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Shut-Off and Shut-Out: Going Tech-Free For a Day

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Elevations Real Estate, LLC www.BuyFortCollinsHomes.com

Shut-Off and Shut-Out:  Going Tech-Free For a Day

Shut Off and Shut Out
 

Have you considered how much of your life is defined by the technology you rely on every day?  During a recent power outage, I found out just how much mine is.

A couple of nights ago in Northern Colorado, we were gifted with a humongous spring storm that started as rain and ended with a foot and a half of snow on the ground.  Actually, snow in May is not all that uncommon here, but given that we had just had a couple of days in the 80’s - this arctic blast required a substantial shift in attitude.  What started out as a somewhat inconvenient weather event turned out to be an exercise in the re-discovery of life

We live outside of Fort Collins, CO in a canyon carved out by the Cache La Poudre river (pronounced locally as poo-der).  Living in a rural mountain area provides numerous upside features like gorgeous rocky mountain landscapes, fewer neighbors, wildlife in your front yard, and best of all, a river to fish in just across the road.  Some downsides of mountain living include the threat of forest fires, isolation from emergency services, and wildlife that can eat you (mountain lions and bears, oh my!).  We also rely on electricity to run the pump for our well so we can have running water, propane to fuel our furnace, and satellite dishes to provide internet and TV.  Being in a canyon eliminates cell coverage and so we have to use a land line for telephone service.  When all systems are “go”, it is wonderful and we absolutely love it here!

Shut Out and Shut OffHowever, when all systems are “stop” a whole new world opens up that we don’t very often have to live in.  That spring storm I was talking about snapped tree limbs and iced-up power lines which is a perfect combination for losing power.  At 3:30 a.m. our electricity went out and we were instantaneously shut out from the modern world.  No TV, no running water, no internet, no heat.  Our old fashioned touch-tone phone and line was the only communication tool to the rest of the world... and it went out at lunch time.  I thought, “Oh, this will be fun!  We can just hunker down and huddle under blankets and ‘rough-it’ for a few hours until the power comes back on.”  Hunker down we did.  Huddle under blankets – great.  But I hadn’t charged my iPad and the night before the internet had flickered and corrupted my not quite newly updated Kindle app so I couldn’t continue with the book I was right in the middle of reading.  I had to actually pull an actual book made of paper from the shelf and actually turn pages manually!! 


Not only did I find myself cut-off from the rest of the civilized world, I found myself cut-off from the minute-to-minute attention demands that being continuously plugged in provides (just to be clear, “attention demands” is a euphemism for distractions).  For the first time in more years than I care to count, I actually stared out the window and just watched it snow!  I watched the dark-eyed juncos forage all over the thistle and black-oil sunflower feeders.  I made sure the early arriving hummingbirds had fresh nectar to feed on throughout the day to keep their energy up to stave off the cold.  One of the numerous red foxes we see also stopped by looking for stray seed or more likely, a distracted bird.

Shut Off and Shut Out

I sat quietly alone with my own thoughts…. not the random, scroll-through-the-newsfeed thoughts that Facebook delivers.  I read over 100 pages of an amazing book called “Start With Why” by Simon Sinek (thankfully, it wasn’t available as an e-book).  I scratched my dog, Cache behind the ears for longer than he thought was ever possible (and he still wanted more).  Best of all, my wife and I would look up from our books from time to time and have random conversations that weren’t interrupted by texts, TV commercials, email alerts, or phone calls.  I think I already mentioned the huddled up under the blankets part? 

Eventually the fearless linemen of our rural electric co-op restored power to our section of the canyon around 7 p.m.  The furnace roared to life; our microwave oven beeped, our fridge whirred back to life with the distinctive crash of a fresh batch of ice cubes falling into the bin.  While I was relieved we wouldn't have to see how cold our cabin would get with an expected overnight low of 15 degrees, I found myself a little disappointed that the solitude and isolation to which I had resigned myself ended as abruptly as it began.  

Another question popped into my head:  Do you think there’s an iPad app that can create 24 hour power outages and vehicle failures on demand?  I hope so...  I really, really hope so.

Beverly Carlson
Carlson Properties 325-721-2429 - Abilene, TX
Abilene's Staging Realtor

I recently had a little bout with anxiety because I had forgotten  my cell phone behind while I was headed to someone's house for an apponitment.  

Realizing how ridiculous this sounds, I am gong to by design leave my cell phone at home occasionally as self imposed therapy every once in a while!

May 05, 2013 02:33 AM
Linda Piper
Planatek Financial, Inc. - Ventura, CA

I grew up in a time where we had to carry a quarter and look for a pay phone to make a call.  We survived and business got done.  I'm not advocating returning to those days but the memory of far fewer distractions leads me to leave my phone at home every once in a while.

Glad you and your family were able to experience the quiet pleasure of being disconnected for a few hours!

May 05, 2013 02:45 AM
Kerry Lucasse
eXp Realty - Urban Nest Real Estate Group - Atlanta, GA
Your Urban Nest Atlanta Real Estate Consultant
Happy to hear that you had this "light bulb" moment! :) I can't remember the las time I had a tech free day, but I need to plan for one soon.
May 05, 2013 03:40 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

The "electronic jailor" I call it. Increasingly harder and harder to unplug. But I try and put some discipline into my day... for example, if I'm not negotiating a contract, I just don't answer phones or look at emails past 6:30pm until the next day. That provides a few hours of decompression.

May 05, 2013 03:46 AM
Chris Hardy
Elevations Real Estate, LLC www.BuyFortCollinsHomes.com - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Real Estate

Thanks, Lisa and Rebecca!

Beverly-  isn't it amazing how much anxiety we create in our lives?  Good luck on the therapy!!  I'm going to try it, too!!

