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Five Ways Buyers Sabotage Their Home Search

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Southern Nevada Realty, LLC B.8058.LLC

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Are you unwittingly sabotaging your home purchase?  Read these five actions and see if any of them look familiar.

Lender Issues

When an agent asks if you have seen a lender - don't take this as a personal statement against your credit worthiness or overall trustworthiness.  This is a reality of how things are going in the lending side today. It is a crazy world in the lending business and it will prevent some headaches if you get your financing in place before you start looking.

Paperwork

Yes, we do need your stinking paperwork.  Everything has to be in writing or it is worthless.  Don't delay signing and returning the items your lender or agent sends to you.  Want to make an offer? Do it right away.  Don't tell your agent to call and let the listing agent know an offer is coming in.  Listing agents hear that all the time (it doesn't mean a thing).  The only thing that counts is your signature on the offer pages.  Don't miss out on your dream home because you couldn't get the fax machine or scanner to work. Head to your local Kinkos and get it done.

Confusion

You don't have to look at every home on the market.  It won't make you feel better, it will only confuse you. Instead, take some time to look at the listings your agent is emailing you.  These listings will have photos and details about the property.  Look this information over and see if the home meets your needs.  Also, get online and do some neighborhood research.  Online aerial views and crime data is readily available.  Stop the frustration of looking at homes that don't work by doing a bit of homework prior to looking.

Silence

Your agent wants to know your likes and dislikes.  You will not offend them.  The homes you are looking at are not their homes.  The only way your agent can help you is if you speak up.  Like a home with a view?  Speak up. Want to avoid fixxer uppers?  Speak up.   Your silence does nothing to help you in your home search. 

Inconsistent Behavior

You say, I only want to see homes with a view of the golf course.  Pretty straight forward. The very next day you are asking to see homes with no view at all (in fact, there is a big wall behind the lot).  Huh?  What happened?

Your inconsistent behavior could give your agent the impression that you are not serious about your home search.  If you are not serious, then why should they be?

If you see yourself in these five ways - relax.  You still have time to change things.

Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Well Cindy, you have been talking to some of my Buyers, haven't you? Do you think this is universal behavior?

Sep 09, 2010 01:45 PM
Gloria Valvasori, Accredited Senior Agent
BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS REAL ESTATE SIGNATURE SERVICE - Mississauga, ON
REAL Experience | REAL Commitment | REAL Results!

Cindy, great post and these issues come up often... sounds like you`ve been taling to my buyers also11

Sep 09, 2010 01:48 PM
Cindy Smith
Century 21 Nachman Realty - Elizabeth City, NC

This is a great blog and it could not have been said any better.  I might take a buyer to see one home before talking to a lender and that is all.  If they are not motivated to helping themselves when advice is given and the advantages that goes with it then I am not motivated to helping them waste my time.

Sep 09, 2010 01:50 PM
Cindy Abel
Southern Nevada Realty, LLC - Las Vegas, NV

Evelyn, I love my buyers, but sometimes the things they do!

Gloria, I hope I haven't been talking to your buyers.  Ha, ha.  Maybe, they are really confused.

Cindy, I don't think they do it deliberately.  They just don't deal with these things every day like we do.  Which is why they have us to guide them along the path.

Sep 09, 2010 01:54 PM
Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Hi Cindy~  Yes, the buyers are the same everywhere!  I guess we just need to ask more questions!

Sep 09, 2010 01:54 PM
Gary & Melynda Wolter, Since 2001, 480-269-1164
ProSmart Realty - Mesa, AZ
Reliable, Premier Personal Service since 2001

Don't forget to bring your parents along on all the tours!

Sep 09, 2010 01:57 PM
Cindy Abel
Southern Nevada Realty, LLC - Las Vegas, NV

Vickie, yes we also need to remember to not keep silent.

Gary and Melynda, ha, ha - that is also another way to sabotage your home search.

Sep 09, 2010 02:00 PM
Stanley Stepak
Howard Hanna - Avon Lake, OH - Avon Lake, OH
Realtor - Avon Lake, Avon, Bay Village, Westlake,

Cindy,

Great post. But I will say right here, right now. if any of these apply to your situation, you do not have a serious buyer. You have someone who is dreaming of owning a home but is not in a position to buy one.

Sep 09, 2010 02:05 PM
Cindy Abel
Southern Nevada Realty, LLC - Las Vegas, NV

Stan, sometimes buyers don't know what they are doing.  A few questions and some straight talk will usually clear the situation up.  If not, it is time to move on.  It never hurts to be direct and honest with people.

Sep 09, 2010 04:06 PM