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The Month of March ... Celebrating the Inner Irish in All of Us - Chapter 15

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The Month of March ... Celebrating the Inner Irish in All of Us - Chapter 15

To whet your appetite and help you prepare to celebrate the upcoming MAJOR INTERNATIONAL HOLIDAY, St. Patrick's Day, I thought I would share a few photos and a wee bit of the story about a trip we made to Ireland. I will post a wee bit each day until St. Patty's day. Hope you will follow along.

I thought it might be a good idea to re-introduce you to the cast of characters in this story. The purpose of this trip was to return the ashes of my wife's mother, Mary, to her homestead in Drumshanbo, County Leitrim, Ireland.

Chris, my wife, (Be patient. You'll find out tomorrow)
Eric, her son, the surfer, aviation student at Western Michigan, farm hand and 
NOW psychologist/entertainer
Barbara, her sister, NOW mine explorer

Ed, her father, the man who never took a bad photograph, and NOW honorary Irish
Me, her husband,
NOW demolition derby driver

Wee Bit No. 15  - Our last full day in Ireland is finally here, and in a wee bit, we will be going over to the thatched roof cottage where Mary was born, to have a private little ceremony and sprinkle her ashes...you remember those, don't you? Then you also remember how we "hatched" the plan to smuggle her ashes past security at the airport. You also may remember how I described this metaphor was as "fragile as an egg..."

So last evening we visited Michael and Roseanne BiernesSky Trees Cottage Stone Wall at their family home, once owned by Michael's parents, John and Greta Biernes in Drumshanbo and met some other relatives from another side of Mary's family. We gathered around the fireplace in the living room in sort of an informal "meet and greet."  Michael Biernes mentioned Mary's homestead was undergoing a complete renovation inside and out, with new asphalt shingle roof, stucco sidewalls and many changes inside.The smell of peat burning in the fireplace created a warm and friendly atmosphere.

As we chatted, we let them know our mission for this visit and how we planned to go to Mary's homestead the next day for a wee bit of a ceremony with the ashes, and asked if they would like to take part. They indicated they would meet us over there around 10 o'clock.

So this morning, as usual, we had another one of Maírín's never ending scrumptious breakfasts, again served with rainbows on the side. It struck me a bit unusual that today it was a double rainbow and I thought, "well that must mean something."

Well, Maírín had tempted me with just one more breakfast item I had never tried, so I fell a bit behind the others. Bobbie and Eric went upstairs to get ready for this outing while Ed and Chris retired to the sitting room across the hall from the dining room. I could hear them chatting a bit and planning the day while I was finishing up breakfast and enjoying the rainbows.

As I finished up the last savory bite of Maírín's special treat, I could hear Ed and Chris' conversation winding down. Chris, trying to get this "show on the road" so to speak, said, "Okay now Grandy (the name Eric called Ed), why don't you go upstairs and get the prescription bottle with the ashes and we'll get going."

Well, there was a wee bit of a pause before Ed replied, "Chris, I thought YOU were bringing the ashes." This conversation was rapidly punctuated by the sound of Chris running up the stairs in tears.

So, does anyone out there care to venture a guess as to the exact location of Mary...every single white powdery wee bit of Mary, at this exact moment?

That's right, folks. We are in Ireland without the ashes.

Since there was nothing we could do at this point to change the course of events, we saddled up and drove over to Lustia Lake, Mary's birthplace. From the doorstep, there is a beautiful view across the road of fields and an inviting path that leads to Lustia Lake. After taking the renovation tour, we started down the path to the lake.

At this point is the series, you're probably thinking this story is over, but I suggest you come back tomorrow and you'll find out there is yet another twist. Please mouse over the photos for more description.
Sky Trees Cars Gateway
Blue Sky Clouds Field Gateway
Blue Sky Clouds Fields Lake

This photo has not been retouched or enhanced in any way. It is exactly as taken by our old Olympus C-700 digital camera. Although Chris and I have our own ideas, I am interested in what you think this is.
Trees Path Ed Eric Walking

In case you have missed previous chapters, links are below:

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Chapter 9

Chapter 10

Chapter 11

Chapter 12

Chapter 13

Chapter 14

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Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

John, first, I would have to say that is Mary walking along with them, since the dummies left her ashes home she was going to make sure she was with them...

OK, that was harsh, LOL... sorry....

