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Every 3 Years, Pretend Like You’re Moving

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage BRE#01732313

Moving Truck in Front of a HouseI spend a considerable amount of time helping people buy and sell homes in the Tri-Valley of Northern California. When folks need to move due to job relocation, a growing family, downsizing or whatever, they share a few common traits. They get into action, and usually rather quickly. Depending upon the urgency of their situation, that can be highly stressful.

Here’s a list of what I see them do, and what we might all consider to make any future move, (planned or otherwise), a little less traumatic. I notice that as people make it through the declutter-to-move stage, their sense of paring back and organization spills over to other areas of their life. When they arrive at their new destination, it’s truly a fresh start, with a lighter load of ‘baggage’ to begin anew.

I started to think about how liberating that freedom from ‘stuff’ lifestyle might be if we all behaved as if we were ready to move. No storage lockers for junk we never use! No garages so full that cars don’t fit in! No tool sheds so stuffed that who could find a tool! No Christmas cards saved from 1985! Our junk weighs us down, and then the procrastination about dealing with it eventually comes crashing down when really have to move for one reason or another. Why not be in a perpetual state of readiness, thereby relieving the pressure when the time really comes? So, here goes:

FORMULATE A PLAN

At a high level, here are the things you’ll need to address:

1) what living environment do you need next (real or contrived if you’re subscribing to my imaginary notion

2) the order in which things need to happen – your timeline

3) your stuff

4) how and when you need to deal with your stuff

5) the condition of your property inside and out

When you know where you’re headed, whether it’s to a larger space or a smaller one, it’s decision time. Methodically go room to room and determine what you’ll take to the next place, and what won’t fit or you no longer need. Do you like your belongings enough to physically move them to the next place, or to pay someone else to? It just makes sense to ask yourself these questions before moving time arrives. Who wants to cart that worn out furniture to the next home, if you really don’t even like it anymore? Get rid of it now!

For the purpose of this blog, we’ll assume you’ve figured out #1, or you wouldn’t need any of this. But if you want to be move-ready anytime life throws you an opportunity or a curve ball, read on.

Calendar, June 2010LAYOUT A TIMELINE

Working backwards is always a sound idea. If you have a legitimate move date, great. If not, what’s your ideal time based on vacation plans, weather, kid’s school schedules? Plotting your move date in reverse helps make sure you allow ample time to get everything on your list accomplished.

1) How many days to unload and organize your new home?

2) How long to transport your things from the house you’re leaving to the new one?

3) Anticipate the week your house will first be on the market. Now you know your target date for having everything you don’t need, packed and out of the way so your house can be ready for showings.

4) Make a list of repairs, and clean-up items for the house and yard. Walk room to room with a clipboard and note any deficiencies.

5) Based on necessary lead time to complete, fit these into your calendar with a mindful eye on your ultimate target date.

Boxes and Junk in GarageYOUR STUFF You should be able to put each of your things into one of these 5 categories:

1) Discard. It has no use to you, or probably to anyone else. You don’t want to end up paying to have it moved, only to throw it away later!

2) Keep (Need Now). These are the things you use all the time, and will need immediately upon moving, or that may offer some visual appeal while your house is on the market.

3) Keep (and Pack). Can’t live without these things, but you don’t need them while the house is being shown. Photo albums, trophies, collections, off-season sports equipment, holiday decorations, beach towels. You get the idea. But as you touch each of these items, check that it doesn’t really belong in another category.

4) Sell. It’s a very useable item, just not for you! There are always costs associated with moving, so why not turn some of your castoffs to cash with a garage sale or postings on Craig’s List. Keep your camera handy while you're sorting things through so you can quickly post your items when the job of sorting is complete.

5) Give Away. General rule of thumb – if you haven’t used it in a year, chances are you won’t. Is there someone else who could put it to good use? Does it have sentimental value to another family member?

Packing to MoveHOW AND WHEN TO DEAL WITH YOUR STUFF

1) Post your items for sale online and stash the money for your subsequent move-in expenses.

