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Texting, Typing, Tone & Thought - Are you conveying the Right Message?

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with St.Cloud Homes

  Who ever thought our thumbs would do all the talking? Technology, texting, typing, have replaced simply talking. But with tone and thought are you conveying the right message? Depending on the receipient's frame of mind, ambiquity in how we text and the words with which we mean to convey our message can and are often misinterpreted.

VOICE INFLECTION

Great aurators know the secret to smooth delivery is in the manner we use our voices to emphasis certain phrases to key words. Absent is the tone in a text message. The subtle inflection, indicating whether or not a comment was meant to be humourous or serious.  We have the ability to convey numerous emotions by inflection.  Surprise! Sincerity, distain, excitement or confusion are just a few. A question always ends on a up tone for example.

THOUGHT

Texting requires much more effort. It also requires extreme dexiterity if being performed while driving, or other task.  (That was meant to be humorous) Often texting is direct. It can also be interpreted as cold or impersonal. Add to that the shorthand, and a simple message becomes a clue out of the Davinci Code.

The deal HTGASTD.   (Hit the ground and started to dig)

ISSYGTI.  There is now a net lingo dictionary to help us understand commonly used phrases abbreviated.

As communicators, are skill lies in our ability to convey clear, concise points in a timely manner.

In business, it is critical we are specific.  Language and use thereof is a skill.  We need to say what we mean and mean what we say. 

While we derive many benefits by use of electronic media, the tone and intent of our communication skills are often lost by the reader.

While we all have the desire to be accepted by our peers; it is of vital importance to keep in mind, that conventional social behavior, is not necessarily applicable to business skills.

HPY   (Happy New Year)

 

Posted by

St.Cloud Homes

Allison Stewart Broker, SFR, CDPE 

407-616-9904www.kissimmee-stcloudflhomes.com

                                                                                                       

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Comments(2)

Robert Hammerstein -
Christie's International Real Estate - Hillsdale, NJ
Bergen County NJ Real Estate

Hi Allison,

So true.  I once had a friend get mad at me because they thought my e-mail meant something entirely different than what I meant!  Technology is great but there is nothing to replace the human spirit yet and thank goodness for that!  Happy New Year to you!

Dec 31, 2007 02:10 AM
Rita Bradley
Laguna Hills, CA
Valuation Consultant in Orange County California 949-916-3263

Thanks for highlighting the net lingo library.  Maybe I'll have some idea what my kids are talking about now! 

I don't know how many people know this but if you are working from home, it's possible for the person "out there" to text to your email address and you can respond from your email address too.  It's much quicker for me to write back from my email address-typing with to hands is easier than with two thumbs!

Jan 07, 2008 06:06 AM