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Just another day in the way I choose to live my life...

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Real Estate Agent with Fathom Realty Washington LLC

Just another day in the way I choose to live my life...

 

This is a very personal approach on life. I don't just practice Paying it forward during the holidays; I practice it all year round. I would never do this for personal accolades but instead to show others as an example of what it is to be human and to add a positive spin for someone's busy day.

 

I do not boast, for what I do, as I said before it's a personal thing between for me and the person that I have bestowed this act of kindness. My deepest hope is that this person will do something nice for someone else later in the day and so on and so on. My Hope is that paying it forward will become infectious and one act of kindness ripples into hundreds more acts of kindness.

 

You would be surprised how many times you can make someone's day, by just helping them by opening a door or helping them across the street with their packages or groceries. Even taking their grocery cart back is not uncommon for me to do. I was brought up this way.

 

I have no problem paying for someone's coffee while in line at Starbucks as long as I am in the car ahead of them. I like to get away and I can usually go around the block before they get out of line. It is very awkward to pay something forward when the people can catch up with you.

 

So it is for me; not a holiday tradition with a year-long pass to revert into something else. I don't do Paying it forward for a thank you or for any other reason other than to make myself feel good and hopefully touch someone else's life with a positive rather than a negative.

 

Just think What a Wonderful World this would be if everyone, just did one nice thing for someone else each day. That is a ripple effect I would love to see…

 

Thank you Belinda Spillman for the 2017 Pay It Forward November Challenge. You and your three wize guy  judges made my November in the Rain a very positive place…

 

Posted by

 and courtesy of 

Paul S. Henderson, Residential Real Estate Broker 

Tacoma Washington 

Realtor ® BPOR, CRS, GRI, CDPE

Fathom Realty WA LLC

Serving

South Puget Sound in Washington State

 

 

 

 

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As a Residential Broker and Relocation Specialist, I sell homes in or around ,Tacoma, Gig Harbor, Lakewood, Steilacoom,  University Place, DuPont and Hartstene Pointe in Washington State.
Please visit my website at http://www.hartstenepointe.com to search for information 

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Referrals are always welcomed and appreciated, Thank-you!

(As a member of the NWMLS, this blog post is intended to comply with NWMLS rules as pertaining to blogging.)

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Comments(17)

Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Wouldn't this be an awesome place if everyone did a random act of kindness each day?  A girl can dream!

Nov 27, 2017 04:43 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Oh yes, that would be a wonderful world. We are also big believers in kindness everyday - and we don't talk about it either. 

Nov 27, 2017 05:00 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Paul, a wonderful world it would be indeed! Thank you for all you do!

Nov 27, 2017 05:43 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Paul S. Henderson, CRS, REALTOR®, - Paying it forward to me, works best when it is spontaneous as you have described!

Nov 27, 2017 06:44 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I like that you don't limit it to certain days or time of the year. The true spirit of giving is all year long.

Nov 27, 2017 06:46 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Sometimes you just learn so much that it just makes you want to learn more. Love and light and blessings

Nov 27, 2017 11:38 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Limits should only make you more creative to have your limits be squashed by your energy and ambition. Do you know what I mean?

Nov 27, 2017 11:39 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

What a wonderful way to live life and I believe that the world is filled with people that pay it forward daily, as you do.

Nov 28, 2017 05:07 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Just imagine what a wonderful world it would be if everyone thought and lived as you do, expecting nothing in return but simply giving from the heart.

Nov 28, 2017 07:23 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good afternoon again Paul. I really like your approach. You have so often made my day with the beautiful words and affirmations you share.

Nov 28, 2017 11:42 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Beautiful.

Reminds me of the song Imagine.

If only it were so.

Nov 28, 2017 05:03 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Paul S. Henderson, CRS, REALTOR®, - Your inspirational posts are always in the paying it forward spirit. Thank you!

Nov 28, 2017 09:19 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Paul.  I love your lifestyle of paying it forward on a daily basis.  If only everyone would do that!  Thanks for the post.

Nov 29, 2017 10:54 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Paul S. Henderson, CRS, REALTOR®, I think of you every year  when this contest starts . When I am thinking what do I do that is so special .  I think of you and you paying for the person behind you at Starbucks .  Giving someone a  big smile which I always do with a "hello " . It is the small things we do that makes life special . You are special Paul .

Nov 29, 2017 04:55 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Paul -- I knew you were/are a special kind of guy -- this post only underscores it.

Nov 30, 2017 10:51 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Paul

Paying it forward creates an interesting reaction.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Nov 30, 2017 06:43 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Paul,

I agree. "Paying it forward" is best when it's a normal part of life.

Nov 30, 2017 11:18 PM