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No matter how much experience one has, we must consider our privilege of being invited in to the homes of others.

By
Home Stager with We Stage Colorado- Colorado's Premier Staging Experts

It is mid-July and the height of staging season. One thing that I have been very keen on is the idea that we don't always understand everything we see. Every house is not just as the one before and each person has their own unique story. It is so easy to become callus or insensitive to the lives of the individuals we serve. I have often subscribed to the old adage of " Swims like a fish, smells like a fish, looks like a fish, It's a fish!"

I am here to tell, that as much as we may feel that we have seen it all, we have not. Each and every individual walks their own path and we need to honor that. It is so very true that we do not always understand everything we see. We make assumptions, although often wrong. And we make decisions based on the incomplete information that we often have about people.

I would ask that each of us step outside of our all too human need for judgement of others, to give the people we serve the opportunity to be the unique individuals that they are and provide a measure of respect that each of us deserve regardless of our perceived circumstance. Respect is something that as accredited staging professionals, we should afford each individual we are given the privilege to know. Let us each take the time to provide the very best of our talents and time to assist those who need our services most, and provide that without our pre-conceived judgements. It is after all, a privilege that we each enjoy when an individual allows us purview into their most intimate inner sanctum. Let us not lose site of the honor that we are provided. Serve with honor, integrity and hold yourself to a higher standard. That is the place that all professional home stagers should ascribe to. It behooves us all to aim to that goal and makes us all strive to be more.

Comments(6)

Cindy Lin
Staged4more School of Home Staging - South San Francisco, CA
Host, The Home Staging Show podcast

SO WELL SAID! :) It was so good to see you this year even if we didn't get to chat much. can't wait to see you next year. Any chance you are coming over to california?

cheers,

cindy 

Jul 07, 2007 03:40 PM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production
What great words....we need to be humble as servants
Jul 07, 2007 04:25 PM
Trish Pachak
We Stage Colorado- Colorado's Premier Staging Experts - Westminster, CO
ASP Master - Denver, Colorado

Hi Cindy-

It was such a joy to get to see you in Chicago. You have such a light spirit. I don't know when I will have the opportunity to get to California but know that if the opportunity arises you will be first on my list to call. Have a wonderful summer and stay in touch.

Much love to you!

 

Trish

Jul 07, 2007 04:46 PM
Julianna Hind
eXp Realty - Tacoma, WA
REALTOR, 206-679-4768, Tacoma Federal Way, Auburn, Kent, WA
SO true Cindy, always respect and look for the good in others. They will feel it from you, and it elevates both you and them to a higher place!
Jul 07, 2007 05:50 PM
Betty Haney
Haney Consulting - Calgary, AB
Trish, you are so right.  When we stage a home and need the owner to pack away their personal collections we always have them tell us about the collection and how much it means to them.  It might not be to our taste or a buyer's, but it allows the owner to share and personalizes the experience for us.  We learn so much from all of stagings.  Betty
Jul 09, 2007 02:49 PM
Yvonne Root
rooms b.y. root - Prescott, AZ
Home Stager - Northern Arizona
Trish, Your sentiment is so true. We must remain professional while still allowing our hearts room to speak or simply listen to our clients.
Jul 09, 2007 04:12 PM