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R.I.P. - How Jim Rohn had changed my life..

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Mortgage and Lending with American Mortgage Network NMLS 228393

Jim Rohn | World Renowned Business Philosopher

As you know, our mentor and friend Jim Rohn passed away December 5, 2009.  I couldn't help to get a little choked up about the idea that my mentor had passed away after helping me to not only look at ways to improve my business rather how he helped me look at who I am and how I want to be remembered when the good Lord decides that it is my time to do his work. 

I remember being at a crossroad financially and spiritually.  I was handed a CD by a friend. I popped it into my car CD player.  This was the beginning of a new me.  I listened and at every word, this old wise and gentle man was speaking the very experience I was going through.  I listened to Jim Rohn CD 100's of times.  At every day I was feeling a bit de-moralized, unmotivated, or was in need of a kick in the pants, Jim would tell me like it is.  He told me that "To be successful you don't need to do extraordinary things, you just need to do ordinary things extraordinarily well."

 This may not be the best place to tell you (a stranger) this but to understand how Mr. Rohn affected me and thousands of others is to not leave any empty spaces in the story.  I was on the verge of divorce (for all the wrong reasons, financially in the dumps, spiritually.. well let's just say I had a long hard talk with the Lord and he came up winning.  Before that that day, I had no direction and personally I didn't care for any.  Then I heard Jim tell me "You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight" He went on to tell me "It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind that determines which way we will go." 

From that day forward, I worked on my marriage, my financial well-being, my relationship with the Creator and I found an immense reward awaiting on the othe side of the road.  Jim's words helped me improve the person I was and he is directly a part of who I am today.  I realized many things by his help but importantly, that the world was in no need of someone who did not need the world.  For what do you have to offer if you want to live your life with no direction, no value to mankind or more importantly to your family and peers?  This ladies and gentlemen is the secret to a rich life. 

Funny!  My 40 year mile marker of my journey was changed by a man who I never met.

God Bless you Jim and may you continue changing lives, one soul at a time!

Ted Canto

AZ Residential Lender

www.tedcanto.com

www.academymortgage.com/tedcanto

 

Comments(52)

Deanne Olivas
eXp Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Your Home Matters

Ted, Thank you for sharing from your heart. I, too, have Jim speak to me via a CD when I am driving.

Jan 08, 2010 11:40 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Oh, I had no idea. Shows how out-of-touch I am with the seminar crowd these days, but I am very sorry to hear this. I met Jim Rohn in the late 1970s. In fact, he worked for my ex-husband in the seminar business. Jim gave me one of his very first books. Can't recall the title, and it might not even be in print anymore, but it's in my bookcase. I believe it was The Magic of Goals, or something very similar to that. All my books are packed because we're refinishing the floors, or I'd look it up for you.

I recall the book, though, which is weird after all these years, because it was inspirational. I read it over and over.

I remember Jim as an exceptional speaker who delivered from the heart with great passion. He was one of the few speakers / authors in the real estate business who was truly a very nice person down to the core. I am saddened that he is gone.

Jan 09, 2010 12:40 AM
Stephen Garner
Hub Media Company - Tempe, AZ
Hub Media Company
I can't believe after all these years in the business that I never had a chance to hear him speak.
Jan 09, 2010 01:03 AM
Ted Canto
American Mortgage Network - Chandler, AZ
Arizonan #1 Mortgage Lender

I am really glad that everyone liked the post.  Jim Rohn was truly one of the great philosophers of our time.  What is interesting to know is that he was actually one of Tony Robbins' teachers.  If any of you never had the chance to read and/or listen to him.. My personal opinion that it is a must. He simplified the hard things in life, painted them in a way that made it hard "NOT"to take notice and make the necessary changes in life.  TRULY INSPIRATIONAL!  Whether you know it or not, we lost a truly great man. 

Stephen, it is worth the investment to buy at least one of his CD's.  I guarantee you it will not get old.  I've listened to his CD so much that I had to burn an extra copy as it was getting worn out and scuffed up.  It is timeless.

Someone mentioned in here that there wasn't any news coverage.  That is true and how sad as the news always reports sad events but doesn't cover sad events such as this about people who shine and who touches people's lives.  They missed a great story and opportunity.  

Elizabeth #35, he was definitely a truly genuine person.  I got to see him (never met him personally) and you're right it was easy to see his sincerity to his core.

I would appreciate you sharing any of your personal favorite quotes.  Here is a good one:  "If someone is going down the wrong road, he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. What he needs is education to turn him around."

