, 2018 06:32 AM
Foster Smith Summerville
Carolina One Real Estate - Summerville, SC
Summerville & Charleston Homes for Sale SC Realtor

Congratulations to a fellow South Carolinian!

Mar 22, 2018 04:32 AM
JL Boney, III

Thank You.

Mar 22, 2018 06:32 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning JL Boney, III ,

What a delightful post! Congratulations on reaching the milestone! I live the you get what you give..a motto in the Floyd Wickman program and it has served me well. I too got a few chuckles from your prank and intended consequences! So glad to see you back to posting in the rain..you have a lot to give and we appreciate you!

Mar 22, 2018 05:16 AM
JL Boney, III

Glad to be back and plan to stick around for as long as I can at this point.

Mar 22, 2018 06:33 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Congratulations on making it to 500K! And thank you for sharing your journey. I'm glad you're still here!

Mar 22, 2018 07:19 AM
JL Boney, III

Thank you, glad to be here.

Mar 23, 2018 02:13 PM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Congratulations JL Boney, III on reaching the half million mark!!

Sorry you had an unintended disruption in the process, even though I thought it was rather interesting reading.

Best wishes on your drive for the rest of the points to reach the million mark.

Mar 22, 2018 01:41 PM
JL Boney, III

Disruptions always happen in one way or another, they just make your story more interesting.

Mar 23, 2018 02:15 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi JL

I don't remember your prank and guess I was not aware...or perhaps not here regularly yself at the time...but I sure am glad to see you are writing here and participating regularly. Congratulations on your milestone - it doesn't matter how long it took, and think of the journey you've had. And we have gotten to know you!!

Jeff

Mar 22, 2018 02:43 PM
JL Boney, III

It blew over quickly I believe. I am enjoying the journey my friend.

Mar 23, 2018 02:16 PM
Eva B. Liland Century 21 Doug Anderson
Century 21 Doug Anderson - Lancaster, CA
Glad to be of Service 661-714-1643

Congratulations on reaching your 500,000 point, impressive! I read Active Rain on a daily basis and when I have enough time, like to participate in the conversation as well.

Mar 22, 2018 05:44 PM
JL Boney, III

Thank You.

Mar 23, 2018 02:16 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

JL Boney, III  Great post so glad you stuck around AR is really a wonderful place Congrats on reaching a milestone

Mar 23, 2018 01:24 PM
JL Boney, III

Thank You, glad to be here.

Mar 23, 2018 02:17 PM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear JL,

Congratulation! A whole lot more stuff between your ears & maybe a free cuppa coffee in the lunch room for you. Great place to come & learn from you & others.

Mar 29, 2018 01:13 PM
JL Boney, III

I still have a few tricks up my sleeves Dorte.

Mar 29, 2018 01:17 PM