Seriously? That is just too funny, although not at the time, I am sure it was not at all funny. One of those moments when you wish, for a split second, you were anywhere but there.

I am anxiously awaiting the final installment!!!!!!

Mar 15, 2011 11:41 PM
Toni Weidman
Sailwinds Realty - Trinity, FL
20+ Years Selling Homes in New Port Richey, FL

Oh my gosh, John, I'm not believing it. You didn't have the ashes with you and no-one noticed all that time. It was the charm of Ireland that took away your senses!

I think Mary was trying to tell you it was okay! She understood.

Mar 15, 2011 11:51 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING JOHN!  OK - I am reading the rest of the chapters now!

Mar 16, 2011 12:26 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I've enjoyed your stories about your trip to Ireland. I think you could write an interesting book.

 Life is good when there are flowers in the garden.

Mar 16, 2011 01:25 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Andrea - I'll bet you didn't see that one coming and you've been right here all along :) Chris and I always thought the colors were something spiritual and maybe it was Mary. By this time, Ed realized he was mistaken about the ashes and you can see it in his posture :(  But Eric was right there to help him. Look for two posts tomorrow - Chapter 16 and the Epilogue. I promised I would complete the series on St. Patty's Day.

Toni - How the mix up happened, I don't know. Although it was Ed's job to pack the ashes and bring them, I guess we expected a little too much. He was 84 after all. But with the excitement of the trip, we never followed up. I do think Mary was with us all along. Thank you for following the wee bits!

Gabby - So glad you came by! Chronicling this trip has been great fun and a personal challenge. Hope you enjoy it!

Mar 16, 2011 01:39 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Good Morning Roy - Elizabeth Byrne, one of my dear friends here at AR has been saying that right along. If you missed her post about this series, here is the link: http://actvra.in/6td Please stop by and give it a read. I  know she will appreciate it!

Mar 16, 2011 01:45 AM
Karen Baker
Sunset Beach and Beyond Realty - Sunset Beach, NC
Professional Help with Rapid Responses...

John ~ I am devastated for your family that the ashes didn't make it on the trip ~ I felt so terrible when Chris ran up the stairs in tears ~

Mar 16, 2011 04:06 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Frank & Karen - It took a little while, but not only did we all get over it, we could find the humor in it all. See you tomorrow for the thrilling conclusion. Hope your day is awesome!

Mar 16, 2011 04:24 AM
Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
Arlington Virginia Real Estate

John, what about an overnight FedEx? Somehow, I believe the happy ending is coming! See you tomorrow.

 

Mar 16, 2011 05:54 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Elizabeth - Not sure if even FedEx could have come to the rescue this time. After all, we have a flight to catch tomorrow! Well, I'm off to write tomorrow's post. See you then!

Mar 16, 2011 06:17 AM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi John....oh sure..leave us all sitting at the edge of our chairs! I can't believe those ashes never made it and like Elizabeth have to believe that a good ending is to come. It sure does look like Mary was with them walking on the path that day. Until tomorrow....

Mar 16, 2011 02:50 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Cindy - Oh I promise there is a good ending, but with a twist! Chris and I always thought that had to be Mary.

Mar 16, 2011 10:33 PM
Yolanda Hoversten
Self Employed - O'Fallon, IL
Referrals for O’Fallon, IL & the Metro East

John, I do not take the Lord's name in vain, but in this case an OMG! (as the young ones would say,) is in order.

It is now St. Patrick's Day--I wish you all what this day entails.

Mar 17, 2011 07:06 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Yolanda - I am happy you stopped by! I think that comment pretty much sums up how we felt right about that time. Happy St. Patrick's Day to you!

Mar 17, 2011 08:06 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

This is a perfect example of when it's a good thing to be late to the party....now I don't have to wait for the next installment...I am heading there now to hear the twist ending!

My heart sunk when I read that they didn't have the ashes.  How sad!

Mar 18, 2011 12:57 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Sharon - Thank you so much, always, for following along. You might be a little late, but I'm sure you will be glad you came along in the end. The ashes, well as you will see, that's another story.

Mar 18, 2011 05:21 PM
Lisa Friedman
Great American Dream Realty - Essex, VT
35 Years of Real Estate Experience!

I think it was meant to be that the ashes did not make it to Ireland so that Mary's remains could remain with Ed longer. Yes, that is the romantic in me talking.

Sep 02, 2014 11:38 AM