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From My Email In-Box: Making Your Wardrobe Work for You - Part 1 of 3

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Home Stager with Transition Stage LLC

From My Email In-Box: Making Your Wardrobe Work for You - Part 1 of 3


Do you struggle with trying to find something appropriate to wear every day? Is your closet over-stuffed, yet it seems like you constantly feel like you have nothing to wear? Do you find that you reject one article of clothing after another in the precious and few moments you have to get dressed in the morning? If you answered Yes! to any - or all - of these questions, then your clothing needs to be re-organized.

 

Making Your Wardrobe Work



Be prepared, before you start the process outlined below, that the mess will get worse before it gets better. Plan on it taking a couple of hours on three separate days.

OK, here goes:

Preparation and Tools

 - Make sure you have room to create some piles - a neatly made bed is an ideal space
 - Bring in a couple of new, large garbage bags and a large shopping bag
 - Place a pencil and pad somewhere handy
 - Put on some music that is pleasant for you. Go for soothing rather than stimulating.
 - Make sure you have a full length mirror and good lighting
 - Put on well-fitting underwear.
     - If you're a man, make sure it's suited to what you'd generally wear under a suit
     - If you're a woman, make sure it fits well and is a color close to your skin color

Sorting Process - Shirts/Blouses

 - Start by taking out each shirt or blouse, one at a time, and trying it on.

 - Take a good look at yourself in the mirror.  Check:
     - Does it fit?
     - Is it in good repair? E.g., no stains, tears, missing buttons, etc.
     - Do you like the way it looks on you?
     - Do you like the way you feel with it on?
     - Is it still in style?

   Very Important: If you answer No to any of the questions above, put it into a bag to either give away to charity or to throw away if it's not in good repair.

    Don't Get Hung Up: Do this rather quickly and don't look for excuses to keep anything you answer "No" to, as it's unlikely you'll wear it, and it just takes up unnecessary space. Note that it doesn't matter if a) you spent a lot of money on the item, or b) it's hardly worn at all, or c) it used to be your favorite. If it doesn't work for you now, it's not likely it ever will. Send it to a better place - to someone who will like it and wear it - or put it in the trash if it's not in good shape.

    Hang Up the Keepers: Put the shirts/blouses you are keeping on good hangers, and put them in the closet all together on one side of the closet. If you like, you can group like colors together as you put them in, but don't take too long with this.


Sorting Process - Skirts/Pants and Suits

 - Put your best white or off-white shirt or blouse on, and take out each skirt/pair of pants/suit, one at a time, and try them on. Again, check the list given above for blouses/shirts. Work through the clothing quickly, and sort into the giveaway bags or put the item on a hanger and hang each in a section next to the shirts/blouses. If you're a woman, you'll most likely have two or three sections; one for skirts, one for pants, and one for suits.

Important Note About Suits: For women, there are two ways to handle suits. You can hang them on a suit hanger, with the skirt or pants below the jacket. Or, you can separate them and put all the jackets together in your closet and the skirts with skirts, pants with pants. This will help you to see more options for your clothing than just putting on the "same old suit" that may feel boring to you.

 
Sorting Process - Jackets

 - Put on your best white or off-white shirt/blouse and your best skirt/pair of pants. Try each jacket on and follow the checklist. Yep, you've got it: put all the "keeper" jackets together in the closet.

Sorting Process - Shoes

Men will have a relatively easy process here. With the exception of sports shoes, you can just wear a standard pair of socks to try them on.

Women will most likely have dress shoes,
boots, casual shoes such as loafers, and sports shoes. A sheer knee high will work to try on dress shoes and boots, but you might want a slightly heavier sock for casual shoes, and a cotton sock for sports shoes.

Put them on, walk around, make sure they still fit and are comfortable. If they need repairs, put them in a shopping bag to take to the repair shop. If your sports shoes are really worn, you probably want to plan to replace them.

Sort the shoes you're giving away into the bags, designate a repair bag, and then put the keepers back in the closet. If your previous method of storing shoes was a jumble on the floor of the closet, make a note to buy shelving or other shoe storage to fit into your closet. Neatly line up the shoes on the closet floor for now.

Bags, Scarves, Ties, Belts

Bags, Scarves and Ties - In good repair? A style you still want to use? Colors that work with your clothing?

Belts - Does it fit? In good repair?
A style you still want to use? Colors that work with your clothing?

