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A Personal View of Afghanistan, from My Son, James

By
Real Estate Agent with Century 21 Lanthorn R. E. Ltd. Belleville, Ontario

Those of you who have followed my blogs for some time will be aware that I am Canadian, and that I am very proud of my son, James, who has been serving for some time with the forces in Afghanistan. He is home now, and he took some time during one of his first days back to write to family and friends and tell them about his experiences over there.

With his permission, I am going to post some of his comments in this blog, because I find they give a much more comprehensive explanation of what is happening there than anything I have heard from CNN or Fox news.

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It is so good to be home. I just wanted to drop you one final note about my time overseas, and pass on a few of the things I learned along the way. The bottom line is that I am very glad I went as it was an amazing experience, and I have learned an incredible amount about the world at large, and Afghanistan in particular.

You hear a lot of commentary about Afghanistan, and many people complaining that we are not seeing any improvement over there, and how it is time to bring the troops home. The thinking is that we have not made a difference and that we should not be wasting our lives over there. They have a valid point, but my first-hand experience is that Afghanistan is one of the poorest countries on earth and they desperately need our help. I hope to explain a little about why it is not more stable, but please keep in mind that these are just my opinions and not necessarily fact based, and I hope to give you a different perspective on what is happening over there.

The city of Kabul has an estimated population of 3 million people, although it is impossible to truly tell how many live there. I know there are nice parts of the city, as I have seen pictures, but I have never seen them myself. I have seen the bulk of the city, north and east from where I lived, and it is poor as dirt. The shops line the road and are little more than thin concrete walls in a dirt parking lot. The majority of the homes are often in unfinished apartment buildings or rough buildings, with many people living there but little in the way of amenities. Power is off in the city frequently and running water is rare: there are hand pumps all over where the residents line up daily to pump out the water they need for the day. Indeed, water is such an issue that the airport has become a very interesting place for westerners because any Afghans using the airport take advantage of the running water and line all the sinks washing their faces, feet, and armpits (washing your hands after peeing is usually out of the question). You can imagine that so many people living within a city with so few services is very straining.

These stores that line the street will have raw meat hanging unrefrigerated, and fresh baked bread is carried from door to door by dirty hands, but really they are doing the best they can with what they have. It really is quite shocking to see the conditions that people live in because we have all seen poor areas, but nothing to the extent of this. Like I said, I travelled throughout the city, but never saw any nice sections. Even in the semi-protected zones where the embassies are located, the walls are high and always lined with constantino wire and guard towers. It looks like a city at siege, and indeed we treat it as such. Whenever we drive from one location to another we always travel in convoys, with weapons and armour, and in constant communication with help. We travel through the city at speed and with aggressive techniques to keep suicide bombers from being able to target us. This driving has made it hard to build rapport with the citizens though, because their typical encounter with us is our convoy's blocking them at intersections so we can get through quickly. They do not often see the good side of us.

My sadness with that city is that, for our safety and normal lifestyle, we have totally segregated ourselves from society and therein lies the problem: we are trying to help but kept very much at arm's length from those that need our help the most. For example, we tried to buy all of our bottled water from a local company, but they failed to keep the filters cleaned so the ecoli count got too high and we cancelled the contract. So now we get all our bottled water from Dubai instead of pouring money back into the city. This is a massive problem as there are no standards for even produce or meat, as evidenced by the hanging meat, so we cannot buy much from the local economy. Everything gets trucked in and that means, once again, that money being spent is not going back into the local economy. Obviously this is tough: we want to buy locally, but if the standards are not high enough for us, then we are stuck with buying from away and importing it. The scope of this problem cannot be overemphasized: we spend millions and almost none of it stays within the country!

Combine that problem with the biggest problem affecting the country: jobs. There is little expertise, so little contracting can be done on the economy. So, we bring in western contractors and the downward cycle continues. We do hire locals for many services, but none of them are high paying so building good will is difficult. With so many of us in the country, but so little money going into the local economy, you can imagine the frustration of the average Afghan. Indeed, the millions we are spending often end up back in the pockets of western companies who are contracted for providing the services we need to live and work there. What a difficult cycle to break.

And that leads to why there are still Taliban and bad guys. A lot of the money the country uses to survive on is based on the opium trade but we are trying to lead them away from opium production. So, the drug lords are able to maintain public support if they share some of their wealth and are able to recruit young men who do not have jobs otherwise. This is why we are still fighting, and why the situation has not improved. However, all this time we are providing enough security for the government to build the police and the army, build infrastructure, and develop policies and procedures. So, the basics are on the mend even though we do not see that through our media, and the overall population does support our presence even despite all of our problems because the alternative is one they have already faced: when the international community last turned away the country imploded.

But when it comes to fighting, what we do not hear about is the losses the Afghans are taking. They are unbelievable! The Afghan army and police is fighting hard for their country and they are taking the brunt of all losses. We cannot complain that they are letting us fight their war for them, au contraire, they are so keen to take the fight to the enemy that we often have to hold them back. They have sheer determination to turn this situation around and the military personnel see this and are proud to help them because they try so hard.

So, this is a long haul, and we have many issues to address to fix the problems, but the good news is that the full scope of the various problems is coming to light and the goverment is working with the international community to start solving the problems. I think it is going to be a generation before they are able to fully contribute to the international community, but it is underway thanks to the security that is present especially in the city. Should we stay? Good question. I hope we can find a way to get out of the thick of the fight, but still help rebuild and be a part of this incredible project of bringing this country back into the fold of nations. I feel proud to have done my small part and wish the Afghans all the best as they travel down this difficult road.

 

Heather Fitzgerald
REALTY WORLD-Harbert Company, Inc. - Greenwood, IN
REALTOR Greenwood Indiana Real Estate

It is a shame we don't get to hear more of these real, non one sided stories of what is truly going on over there.  Thank you for sharing this with us.

Apr 27, 2009 02:49 PM
John Mulkey
TheHousingGuru.com - Waleska, GA
Housing Guru

Bob, thank you for sharing and a special thanks to your son for his service.  One of the life-lessons I have learned is that things are not always as they seem--as they are presented by others or the media. It's refreshing to hear first-hand accounts, such as your son's story. While we may not know the best path for the future, at least we can have a better vision of the present. Thanks again to you both.

Apr 27, 2009 02:57 PM
Lisa Udy
Platinum Real Estate Group - Logan, UT
Logan Utah Realtor

Hi Bob,

This is why blogging is such a refresher. You get to hear the stories from the real people from their own mouths. James is a very keen young man, and I want to wish him the best, and thank him for his service. His story is thoughtful, and sheds a light into media driven darkness. Thank you very much for sharing this story with us Bob, I truly loved it.

-Lisa

Apr 27, 2009 03:18 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

Thanks for sharing. It's always nice to hear something more than just soundbites.

You should try MSNBC instead of Fox and CNN.

Apr 28, 2009 12:08 PM
Travis Olson
Agent Breakthrough Consulting - White Bear Lake, MN

Hi Bob,

Thanks for sharing your son's insights. You must be incredibly proud of him. Even though we do not live in the same country, I am grateful and humbled by his willingness to give to strangers for his country.

Apr 29, 2009 07:00 AM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

Hi Bob,

I was glad to hear your son got back OK; also good to hear the rest of the story. Maybe the powers are attacking the problem from the wrong angle....

May 15, 2009 05:45 PM