Linda-  Yes!  My mom always made sure we had a quarter to make a call.  Can't remember the last time I used or even saw a payphone!!  Amazing how something so ubiquitous is nearly extinct now!

Kerry-  a self imposed tech free day is much harder than when one is thrust upon you.  Good Luck!  I think you might like it!!

Nina - I love that "jailor" concept!  Good for you for setting boundaries and creating balance in your life!

Thanks everyone for the comments and helping this post get featured! : )

 

 

May 05, 2013 03:53 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

We have a turn off technology night at my house each week.  We love it.  Mind you we do like our electricity to be on and we do listen to cd's sometimes but work goes out the door.

May 05, 2013 04:08 AM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

Chris, I don't mind much when I'm forced to "shut down," but I really like having access to my phone, weather reports, etc. And Sports Center! lol

May 05, 2013 04:23 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Chris, We unplug when we go fishing because there is no service! We do take advantage of that as often as possible during the summer and fall months!

May 05, 2013 04:23 AM
Marc McMaster
RE/MAX Centre Realty - State College, PA
Putting my clients before myself

Once a year I go on a cruise and as soon as the ship leaves port I turn off my cell phone and put it in the safe, not to be seen again until we return to port.  It's great for the week to 10 days with no demands from the home life.  The night before we get back is usually tough though knowing all the emails and demands Ill have to sort through.

May 05, 2013 05:57 AM
Kathy Sheehan
Bay Equity, LLC 770-634-4021 - Atlanta, GA
Senior Loan Officer

I think we should all unplug on a regular basis.  I would rather not do with a power outage!

May 05, 2013 10:07 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Ventura, CA
RETIRED

I try to check out for a day, however I have not been very successful.  Really pretty pictures, hope spring comes to you soon.

May 05, 2013 10:08 AM
Daniel Benton
Real Estate Brokers of Alaska - Anchorage, AK
AnchorageHouseSales.com

It's amazing how hooked we are to technology. We had a similar thing happen last fall up here in Anchorage, Alaska. A fall windstorm came too early while the trees still had leaves on them and the extra pull those leaves created brought a large number of trees down. We were without power for a week. Luckily we were able to drive to the office where power was restored sooner, but it was a LONG week at home!

 

Thanks for sharing your expeience.

 

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May 05, 2013 10:48 AM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Tech-free days are wonderful if we allow them. Guess God and His angels came in and gave you a gift - a day off, a good book, beautiful scenery, and a peaceful looking fox. And here we were on the same planet, same day -  wondering if we were up-to-date on the newest and best tech tools available on the market. Like your world better. :-)

May 05, 2013 11:00 AM
Mike Sibbald
Elevations Real Estate, LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Broker/Owner Elevations Real Estate, LLC

Chris, I left my phone on the charger the other day.  I felt lost!  I am going to try and do that once a month and see how it goes.  

May 05, 2013 11:27 AM
Annette Thor
Connecticut Homes and Commercial Fairfield Cty,CT reinct.com - Westport, CT
Residential & Commercial Real Estate Broker in CT

Tech free time is definitely a necessity. We had no power in CT during sandy and irene for as much as a week. What I really noticed was how much more face to face social interactions I was forced to have due to not having power.  I went to a neighbors to have coffee, borrowed a line to anothers genrator to get some power to my phone, spent dinners at friends homes with power.  Having juice and being connected online ironically is very isolating in real life.

May 07, 2013 11:29 AM
Chris Hardy
Elevations Real Estate, LLC www.BuyFortCollinsHomes.com - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Real Estate

Annette-  these are such great points and really hit home.  My own experience seems so insignificant to what people who were affected by true catastrophes must have had.  Thanks for commenting and pointing out the benefits of belly-to-belly communication!

Mike-  I know exactly what you mean! And great comments at the meeting yesterday, BTW!!

Thanks, Jane for your insight.  Beautiful!

Daniel-  Wow!  A week in Anchorage with no power - that is roughing it for sure!  It is interesting how time really slows down without our common electronic amenities!

Kathy Stoltman-  thanks!  Checking out can be such a rejuvenating activity!

Kathy Sheehan-  yeah, but sometimes it is easier to check out when it is forced on you.  Maybe we all need a no-screens accountability group?

Marc - a cruise..... hmmmm.  Never been on one but it sounds great!!

Wanda -  fishing is ALL ABOUT unplugging!!  I'm an avid fly-fisher and the solace I get from being on the river is priceless!

Eric - Ha!  yeah, I know a lot of guys who can't go without their daily dose of SC!  Thanks for the comments!

Tammy- thanks for the comments.  I totally know what you mean!

 

May 08, 2013 01:41 AM
Venus Howard
Vindiola Group - Commerce City, CO
CDPE, CIAS, SFR, GRI

Wow!  You got a lot more snow then we did in the Metro Area.  Beautiful with that scenery.  Sounds like you were granted more than a beautiful snow day.  We should all take to heart what taking a break can do for us.  I love your "prose" as well.  Thanks for sharing.

May 09, 2013 02:02 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Excellent recap of your gorgeous snow storm and power outage. That app is called...unplug everything and pretend there is no power.

Jun 02, 2013 07:41 AM
Chris Hardy
Elevations Real Estate, LLC www.BuyFortCollinsHomes.com - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Real Estate

Thanks, Margaret!  All in all, I can't say it was all that bad.  Hard to believe that was just 30 days ago and now we're into the high 80's and sunny skies all around!!

Jun 02, 2013 08:58 AM
Chris Hardy
Elevations Real Estate, LLC www.BuyFortCollinsHomes.com - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Real Estate

Venus - such praise!  Always love when folks compliments my writing!  What's the emoticon for blushing?  : )

Jun 02, 2013 09:00 AM