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An End to Conspicuous Consumption?

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Real Estate Agent with Associate Broker, Momentum Realty

Have the days of conspicuous consumption really ended? What will become of all the McMansions built during the era of 'unlimited prosperity?'  Will they sit vacant?  I doubt it.  We are not a society that does well with deprivation.

When my husband and I were starting out, we looked around for a long time before we bought a very small townhouse that we could afford. It was not in the town that we wanted to live in, but it was in the town we could afford.  After 2 years we sold that townhouse and we moved in to a bigger townhouse.  After 5 years we sold that one--just happy not to bring money to the table--and moved in to our first single family house.  We had been saving for our down payment and were both working to afford the mortgage. We were in that house for 5 years before we saw a cent of appreciation. At the 7 year mark we sold that house and bought the house we are currently in. It was a process. We did not get in to our dream house easily or quickly. We paid Property Mortgage Insurance (PMI) along the way because we did not always have 20% to put down on our house. Ours was a common story--one that virtually all of our friends wrote for their own family histories.

Fast forward to the young people starting out today. More often than not the list of 'must haves' for them include islands in the kitchen (which requires a big kitchen), granite counter tops, fenced yards and family rooms.  These are not items often found in condominiums or starter townhouses.  So these buyers have been jumping over the traditional starter homes and buying what I consider to be a 'third round' house.  In order to do this, they often took out ARMs or a combination of first and second trusts to avoid paying PMI. 

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This financial crisis, at the very least, will make buying anything but a starter home as a first house more of a challenge.  Lenders are going to take a much closer look at a buyer's financial situation and it will be much harder for a borrower to take out a border-line loan.  I hope this won't discourage first time buyers, but rather, bring them back to reality.

I doubt that first, or second, time home buyers are going to stop wanting the fancy, large houses. That is the way they have been raised and what our society teaches us that we should strive for.  Already, however, I do see a bit more willingness to delay the gratification to make sure they have the money to put down on their dream house.  Maybe they will stay renters for a little bit longer, move in for a short time with Mom and Dad, or take out a loan that requires a little bit longer to process, but means they can get in for less money.

The McMansion craze has probably slowed down, but I doubt it will go away. You might buy in to the idea that smaller is better, but when you can't find somewhere to put the kids toys or set up your home office, the idea of having a special room just for that purpose can be very appealing.  Sometimes what appears to be 'keeping up with the Jones' is really just trying to make things work for your family. There is nothing wrong with wanting a big house; the only thing that is wrong is wanting a big house that you can't (really) afford.

 

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Comments(4)

Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

Holly -  nice post.  This is a time where 'wants' and 'needs' are going to change back to realistic proportions.  Young people are going to have to accept that their parents did not prepare them for reality as we know it.  This is the time when they'll actually have to live within their means and provide for their own futures.  Parents of adult children will have a hard enough time providing for their own!

Feb 01, 2009 04:32 AM
Kenzie Bond, REALTOR®, e-Pro serving Brazoria County
RE/MAX First Team II - Angleton, TX

I wrote a similar post about 4 months ago - I share your sentiments exactly. Although I disagree that it is only the younger people - I am only 28 and would not be caught dead in a McMansion. I do believe that we will trim back on our spending, consumption, and construction, and that people will begin to stay in their homes much longer than recent years. Instead of constantly "buying up" only to find themselves in financial trouble down the road, not being able to make mortgage payments and ultimately losing their home - I predict that people will invest their $$ into upgrading their current homes  - which will allow them to increase the value of the home while maintaining the affordable payment.

As I read some of the Blogs on AR, I begin to think that I may have an "Anti REALTOR" state of mind in this, then I take a look at the news and realize maybe I'm not so far off after all.

Feb 01, 2009 04:49 AM
Dan and Amy Schuman
Howard Hanna Real Estate Services - Solon, OH
Luxury Home Specialists

The economy may make people wake up and become more prudent in their spending but old habits will come back when things improve. We will personally do our best to teach our children to be smart with their finances, but too many young kids and adults don't have a solid foundation when it comes to money management. Thank you for the intelligent post.

Feb 01, 2009 04:59 AM
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Len Maenza

Couldn't agree more.  For the past 10+ years, John and Jane homebuyer just didn't have the right discipline to shut out the mortgage banker or realtor when they would tell them how much more they could afford.  We need a little of what our parents had "depression influenced mindsets".  Unfortunately, the way things are going, our kids may just get that. 

Feb 01, 2009 07:20 AM
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