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Dial & Dialogue - Sheila

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Real Estate Agent with RLAH / @properties DC / MD / VA

There's a contest this month, which allowed me to dial a few people.  I've got to write about this call to get points.  I'll get to this in a moment.

Many/most didn't answer their phones, which means most people got several calls. I never left a message, figuring I'd dial until I got to speak with someone.  That didn't fly with Sheila.  After I'd made 2 attempts, I got a return phone call.  She knew my name & number, and she left a message.  That showed me...messages still work.  When we finally got to speak, it was as if she's been my Facebook buddy for years since she knew a lot about me. More about this in a moment as well.

 

Sheila Anderson

Surely, I'm only giving you one or two nuggets, and to know more about Sheila Anderson, check out her blog.

Of all the calls I made, Sheila was the only one who gently suggested I shouldn't be waiting for points in order to make calls.  Surely I'd have come to this realization in the months and years to come, but Sheila distilled the truth to me within minutes.  Perhaps this is what she learned when she was getting her Education degree in Wisconsin.  Ergo, this isn't abuot points.  To prove that to myself, and as this week got crazier, I stopped making calls....because when I make them in the next few weeks & months, then the person on the other end will realize I am calling because I just want to talk and listen, not because I want to get points.
 
A realtor in Middlesex County in New Jersey, who spends a lot of time in the Berkshires. We spent a fair amount of time discussing Massachusetts, the upcoming storm.  And Active Rain.
 
With the other calls, I was taking notes so I'd know what to write about, but this Educator, she knew so much about me, and what I'm doing that I ended up just talking and I wasn't taking notes.
 
It was a great call. The first to Sheila, not the last.  If you need to get to her, she's at (732)715-1133.
As I mentionned on my notes from a prior call, when I'm doing the I-95 waltz to Boston/NH, I'm always looking for a new place to stop & chill and have lunch.  I know I'll have an open invite with Sheila, though I'll need to figure out if I'm getting of the NJ Pike for lunch or if I'm instead going to have lunch in Massachusetts.
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Claude Labbe, Realty for Your Busy Life

Real Living | At Home
11 Dupont Circle #650
Washington, DC 20036
(202) 518-8781 bus / (703) 868-7774 mobile
claude@labbe.com

 

Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Claude - It is fun to pick up the phone and talk to other Rainers even when there isn't a contest for an excuse or impetus.

Jan 31, 2015 02:51 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Claude. I enjoyed our call too and it was easy and natural. Come to lunch anytime. 

Jan 31, 2015 09:10 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Claude Labbe ... like you, I KNOW that AR isn't all about the points.  Still, the contests and other motivations do provide that "kick in the butt" to contact or call someone.  Whatever the reason, I'm glad that you and Sheila connected and shared a great conversation ...

Gene

Feb 02, 2015 11:22 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL It's a long way to lunch...but I do the shuttle to get up there often enough.

June Piper-Brandon I hear you; I'd printed people's profiles and had them on my passenger seat; that's how I found the opportunity to dial.

Christine Donovan I'm slowly learning it's not just for contests.

Feb 03, 2015 11:26 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Sheila Anderson Nice of you not to point out that it took a week for us to finally speak, and then another 10 days for me to write it up.

Gene Mundt, Chicago-area Mortgage Lender - www.genemundt.com  Sometimes I fear that butt kicking is more motivational than I care to admit.

Feb 03, 2015 11:27 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

It is nice!

I follow Sheila too.

How many people did you call this month? How many times you were 'singing'?

Feb 03, 2015 03:30 PM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Inna Ivchenko I had 6 or 7 fresh people; each profile on my passenger seat. When I knew I'd have time, I'd dial until I got someone.

As the month went on and the end of the month got crazy, I stopped dialing.  I've got a few more to call now, just will be doing it for fun, not for points.

Feb 04, 2015 09:30 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Hello Claude,  It seems you had an Ah Hah moment with Sheila.  Excellent.  Some of the best learning experiences, in my opinion, are those found unexpectedly while on this fantastic journey of life.  They are out there in abundance, we just need be of mind to actually see them.  Kudos to you Claude.

I trust your week to continue being successful.  Mark

Feb 04, 2015 01:52 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

That would be quite  adrive for lunch Claude but well worth it. Thanks for the share about your conversation with Sheila Anderson a fine lady in the Rain.

Feb 04, 2015 09:59 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Claude, how very wonderful that Sheila took the reins and away you two went! I, too had some conversations with no note-taking, just for FUN. And there is at least one person I'll call in the future without the worries of fact-finding!

 

Feb 05, 2015 01:42 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint   I have the feeling that if I didn't get the ah-hah, Sheila would have kept circling around it until I finally finally did.  That's her educator trait.

Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Realtor (503)755-2905 I do like that, when the person on the other side is good & strong & self assured and I don't have to worry about bruised egos.  That seems to be true for many Active Rainers.

Feb 05, 2015 08:50 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Claude with our busy lives it is normal to get Voice Mail, had you left me a message you would have gotten a return call...now to get to the point, glad you and Sheila Anderson  connected, that is what Active Rain is about, contest or no contest I have probably talked to 30 or 40 people over the years... nowhere near as Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland  she holds the record. I wonder if anyone has met more active rain members as Jeff Dowler CRS  he would win that contest hands over, Endre

 

 

 

Feb 05, 2015 02:59 PM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Endre Barath, Jr. I'll have to make a note to myself to leave a message if you don't pick up.  3-4 years ago, if someone didn't leave a message, I'd be grumbling.  Now, it's almost the other way, where if they do leave a message, I think "oh, that's odd".

Personally, I'd prefer they left a message, I can get the info and move along.  Many times now, I find a phone call back & forth ensues.

Feb 06, 2015 09:58 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Claude generally if I do not get a message with my busy schedule I write it off as not being important. Just like when I answer the phone and the other party does not introduce themselves.....

Feb 06, 2015 10:27 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Good choice reaching out to Sheila Anderson  Don't wait for points to reach out to other members. The rewards are far superior to the points.

Endre Barath, Jr. Thanks for the mention.

Feb 06, 2015 10:59 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Claude, Sheila Anderson is one of my favorite bloggers.  We share a huge love of animals and antiques.  She shares her love of classical music with Chief Cook, too.  Excellent choice.  She is so nice!

Feb 09, 2015 02:36 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I have had the pleasure of speaking to Sheila before this contest and she and I share a love of animals.  I love getting to talk to other rainers.

Feb 09, 2015 12:17 PM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Hi Mark,

We've been fans of Sheila's for a while.  Great post!

Feb 10, 2015 04:23 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland I'm not surprised you are on the side of "don't wait for points to make calls"

Ron Marshall Yup, she's got quite a following

Tammy Lankford birds of a feather hang together, not surprised you're a fan

Wayne and Jean Marie Zuhl Glad to know you're a fan....did autocorrect change Claude to Mark? That's pretty neat

Feb 10, 2015 01:31 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Your "auto correct" comment just made wake up my dogs laughing.  

Feb 10, 2015 02:02 PM