2) Pack up things to keep that you don’t need now. List the contents of the box on an index card, then give the box a name (guest room, den, linen closet, attic) and a number. Put the name and number on the box, so you or your movers will know where it goes next. Keep the index cards handy for easy reference after you actual move date.

3) Return any borrowed items. Have kids who’ve long since left the nest come reclaim their Star Wars Collectibles, or high school yearbooks. If it’s not yours, by all means don’t move it to the next place!

4) Give yourself a target date for that garage sale. Ideally, it will occur after you’ve posted your Craig’s List items for a couple of weeks, so anything unsold can be added to the yard sale.

5) Arrange in advance for pick-up or drop off of any remaining items to your local thrift shop or charity.

6) When you’re finished, you should be left with only those things you’ll still need to use while your house is listed. It’s much easier to see what needs to be done in terms of repairs, touch-ups or finally, staging once all the 'stuff' is thinned out.

7) Having this step out of the way will keep your life much simpler while all the other pieces of the home sale and search are on your agenda.

ChecklistWALK AROUND, MAKE A LIST

1) It is now SO much easier to address physical property defects or blemishes when you’re not amidst a sea of chaos, and trying to move so many extra and non-essential things out of the way while you work.

2) Address the exterior of your house and property. We’ve all heard about curb appeal. Make sure that folks won’t drive by - they’ll stop! Remove debris, trim trees and make the outside truly inviting. Freshen paint on decks and fencing.

3) Get a pest inspection! You don’t want to paint areas that have wood rot, or termite damage. Get those areas handled in advance so corrective action later doesn’t undo your hard work.

4) Take care of any minor repairs. Paint any rooms that look shabby. Click here for a full list of things to do to prepare your home for sale.

If you ultimately decide to move, wow. You’re all set! Except that you’ll need to hire a Realtor. I’d be happy to help you with your Tri Valley home sale and purchase. If you’re getting stuck on the preparation part, no worries. I’m here to help you put your plan in action.

And you end up going no where, think how much you’ll enjoy living in your home clutter-free and unencumbered.

Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Excellent -- I have a lot of work to do and this is a great way to get organized and get rid of the clutter.

Jul 08, 2010 04:09 PM
Mary Macy
Top Agents Atlanta Metro - Roswell, GA
Top Agents Atlanta Metro

Great Blog, we are always too long in any one house because we witness daily the trauma of watching our clients move and it quite frankly sometimes is too scary.  We too need to pretend we are moving and set deadlines to destroy all our stuff!!!!

Jul 08, 2010 04:17 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

This is excellent advise.  Five years ago my husband and I with our 2 kids and yellow lab moved from a 2,400 square foot house into a 250-square foot RV.  We had lived in the house for 13 years and had accumulated lots of stuff.  We sold, donated or pitched almost everything.  We had limited space in the RV.  When my kids out-grew clothing, we had to pitch the old before we could buy new.  It was a very good way to live.  We are back in a home and we still give things away regularly.  I don't want to have to go through a major down-size ever again.

Jul 08, 2010 04:53 PM
Robin Dampier REALTOR®
Coldwell Banker King - Hendersonville, NC
Hendersonville & Western NC Real Estate Source

Great advise for all of us, moving or not!  I can remember when we moved from the D.C. area to Hendersonville NC the euphoria of getting rid of "stuff" and the liberating feeling of closets that actually had room in them.  Drawersthat were empty, etc.  The problem is, I'm convinced, "stuff" is an illness!  You get rid of "stuff" and than you collect more "stuff".  Sooooo, unless you pretend to move every 3 years you would never get to meet new stuff!

Sue of Robin and Sue

Jul 08, 2010 05:30 PM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

KAren,

Can I get you to come over and talk to my client?

Jul 08, 2010 05:47 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

My husband would love it if I took this advice to heart and pretended we were moving and cleaned it all out.

Jul 08, 2010 06:56 PM
Cathy Lee
CL Design Services Home Staging - Danville, CA
ASP, IAHSP, RESA Danville, CA

Great post and congrats on the feature! I just spend two days clearing out inventory to donate for charity and did pretend I was moving out of storage-it was very freeing!!  