Jan 09, 2010 02:30 AM
Frank Castaldini
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in San Francisco

He had a positive impact on me too.  I was disappointed to know he was involved in MLM, which I object to as a form of business.

Jan 09, 2010 02:33 AM
Ted Canto
American Mortgage Network - Chandler, AZ
Arizonan #1 Mortgage Lender

I was going to inform those of you who live in California about this but I guess his memorial event is sold out.  Check it out.  The good news is that they are going to film it and put it on his website for people to see.

http://tribute.jimrohn.com/

Celebrating the Life and Legacy of Jim Rohn

Thank you for your interest. We've had an amazing, overwhelming response and all seats are filled.

The event will feature family, long-time friends and many special guest speakers, including Anthony Robbins, Les Brown, Brian Tracy, Chris Widener, Denis Waitley and Darren Hardy, in a celebration of Jim Rohn's remarkable life. They will pay tribute to Jim by sharing their thoughts and insights on some of his most powerful success principles. The event will be held on Saturday, February 6, at the Hilton Anaheim (California).

The program will be from 7:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. A pre-program reception will begin at 5:30 p.m. to allow attendees to connect with others whose lives have been impacted by the wisdom of Jim Rohn.

The event will be filmed and posted here at a later date

Jan 09, 2010 02:36 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

You have written a wonderful tribute to Jim Rohn, and I am glad that he had such a positive influence on your life.

Jan 09, 2010 03:08 AM
Chad McBain
RE/MAX R.E. CENTRE - Guelph, ON

While I have never listened to Jim Rohn he has mentored and inspired many people who's guidance I follow to this day,  so for that alone I owe him a debt of gratitude. I will get out and get some of those cd's! Thank you Ted!

Jan 09, 2010 03:20 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

I didn't know he passed away. I used to find him wonderfully wise and he sent daily emails to me when I was coached and then they just stopped.  Thanks for the post and the tribute to your mentor.

Jan 09, 2010 04:43 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Ted

I have had the pleasure of attending 6 of Jim's seminars or guest lectures and I cannot express how eloquent and down to earth he was.

As you can tell by the upcoming memorial attendance of some of the heavy hitters in the motivation business, he touched a tremendous amount of people.

Ty

Jan 09, 2010 05:19 AM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Ted...What a heartfelt tribute to a very important person in your life.

Cosmic Cow

Jan 09, 2010 05:32 AM
Jill Schmidt
Aurora, CO

I didn't know about him, but I'm going to look him up now.  Great quotes and a nice memorial.  Remember, we will never know the complete extent of our impact on earth, but make it good!

Jan 09, 2010 05:55 AM
Emily Lowe
RE/MAX Homes and Estates, Lipman Group - Nashville, TN
Nashville TN Realtor
Very moving post. I love inspirational people who make a difference like this. He will be missed.
Jan 09, 2010 07:38 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

I didn't know him but mentors are so important. I would rather have a mentor that a guru. A guru tells you how to live, a mentor show you how to live by their example.

Jan 09, 2010 09:47 AM
Kimberly Harris
Real Estate One,Macomb County, MI - Clinton Township, MI

Amazing story....my 40th year brought about alot of revelations for myself. You hit it on the head when you talked about seeking the relationship with God-all your problems seem to be much smaller.

God Bless You and Your Business!

Jan 09, 2010 10:21 AM
J. Philip Faranda
Howard Hanna Rand Realty - Yorktown Heights, NY
Associate Broker / Office Manager

Was this the same person who inspired Anthony Robbins early in his career? 

Jan 09, 2010 10:40 AM
Matt Johnson
Kirkland, WA

Hey Philip

Yup indeed he was. In an essense he was the creator of the Robbins that we know today. 
Warm wishes

Jan 09, 2010 10:48 AM
Pat Laracy Baker
Realty Executives Boston West - Holliston, MA
Pat Baker Dream Home Maker

I just loved that guy.  He will be missed by millions.  Thank you for the post.  Blessings to you this new year.

Jan 09, 2010 01:41 PM
Wendy Rich-Soto, Realtor/Broker Associate
Keller Williams Realty, LA Harbor - San Pedro, CA
Getting you to your next with a zero failure rate!

Ted,

 

I know you will miss him but what a fantastic and significant impact he had on your life!  It is wonderful that you were able to get to know him.  May he rest in peace.  :-)

 

Wendy

Jan 09, 2010 06:50 PM
Dianne Bartlett
Brightside Realty, LLC - Austin, TX

Wow Ted:  I did not know he had passed on.  I got to hear him speak several years ago and have several of his CD's.  I agree - what an inspiration - he will be missed.

Jan 10, 2010 02:13 AM