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Hello fellow VA's and Active Rainers,

         I wanted to get your opinion on how to deal with difficult clients. I acquired a Realtor client from here at AR everything was going fine the first couple of weeks of working with this client. In total I worked with this client for about a month. They had hired me to handle their lead management. When I started it was right before the holidays and they wanted to clean up their Top Producer and send out holiday cards via Plaxo to their leads and contacts in TP, we would then update leads from the responses we got as we asked the lead/contact to update their contact information or to unsubscribe so we could clean them out of the system. There was probably about 1000 or so contacts that was in their database. So I went through TP and took out all of the duplicate contacts and then did mass e-blasts as they had be break everyone up into different categories. Depending upon what category they fell under determined what type of message they got from us. Well once I got that done the responses started to come in to the company provided email account that I was to be monitoring for them. As they came in I would update the leads/contacts per the emails coming in. In the mean time I was going to get their systems all working together to handle all of their leads. They wanted to use Send Out Cards, Rainmaker and Top Producer for their leads. They had leads coming in from several different areas. So I was in the process of cleaning up the systems and getting the leads from TP and putting them into lists to get them into the other two systems so that all three systems had each contact so when certain items came up it was easy to send out a birth day card or send something from Rainmaker or an item that was in Top Producer. All of which is a process you have to export lists from Top Producer and import into each of the other systems.

Well to make a long story short I was in the process of doing this and updating leads as they came in via the e-blast that we just did. Right before my client left on vacation for Christmas sends me an email tells me to stop everything  because she didn't know that I would be updating leads and doing lists that her in-house assistant can do paying her $10 an hour over my rate of $30. My client then said she wanted to talk to me before anymore work was done. I then emailed her back with a day and general time that she could then reach me. That day came and went. I did not hear from my client so I called my client and ended up leaving a message. I then received an email later on that day saying that I know what their schedule was if I would have looked at their calendar in Top Producer and would have know that they were not available. So I then went into TP and viewed their calendar and schedule me in for the next day. The next day I receive an email telling me that that time just wouldn't work because they did not have to to call me as they were going from one appt to the next blah, blah, blah. So I then reply telling my client that they may call me at their convienance as I would make myself available to speak with them. I still have not heard anything from this client I have sent a few emails just saying touching base would like to speak with you regarding our working relationship. I have also twice and left a message as they are never available to speak with me. I left a message yesterday and politely explained that if they planned on canceling their contract with me per that contract I need it in writing. I also wanted them to remove my information from their website and any print media that it was in. No email and no phone response back and my information is still up on their website as working with them.

 In the month that I did work with this client they had called and discussed frustrations with their listing agent and was able to vent with me and I called them down regarding the situation with this agent. Shortly after this agent was let go from their organization. So then the costs of having me were solely on this agent.

 How would you have handled this client? I am very upset do to the unprofessionalism that this Realtor has displayed. There was nothing done on my part to justify being blown off like this. This started on 12/14/07 I still have not heard anything nothing. No return phone call, no return email saying hey this is what is going on blah, blah, blah. Nothing. This seriously infuriates me. I guess the good thing is at least they paid me everything they owed me before blowing me off.   Any advice would be greatly appreicated. This was not my first client and was not my only client but it still makes me very upset that they act this way in a business setting.

We as Virtual Assistants hold ourselves to high ethics shouldn't the Realtors we work with do the same???

 

(Sorry so long and thanks for letting me vent)

 

 

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Dennis Swartz
Full Circle Property Management - Columbus, OH
MBA, GRI...experience counts!

Man, that had to be tough. I can tell you its not just Realtors, its everyone that is tough. I have worked many times with clients and spend a lot of time with no pay, and they buy a home with someone else.

I think your client found out they could have someone do the work for less money-although probably not as good as you-and they don't have the guts to tell you. I think that is sad, not as a realtor, but as a human that they don't have the moxie to tell you the truth.

Now that you have vented, maybe you feel better? Life is too short to waste it on people like that. It sounds like you are good so put your face to the wind and step forward. They will get theirs someday.

Jan 24, 2008 09:29 AM
Kay Perry
Kay Perry, Broker - College Station, TX

Personally, I do not work with buyers or sellers who are difficult.  Your situation is different, so I don't know.

Jan 24, 2008 09:38 AM
Mohamed Mekhimar - Accredited Buyers Rep , E-Pro - Richmond Virginia Real Estate
RE/MAX Commonwealth - Richmond, VA

What goes around comes around and bites you in the rear end.

They will get their reward.

Jan 24, 2008 09:38 AM
Laura Monroe
Inman News - San Francisco, CA
Dir. of Industry Engagement & Social Media
Hi Skye,  I just emailed you, so you have shoulder to lean on:) Sounds like you were on a roll and doing everything right, and were treated unfairly. I commend you for handling yourself with professionalism, and rising above the actions of the agent.
Jan 24, 2008 09:55 AM
Skye Hawk
At Your Service! Virtual Assistant Specialists - Fountain Hills, AZ
NAR Cert. REPA "Rockstar REVA"

Dennis- Thank you, I never really thought of it that way but you are probably right.

Kay & Mohamed- Thanks!

Laura- Thanks, got your email responded. You know I always appreciate chatting with you. 

Thanks for your support. I feel better that I got to vent. I have definitely moved on I have several other clients that I support that are great and wonderful and some are even here on the Rain. I have just not had to deal with the nasty side of the business world to much in my 5 years of doing this.

Jan 24, 2008 09:59 AM
JudyAnn Lorenz
Bar JD Communications - Mansfield, MO
Virtual Marketing Consultant

When times are hard, the one that cannot be seen is easiest to cut.  It isn't nice or professional, but it happens. 

As Real Estate agents are perpetually trying to get a position of indispensability, their staff, whether inhouse or virtual ride the same roller coaster.  I hope this one agent/brokerage is only a tiny part of your stable of clients.

Jan 27, 2008 08:52 AM
Taryn Merrick
Merrick Management And Media Virtual Assistant Services - Dandridge, TN
Virtual Assistant
I have had this happen in the past, or something very similar, anyway. Do hang in there and know you did nothing wrong. All of us can always find services for cheaper, but are they as good? Often times, not. So continue providing your excellent service to other clients and new ones will always come along who appreciate you :-)
Jan 30, 2008 05:13 AM
Skye Hawk
At Your Service! Virtual Assistant Specialists - Fountain Hills, AZ
NAR Cert. REPA "Rockstar REVA"
Judy and Taryn thanks for the input and thoughts.
Jan 30, 2008 01:58 PM
Diana Dupre'
San Diego, CA
Behind the scenes making people look great.
I'm not a viritual assistant but that stinks.  Sorry that happened to you.  Perhaps the way to avoid that in the future is to detail more thoroughly what you will be doing for them with each project before you begin so they know exactly what you will be doing each step of the process, and in writing so they can't come back and say they were not informed.
Feb 04, 2008 07:03 AM
Skye Hawk
At Your Service! Virtual Assistant Specialists - Fountain Hills, AZ
NAR Cert. REPA "Rockstar REVA"
Diana- Thank you for your response I do clearly layout what my plan is as well as my clients expectations so there is no grey area. Thanks for your input I appreciate it.
Feb 06, 2008 05:52 AM