Bags can be stored in a plastic bin on the shelf in your closet. Scarves, ties and belts are usually best if hung up.

Now Stop for the Day

You've now got only the "keepers" in your closet. Take the giveaway bags to the trash, or to the charity drop off now. It's important to have your space cleaned up, and to get those unwanted items out of the house right away.

Tomorrow, we'll tackle the dresser.



From My Email In-Box: Making Your Wardrobe Work for You - Part 1 of 3

Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Bob - It's my pleasure! Sometimes the trick to a great fit is actually finding someone who can do a bit of tailoring for you. There are many hidden treasures who can make alterations. A good way to find someone is to ask at your local menswear store. You may also find that someone at your thrift store knows someone who can do this, too. You shouldn't be stuck wearing a "tent."

May 18, 2011 03:04 PM
Dagny Eason
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo

Judy - You are going to get me making a huge mess out of my bedroom!!!!  I haven't cleaned out in 6 years!

May 18, 2011 04:35 PM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Judy - this is such a timely post as I begin to switch out my winter wardrobe for my spring/summer one. I really need to stop storing the same clothes that I haven't worn in years! I'm going to keep this list and do this - I know I will feel better once I'm done.........but it won't be easy - lol!

May 18, 2011 04:57 PM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Dagny - I promise, the mess is only for a little while! Then things get a LOT better!

May 19, 2011 12:40 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Kristine - Great! I know what you mean, because I used to do that, too. Then I just got sick and tired of dealing with the same things every year, knowing I wasn't wearing so much of it. This will streamline your closet and your wardrobe. Best of luck!

May 19, 2011 12:42 AM
Brian Madigan
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage (Toronto) - Toronto, ON
LL.B., Broker

Judy,

Excellent advice. I certainly have a lot of things I never wear. And, someone else might be able to use them.

Brian

May 19, 2011 12:59 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Brian - Thank you! Yes, that's a good way to think about those things we don't wear. Someone else will feel grateful to have them.

May 19, 2011 01:42 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Valerie - How cool - I had no idea you gave a course on this! It does take work, but the effect is so worthwhile!

May 19, 2011 01:43 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Judy, the chief cook goes through this rigamarole twice a year.  But, she always looks pretty good.  Oh, I mean, she's a knock-out.  If I don't say that, I will be one, too.

May 19, 2011 02:07 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Ron - Thanks for that laugh! Don't be a knock-out, uh, knocked out!

May 19, 2011 02:20 AM
Liz Wallace
Century 21 Sherlock Homes - Rockville Centre, NY
Broker C21 Sherlock Homes, Rockville Centre, LI, N

I am oh so happy to report that there is not one shred of clothing or a single shoe in my closet that I don't love, will wear and is comfortable.  I am the ultimate purger.

May 19, 2011 03:55 AM
Shar Sitter
Rooms With Style - Minneapolis, MN
Home Staging and Redesign Minneapolis/ St. Paul, M

I hate to organize. Can you just come to my house please?

May 19, 2011 04:28 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Liz - That's terrific! It makes life every day so much more comfortable, doesn't it?

May 19, 2011 04:31 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Shar - I would love to! We could have such fun.

May 19, 2011 04:32 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Just did my closet recently and it always makes me feel so good!  Closets are my favorite thing to organize...I could clean out closets all day long!

May 19, 2011 04:43 AM
Shar Sitter
Rooms With Style - Minneapolis, MN
Home Staging and Redesign Minneapolis/ St. Paul, M

No you would have fun...I would watch. Ha. But then the wine after you were finished would be fun! LOL

May 19, 2011 05:58 AM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Judy--what a fun post.  For those people who just can't bring themselves to part with things, I suggest they take the bags to the garage or basement and then if they haven't gone looking for one single item in those bags in the next 6 months they can happily take them to Good Will or the Salvation Army or some other charitable organization. 

May 19, 2011 06:24 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Sharon - Excellent! I love it, too, and I really love being able to see eveything and know it all fits, is in good repair, and so on. Ready to put on and leave the house!

May 19, 2011 11:28 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Shar - You are too funny! OK, I'll have the initial fun, and then we'll both enjoy the wine!

May 19, 2011 11:29 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Janet - That could work! On the other hand, the danger is that they'd open the bags and then it would be all over.

May 19, 2011 11:30 AM