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Pressing On - Professional Take

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Real Estate RS301772

My previous blog had a spiritual twist to it. This is the same premise, but with a professional intrepretation.

On Saturday August 4, Emily Osment, co-star of Disney's hit show Hannah Montana, made an appearance at the Steamtown Mall. Emily has previously been in some films, perhaps most notably as the gutsy Gertie Giggles in Spy Kids (as an avid James Bond and Get Smart fan, I love this movie...). My two daughters were dying to go see this teen sensation, and we brought along two friends (and their moms, who were just as excited as me to face a crowd of strange bodies in the middle of summer...).

When we arrived, the crowd astonished me. My one companion warned me that I was being naive - I really had no idea that the sidekick on the show would draw such a big crowd. Now, had Miley Cyrus herself, the star of the show, and daughter of the Achy Breaky Billy Ray Cyrus been appearing, I would have expected to not make it onto Lackawanna Avenue, let alone be able to park in the garage...but I digress. Let's just say, Emily has lots of adoring fans in Northeastern PA.

Adoring Fans

To make a long story short, my daughter was not going to listen to me when I told her that it would be impossible to expect to meet Emily and get her autograph. After all, look at all of those people! It was NUTS in there. People were so close to me it made me feel icky. My friends said they felt like they needed a shower. As a person who really values her personal space, this was a real trial to me. But my daughter wanted to press on. So, I decided she needed to learn for herself that mom knows what she's talking about, and I told her to go ahead and try to get on stage.

I held my breath while she disappeared out of my sight. I was mentally preparing myself for the disappointment later on the way home. Imagine my surprise when I saw her next: she was ON STAGE.

My daughter weaved her way in and out of the crowd, taking opportunities as she saw them to advance. She didn'tCrowd stomp on anyone, she didn't shove people out of the way, but she found openings, and took them. She got on stage in the nick of time, just as the guards roped off the area and said "No More!"

I got to thinking about this experience as a professional lesson. Surrounded by a crowd of other agents, I must find ways to get ahead of the crowd (without stepping on people along the way.) When I see an opportunity, I must be ready to zip in there before someone else beats me to it.

I've done that already with this blog. While I was not the first person in Pike County to have a blog in Active Rain, I was the first one from my exact local market to do so. Others may have been blogging on other platforms, but Active Rain is probably the largest real estate network autograhcurrently online - and I saw the opportunity to press ahead and I took it. It's exciting to be a pioneer! :)

Pressing ahead means taking risks, too...and I had to make a choice to either stay behind and struggle, or go ahead, take a chance, and be able to thrive. It would have been easy and comfortable to stay where I was for a while, but something inside me was urging me on. I had to listen to that voice and press ahead.

It's the only way to survive in real estate - constantly look for openings to set yourself apart from the others. If you stay with the crowd, you will be like the other kids rooted to their spot at the mall, and left without an autograph.

 

Press on, see opportunities to set yourself apart, and take them.

Just remember - stomping others down does nothing but make you look bad. Being bold and striving to keep ahead of the game, though, is a quality all excellent REALTORS share and something we all should strive for.

 

 

Karen Rice Real Estate Blog Northeast PA

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Patti Ann Kasper
EXIT REALTY NEXUS - Blaine, MN
Blaine & North Metro Minneapolis St Paul Real Esta

I have no clue who any of those people are... But you are right, you have to sieze opportunities when they come your way.  I too, do not like to be one of the very loud boisterous people to stomp on others.  I prefer to pick my way through the minefield carefully, but steadily.

And while I don't really "believe" in Astronomy - I am a Capricorn.  Sometimes I imagne myself being like a mountain goat.  Carefully but steadily climbing the mountain with sure footedness and an occassional little bleet.

 

Aug 05, 2007 01:17 PM
Karen Rice Keller Williams Real Est
Keller Williams Real Estate - Hawley, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales
Patti, thanks for your comment.  It is a fine line, to try and "get ahead" without hurting those around us.  Sometimes the easy way is to promote yourself to the point where you are badmouthing others, even if you don't say so in "so many words".  It's a fine line to promote yourself without being arrogant and egotistical - which is a huge turn off.  This business is not for the faint of heart!  LOL
Aug 05, 2007 01:24 PM
Paula Henry
Home to Indy Team @ HomeSmart Realty Group - Avon, IN
Realtor - Indianapolis Real Estate - 317-605-4174
Karen - I have watched not only agents but other professionals who insisted on taking others down on their way to succees. They are no longer successful. We must follow our dream amd ambitions wothout destroying others in the process. These two posts were great!
Aug 05, 2007 02:07 PM
Karen Rice Keller Williams Real Est
Keller Williams Real Estate - Hawley, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales
Thank you Paula.  It is a fine line, and I want to always take the fine line on the side of the "high road."
Aug 05, 2007 02:10 PM
Ashley Drake Gephart
Drake Intel Group - Albuquerque, NM
Karen pushing through even when other say it can't be done is something we have to keep in mind with all we do. But doing so ethically has to be our top concern.
Aug 07, 2007 11:08 AM
Karen Rice Keller Williams Real Est
Keller Williams Real Estate - Hawley, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales
Ashley - I agree.  There is nothing to be gained by being underhanded.  
Aug 07, 2007 11:17 AM
Rita Taylor
None - Sanford, NC
Sanford NC Real Estate - Homes for Sale in Sanford North Carolina

Karen,

This business isn't for the faint of heart but I agree that stepping on people's toes and shoving them out of the way is not the way to get ahead.  Great analogy with your daughter finding an opening and taking it.  I recently found myself in a position where I needed to change brokerages.  I saw it as an opportunity to put myslef into a more positive environment.  Thanks for the ispirational post. 

Aug 07, 2007 04:25 PM
Karen Rice Keller Williams Real Est
Keller Williams Real Estate - Hawley, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales
Dear Rita - I had to do the same thing.  I was comfortable where I was, to a certain point - but there were other things that I just had to consider my "deal breakers" - and having certain freedoms was one of them.  
Aug 08, 2007 11:27 PM
Anonymous
hussain
i love miley
Aug 22, 2007 12:57 AM
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Jennifer Allan-Hagedorn
Sell with Soul - Pensacola Beach, FL
Author of Sell with Soul
You are such a good writer... I really look forward to your blogs. Another great one - don't great analogies just make you smile??!!
Aug 22, 2007 02:13 AM
Karen Rice Keller Williams Real Est
Keller Williams Real Estate - Hawley, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales

Jennifer - thank you so much for the kind words.  I love analogies, and I love it when I can come up with one!  I look forward to your blogs too - you are my inspiration!

hussain - my daughter loves Miley too.  :) 

Aug 25, 2007 02:25 AM