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The Prom King of Shelton Connecticut And Other True Stories

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Real Estate Agent with William Raveis Real Estate

James Tate, a senior at Shelton High School in Shelton, CT, is a hero.  James became famous this week for being suspended and banned from attending the school's Senior Prom.  When you think of his punishment, keep in mind that this is a a day and age when schools have increased violence, cheating, bullying and a decrease in learning, standardized scores and graduation.

 

What was James Tate's crime?  See for yourself:

James Tate Suspended

That's right.  James and some of his friends came up with a creative way to ask a young woman to the Senior Prom.  They cut out letters with cardboard and affixed it on the side of the school.  The young woman (you can see her name above) was amused and accepted his invite.  The school's officials had other ideas.  They suspended James (and the friends who helped him stick the letters to the wall) and banned him from the senior prom.

Skewed Priorities

Overreacting?  I think so.  In this day and age, we need to have priorities.  I think in this matter, the school officials who suspended James and banned him from the prom have skewed priorities.  They could focus they time on students with drug problems, students who harm other students, or even students who need extra help learning.  Here, the school has made punishing a student for a victimless prank a top priority.

While James won't be going to the Senior Prom, the attention his prank (and subsequent suspension) have garnered has worked in his favor.  Multiple facebook pages have been set up in his support.  He was a guest on the Jimmy Kimmel show, and newspapers around the world have picked up the story.  Not too shabby for a high school senior...

Thoughts?
Does James deserve to go to the prom?
Is James Tate the prom king?

Feel free to share any funny stories from your days in high school.

 

 

 

 

Posted by

Scott Silverstone, Realtor®
The Jacobson Team
William Raveis Real Estate
203-815-9118 (Mobile)
www.ctproperty.com

Comments(5)

Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

Scott, I have read several news stories on this, talk about skewed priorities!  You hit the nail on the head!

May 12, 2011 04:55 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Banned from the prom? Suspended from school? Seems harsh. Funny you mention standardized testing. In Los Angeles 95% of 3600 students of a particular high school cannot achieve proficiency. What have the schools been doing with these kids for the last 12 years? Obviously, not teaching.

May 12, 2011 05:48 PM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

Scott, really harsh considering it wasn't painted or permanent and it was kind of cute!  We've gone way off the deep end with this kind a reaction.

When my room mate was graduating from college (a year a head of me), I talked her into throwing a whipped cream pie at my boss who worked at the University.  She got caught, and had to write a letter of apology before they gave her a diploma!  That was in 1975...they'd lock her up if it happened now I'm afraid!

May 13, 2011 01:02 AM
Bob Stewart
ActiveRain - Seattle, WA
ActiveRain Ambassador

I'm speechless.........so ridiculous I don't even know what to write.

May 13, 2011 10:23 AM
Scott Silverstone
William Raveis Real Estate - New Haven, CT
www.CTProperty.com, Connecticut Luxury & Waterfront Realty

Quick update - the school will now allow James Tate to attend the prom.  It only took a sit-in by current students, an appearance on national TV and international news coverage.

Tony - Thanks for your comment.  Seems like they went overboard here.

Pamela - So sad to hear what is happening in schools these days.

Laura - Funny story.  I'm all for fairness, but some schools have zero-tolerance policies that end up going way too far.

Bob - Glad I could post something so ridiculous that it caught you off guard.  This is how they roll in Shelton, CT!

May 14, 2011 07:04 AM