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STOP Whinin, and START Helpin (please)

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Mortgage and Lending with Christensen Financial Mortgage 385907

Many years ago, or so it seems, in a far away place you used to be able to acquire a mortgage with little or no documentation required. Basically all that was required was a

PULSE

Now it hasn't been that way for quite awhile. I mean we've been "over documenting" loan files for a bit now but still I hear the

Whinin

I recently saw a post title that asked, " I'm not self employed, why must I provide tax returns?" or something like that. I didn't read the post so I'm not sure if that is what the content was actually about, but the answer is 

the guy (gal) with the money says so

to simple for ya?

We used to call it

the golden rule

that being

the guy (gal) with the gold makes the rules

That's what we used to tell ya. Well guess what? It's back.

the GOLDEN RULE

You should be used to it by now so why all the whining? It doesn't help in any way. Instead of

Helpin

We get the buyers all fired up by agreeing with them, and empathizing with them, instead of stressing that the underwriting requirements today are not all that flexible, and that if possible they really just need to provide the documentation as soon as possible.

We also need to establish a new rule

the past doesn't matter

Whatever you did or didn't need to acquire a mortgage 3, 5, 7 years ago just doesn't mean anything today.

Just a quick point to address the obvious

Whinin doesn't help

I can't think of anyway that whining helps. Certainly the underwriter doesn't say okay that was some exceptional whinin, I'm going to waive the condition. They don't wave conditions very often any more, and please remember

(the past doesn't matter)

As a matter of fact, and I could be wrong here, but I don't think so, it appears the more the buyer shows a reluctance to provide the requested documents, the firmer the condition becomes. Did I mention

whinin doesn't help

So here's my conclusion. We need to accept that, it is what it is, and all work together towards a common goal. That would be

Closing

So it's time to

Stop Whinin, and Start Helpin!