Jul 08, 2010 07:27 PM
David Okada
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
Service-Beyond Your Expectations

I am a collector of things vintage and current. I really need to take your advice and start with the storage room in my building and set a timetable to get items removed, sold or thrown out. Great job. I am bookmarking this for my sellers as well.

Jul 08, 2010 11:51 PM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

When we were in the military, I made it a point to discard any box that hadn't been opened since we moved in.  I'll always wonder what we got rid of, but obviously we didn't need it.  LOL.  Your suggestions are terrific, and good for anyone moving or "just" pretending in order to re-organize and pare down.

Jul 08, 2010 11:57 PM
Sam White
College Station, TX
Integrated Marketing - Bryan College Station,

Moving is such a mess and a lot of planning can save you a lot of time and frustration! Thanks for the post!

Jul 09, 2010 12:37 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Thanks for the great list! And congratulations on being featured.

Jul 09, 2010 01:10 AM
Judy Jennings
Top Agent Plus - Middleboro, MA
Tap into Judy's real estate expertise & resources.

Karen - I have nothing to add to this wonderful post, other than to concur that it is packed with great advice. I need to do many of these things right now.

Jul 09, 2010 01:52 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

I haven't moved in 20 years, but with the wedding have been getting rid of stuff like crazy.  It is amazing how much "stuff" we can accumulate.

Jul 09, 2010 02:04 AM
Bill Burchard
3B Realty: 951-347-3818, CA - Murrieta, CA
Broker, Realtor, Representing Buyers and Sellers

Well thought out, Karen. I just moved into a new home 18 months ago and I already need to heed your advice. (It's amazing how quickly I accumulate things.)

Jul 09, 2010 02:56 AM
Anonymous
Anonymous

Some people just cant let go of their stuff. I helped move my brother and his wife and the whole truck load of stuff I moved wasn't worth $10 but they wanted to keep it all. Old wore out stuff,old books even old newspapers and just plain junk in everyones eyes but theirs. Oh well.

Jul 09, 2010 05:11 AM
#54
Ana Hitzel
AccentPositives Home Staging - Corona, CA
Professional Home Stager Inland Empire

Hi Karen, I just read this on a reblog posting.  A fantastic post with lots of useful advice.  I would love to put a link to this post on my website's news and links section.  I try to follow some of these same tips in my own home but time gets away many times.  It's like gaining weight, you wonder how you got there but it didn't happen over night!:)

Ana

Jul 09, 2010 11:31 AM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

Holy cow. Yesterday I posted responses to many of your comments, but they don't appear today!  I'll reply to a few of you here, but thank you all for stopping by.

Erik #28.  I'm taking my own advice and have a load of bags for the Goodwill tomorrow.

Nadine #30. Would love to have a copy if you do that.

Jeff #32.  Nadine said the same thing.  The document attached to the link is something I provide for all my sellers, and they seem to follow that as a sort of checklist. But when I find myself with some extra time on my hands, perhaps I'll do as you suggest!

Tammie #41. Whoo, what a challenge.  I don't think I'm ready for that!

Jul 11, 2010 02:52 AM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

Terry #43.  Would love to come to Canada!  But since that isn't practical, this is a public post.  You could always send a link to your client.

Cathy #45. I'll bet you run into this a lot.  Folks need your services but have a TON of work to do before you can start!

Margaret #47. That's gutsy.  My curiosity would have gotten the best of me.

Missy #52. What a great incentive. We have an empty nest, but when the kids come home, they have wives, girlfriends or now, a baby in tow.  Which means more stuff at least temporarily.  It helps if they have a place to put it during their stay.  Those pared back closets are a big help.

Ana #56. Since it's a public post, that should work fine. Ugg. Please don't remind me about the weight thing - that seems to be something I'm less good at :(

Jul 11, 2010 02:59 AM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Karen, Frank and I are in the middle of a house purge after over 5 years - doing it every 3 years sounds like a better plan. We have too much stuff!

Sharon

 

Jul 29, 2011 02:23 PM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

Yeah, must be a good time for it. I'm tackling my closet this weekend!

Jul 29, 2011 02:58 PM