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The Secret to Success: Fail More Often

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Education & Training with Keller Williams Realty

 

It’s a little-known fact that Microsoft founders Bill Gates’ and Paul Allen’s first “big idea” was to build a business around collecting traffic data for engineers. The company was called Traf-O-Data—no joke—and one can only imagine Gates rallying around the dream of “a light post on every corner, of every street, processing traffic everywhere.”

But, the company failed.

And, Gates and Allen are doubtlessly thankful for the lessons learned from that big failure, as a few years later a little corporation named Microsoft was born. Today, Microsoft is the largest software company in the world. And, Gates’ vision of “a computer on every desktop, in every home, running Microsoft software,” has largely been realized—making him the second richest man in the world since 2010, with a net worth of $53 billion.

This story is not uncommon. In fact, the greatest success stories are, when you take the time to look, built on a series of failures.
Marilyn Monroe was dropped by Fox one year into her contract for being “unattractive” and “a bad actress.” In 1999, she was ranked the sixth greatest female star of all time by the American Film Institute, and today, is one of the most well-known pop culture icons ever.

Albert Einstein did not start speaking until relatively late in his childhood, and then was thought to be “dull” for repeating sentences to himself. Teachers found him “moderately talented,” and he flunked the entrance exam at Zurich Polytechnic. Einstein went on to win the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1921, and has changed the face of modern physics.

Gary Keller Gary Keller knows something about failing your way to success. It has been his life journey. “People tend to think the world is conspiring against you when you fail.” His AHA: “People don’t realize you are born to fail and born to get up. It is the goal of every spiritual being to try to live as big a life as possible; to love as much as possible; to give as much as possible, and fail as often as possible.”

Why?

When you fail, you learn. Therefore, failure often plants the seeds of growth.

So, think big! Get comfortable with the idea that failure is intrinsic to success. Incremental thinking seems like a safe way to avoid failure, but it’s also the quickest way to veer left of success. The truth is, the more success you seek, the more failure you’ll achieve.

Stop taking baby steps. Or, as Gary says, "I don't think A to B. Blow up the alphabet and start living for Z.”

 

Originally posted on KellerINK.com.

Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Jay - "Start living to Z".  That's an interesting way of looking at life.  The other interesting thing is that we are taught to avoid failure at all costs.

Mar 01, 2012 03:18 PM
Rob Arnold
Sand Dollar Realty Group, Inc. - Altamonte Springs, FL
Metro Orlando Full Service - Investor Friendly & F

I believe in that somewhat.  You fail until you get some success and then you concentrate your efforts on what made you succeed so that you can continue to succeed more and more and fail less and less.  Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again (and failing over and over) and expecting different results.

Mar 01, 2012 10:14 PM
Lynda White
Bluegrass Homes & Farms Realty, Agent Know How - Louisville, KY
Admin. Mgr., Keller Williams Realty

I've failed countless times, but I keep getting up, knowing that success is not immediate in most cases. Very inspiring, thanks!

Mar 01, 2012 10:19 PM
Rachel Tipton
KingOne Properties International - Pawleys Island, SC

Thank you Jay! I needed this today. There are a few people around me who criticize me for always thinking big. I put my all into every idea and project I have ever come up with. I have failed a bunch of times. But the big deal is that I LEARNED something each time. And I am getting better. Soon enough, one of my big ideas is going to make me the success I have always been going for...GO BIG OR GO HOME!!!

Mar 01, 2012 11:24 PM
Sara Garden
Rocky Mountain Home Staging - Boulder, CO
MBA, HSE, HSR, APSD, Home Stager

I read an article not long ago called "Why failure makes you a badass." lt was fascinating and true just like your post. It takes fire to make steel.

Mar 01, 2012 11:24 PM
Allen Deaver
Sky Realty - Kyle, TX
Allen Deaver

A man moved to Cisco Texas during an oil boom. He kept drilling dry holes and got frustrated. Like many successful people he looked around to see what was needed. In Cisco there were men making tons of money but had no place for their wife's and family to stay. The hotels were to be polite not for ladies or kids. So this man decided to build what then was a 5 star hotel. We know this man today as Conrad Hilton founder of the Hilton Hotel. Think outside the box and a need. Then people will beat your doors down to get your product of service.

Mar 02, 2012 12:22 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Great post until you thru Keller in there. Not in the same league.

Mar 02, 2012 01:07 AM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Jay,

Hope sprrings eterrnal, then?

Mar 02, 2012 01:52 AM
Ranji Singh
Century 21 Heritage Group Ltd. - Newmarket, ON

Great post Jay. Your graph says it all - neat!

 

Fall down six times, get up seven.

 

Cheers.

Mar 02, 2012 01:55 AM
The Derrick Team - Indy Metro Realtors
Carpenter Realtors - Avon, IN
Your Pet Friendly Realtors

But is bad luck failure? I've had a string of bad luck on transactions falling apart for reasons I cannot control. But as we have to say... NEXT!

Mar 02, 2012 04:28 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

All good stuff, yet it's getting to the the next few points in a timely manner that is essential before leaping to the final destination, wouldn't you agree?

Mar 02, 2012 04:30 AM
Leslie Godbold
WZGM AM1350 Independent Asheville Radio - Asheville, NC
Motivation Speaker, Radio host "Positively Living"

Those who gather determination from failures- succeed

However Those who wallow in their failures will- fail

Great blog and advice!

Mar 02, 2012 05:11 AM
Bill Reddington
Re/max By The Sea - Destin, FL
Destin Florida Real Estate

I call it climbing the stairs. Hopefully you ar always taking up steps. But reality there will be some down steps in the process. Just keep climbing.

Mar 02, 2012 10:33 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Great reminder.  I teach my kids what is important is to try hard and not quit.  

Mar 02, 2012 12:13 PM
DeeDee Riley
Lyon Real Estate - El Dorado Hills CA - El Dorado Hills, CA
Realtor - El Dorado Hills & the Surrounding Areas

Jay,

I've never looked at failure this way but thank to your words of wisdom here, I'll not worry so much about it and look for the positive in what I will learn.

Have a great weekend!

Mar 02, 2012 03:44 PM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Wow Jay!  So awesome to see you post and talk about Gary's philosophy of failing to succeed! I am a "believer".

Mar 03, 2012 09:09 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Jay,

We would not have all that we do if we hadn't failed so many times to get the revelation to success.

Mar 03, 2012 10:18 PM
Sylvie Stuart
Realty One Group Mountain Desert 928-600-2765 - Flagstaff, AZ
Home Buying, Home Selling and Investment - Flagsta

Awesome post! If you stare at your obstacle too long, it becomes about the obstacle, get up and figure a way around it and the next time it comes around it won't even phase you!

Mar 04, 2012 01:25 AM
Charles Walk

Great post... thanks for sharing.

Mar 04, 2012 06:36 AM
Stacey Smith
Keller Williams Realty - Aliso Viejo, CA
Your Orange County Beach Cities Realtor

JAY!!! You're on Activerain!!! Yes another outlet for me to stalk you.. ::insert evil laugh::  Great post, I loved Gary's speech about failing your way to success... If you are not falling on your face.. You are not trying hard enough.. :)

Mar 05, 2012 07:45 AM