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"I don't know nothing 'bout plumbing, Miss Scarlett!"

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Real Estate Agent with Remax First Realty II 0790808

File:HK Sai Wan 69 Pokfulam Road 錦明閣 King Ming Mansion Trap plumbing July-2011.jpgMany years ago, Jean was a single mother with two very young children, a mortgage, and an ex-husband who refused to pay child support despite the court orders. And the sink clogged.

You should know that Jean is relatively competent - aside from being a part time Realtor (#1 in Clark, NJ!) and a full time 7th grade science teacher, she has her Master's Degree (and then some) and is also a volunteer EMT. But a plumber she is not. 

But, in our story many years ago, there was no money for plumbing. None. There was no fat in the budget to trim to pay for a plumber.

Luckily, Jean was part of a chain of extremely strong women. So she did something that terrified her. She searched in the pile of old tools in her basement for something that looked like it could take apart sink pipes (she later learned that the object she found was called  a monkey wrench - who knew?) and proceeded to take apart the sink pipes (they probably also have names, but that's beyond the scope of this post). 

And found the clog. And cleaned it. 

And fixed the sink problem. By herself. Without a i don't know nothing 'bout plumbingplumber. 

 

And thus today's lesson is - Do something you've never done before, even if (especially if?) it scares you. You'll learn more about yourself and your abilities than you ever imagined. And conquering something, even if it's as trivial as a clogged pipe, will give you the confidence you need to do something else you're afraid of. And so on, and so on, and so on.

What are you doing today that scares you? 

 

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~ Wayne & Jean 

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Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Wow!  Jean sounds like wonder women!  She certainly sounds like she can do anything if she sets her mind to it.

Jul 30, 2012 01:21 AM
Bobbie Smith
Stroudsburg, PA
570-242-1891

No that's a challenge.  A good one too. Perhaps I could do it once a week instead of every day? Just kidding. Great post. Thanks.

Jul 30, 2012 01:29 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I love this blog - especially the part about doing something you have never done before, even if it scares you!  I was a bride once, and while in that state, my husband and I decided to redo plumbing to a guest house on our property.  He was an electrician, and when I asked him if we would be able to do what was required to tie into the sewer, he jauntily replied, "All you need to know to be a plummer is that crap rolls down hill, and payday is Friday."  Alas, things weren't quite as simple as he boasted.  But at 2:30 am one foggy morning, I learned a lot about math and "fall" to make things flow properly:-)

Jul 30, 2012 01:37 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Ventura, CA
RETIRED

This post just proves what we are capable of especially when our backs are against a wall!

Jul 30, 2012 02:19 AM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes

There are many YouTube videos to teach how to do almost anything these days.

 

 

Jul 30, 2012 02:31 AM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Ha, Paula! Hardly a wonder woman!!

I'm with you, Bobbie - once a week is plenty!

LOL, Myrl!

Not 15 years ago, Benjamin!

So true, Kathy!

Jul 30, 2012 02:33 AM
Chris and Dick Dovorany
Homes for Sale in Naples, Bonita Springs and Estero, Florida - Naples, FL
Broker/Associate at Premiere Plus Realty

I absolutely agree with you.  There is no reason on this earth that a woman can not go to Home Depot and either ask the right questions or buy a snake and do it herself.

Jul 30, 2012 02:38 AM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

You're right, Chris and Dick!

But here's what happened AFTER I posted this. I go to the grocery store to buy ingredients for my blueberry cheesecake bars (stay tuned for that recipe) and have a flat tire. An auto mechanic I'm not. I just wish I could CHOOSE the things I want to try rather than have them surprise me like this!

Jul 30, 2012 03:34 AM
Ciara Brennan
Mass Homes Realty - Hanover, MA

This is a great article. Very encouraging. It shows that we can do most things if we set our mind to it and just try!! Oftentimes it is just getting up the courage to get it started which is difficult!

Jul 30, 2012 04:18 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Wayne and Jean, an excellent philosophy to live by.  (by the way---that is some seriously messed up sink plumbing :)

Jul 30, 2012 04:19 AM
Beth and Richard Witt
New York, NY
The best Retired Brokers !!!!

Congratulations on the Feature... To me this is a beautiful post because it is so heartfelt and it also offers some very valuable advice...

Jul 30, 2012 04:31 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Good job, Jean.  I've been wanting to try brain surgery, but I'm having a hard time getting volunteers.  I know I can do it.  8=)  Congrats on the success plumbing clean out, and better yet, congrats on the feature!

Jul 30, 2012 10:32 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Rent a Jean...is what comes to mind...the potential is there

Jul 30, 2012 11:47 PM
Kalene Bagwell
Realty Executives Of Kansas City - Blue Springs, MO
Realtor - Selling Blue Springs - Kansas City Metro

If only more people were like Jean and took action instead of just giving up! By the way, your title caught my eye because I am definitely a 'Gone With the Wind" fan.  Prissy had the most unique voice and was perfect in that part!

Jul 31, 2012 12:07 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great advice Wayne, its a good skill to learn, plumbers are hard to find and generally Expensive even for the simple things, now I need to concentrate on finding my "never done before job"

Aug 02, 2012 02:56 PM
Paul Gapski
Berkshire Hathaway / Prudential Ca Realty - El Cajon, CA
619-504-8999,#1 Resource SD Relo
 

Thank you for sharing your blog; we need Real estate Professionals to share their comments and information regarding their markets and experiences. Thanks again from beautiful Sunny San Diego.

Nov 02, 2012 04:53 PM