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It's rare that you find a community like Active Rain.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

It's rare that you find a community like Active Rain. Over the past year, I've had an unbelievably busy schedule and it has been frustrating being away from the site as much as I have. Why? I like keeping up with the people I've connected with, and the site is a source of inspiration and encouragement. 

Our family was hit with multiple challenges throughout the year, some good, some not so good. Our two companies became very busy, demanding extended work hours, weeks and months that didn't yield much free time. That's the good kind of challenge that most entrepreneurs love, but it can be exhausting. I added staff, but there is room for more at some point in 2015.

On the not so good side, our two geriatric dogs died and my step-dad passed away. In all three cases, I was terribly heartbroken. My step-dad had been sick on and off for a good while so it wasn't a total surprise, but in many ways it was still a shock. The dogs were both old, but it was still a pretty big shock. 

During all of those events, Active Rain members made special efforts to contact me and encourage me. I received a lot of condolences and well wishes, but most of all I received heartfelt support. That's what I love about this community.

All of us have our life experiences both good and bad. It's great to share in the excitement of our successes, but it's also comforting when others reach out to us in our struggles.

It's nice to know that someone notices when you haven't been around for a while. It's encouraging when you receive an unsolicited note saying, "Hey, I've missed you." I hope that happens to every AR member when life gets in the way and he/she can't make the daily journey. Thank you for your support. I hope it spreads far and wide for all AR members. 

Comments(22)

Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Absolutley, Norma.

I hear you, Chris Ann.

Feb 12, 2015 08:28 AM
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Mike - You are right ActiveRain is a special good community. 

Feb 12, 2015 08:58 AM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Mike,

Challenges always come in droves...just to see how much we can take without breaking (or going crazy, LOL).  Having the support from your family, friends and colleagues makes it all easier to get through.  AR provides a wonderful community of mutual support!

Feb 12, 2015 10:23 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Yes it is, John.

It really does, Lisa. 

Feb 12, 2015 10:35 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Mike - this really is a community and much more than a blogging platform.  Here is hoping that you have a very happy and properous 2015.

Feb 12, 2015 10:49 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

It truly is rare to find a community like ActiveRain.  When you consider that the darker side of social media can be bullying, and agressive behavior by those hiding behind a screen name or mask, the AR experience is truly unique.  I count among my close friends some that I have met in this forum.

Feb 12, 2015 11:48 AM
David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

Hey Mike without question AR is a great place and you are one of those great people who help make it this way my friend

Feb 12, 2015 02:16 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Mike just consider us an extended family.  In troubled times family pulls together.  

Feb 12, 2015 07:28 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Oh yes, you have had some challenging times lately and here are some more hugs from NY.  It's nice to know that your Active Rain family is always here for you.

Feb 12, 2015 08:19 PM
Regina P. Brown
MBA Broker Consultants - Carlsbad, CA
M.B.A., Broker, Instructor

This is a heartfelt post.  AR is a community of wonderful people who give encouraging words in times of need, and you are one of them.

Feb 12, 2015 09:26 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Mike. You are very right and the people here are incredible. I hope you are thinking about a new rescue to fill your heart, honor those you lost, and bring some joy and laughter back.

Feb 12, 2015 09:34 PM
Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

Here's hoping 2015 finds you able to blog and interact even more.  Your posts are always a pleasure, and the community is payback for anyone's time, alone.  The networking is fantastic.  Thank you for sharing your story and reminding us of our blessings as well!

Feb 12, 2015 09:46 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Thanks, Grant.

I do too, Myrl.

Thanks, David. I would say the same of you.

Yes they do, James. It's wonderful.

It really is, Debbie. It's quite a comfort.

Absolutely, Regina.

Sheila, I'm not 100% ready to go down that path, but I've been looking. 8-) It will be another rescue regardless of when.

Thank you, Cara.

Feb 12, 2015 10:16 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Mike I so believe this as well.  I am sorry that you had such a tough year.  Hugs to you and glad to see you here!  This is a fantastic community!

Feb 12, 2015 10:37 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Yes it is, Paula. Thanks.

Feb 12, 2015 11:06 PM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

Mike I am sorry to hear about these losses.  Losing pets is never easy and even when family members are ill it seems you can never really prepare.  With friends to hold you up it helps to get you through the day.  How lucky we all are to be part of Active Rain.

Feb 13, 2015 01:14 AM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By Real - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Mike, I'm am so sorry for your losses. Pets hit me harder than humans, we spend so much to time with them that the void is immense. I know time will allow you to cope. AR truly is an amazing community. 

Feb 14, 2015 02:09 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing your positive experience with ActiveRain.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Feb 14, 2015 06:47 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

You are so right. that happened to me, and not once, and not twice. Virtual (and not only virtual) friendships are an interesting thing...

Feb 19, 2015 10:32 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

I have appreciated the support, Jon. I hope you're doing well. 

Feb 19, 2015 11:14 AM