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Inspired by Heroes-September 11, 2001

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Home Stager with Home Staging Online Services

The events of September 11, 2001 shook the world, but I'd like to share a brief moment of my own, which will be part of me forever.

Twin TowersI worked in a real estate office with about forty agents. A few of us got into the habit of meeting on Fridays at a nearby bar, to blow off some steam, and enjoy being people for awhile, not just Realtors.  There was some question as to whether it was proper to meet on September 14th, just three days after the world changed forever.  We decided to meet.  I heard there was a nationwide vigil planned for that night, so I drove home and grabbed some candles.  When I arrived at the bar, there were already about a dozen of us, and I took a seat at the table. I was surprised how jovial the atmosphere was in the bar, and after awhile, I settled in to our usual Friday night routine.

At five minutes before the appointed hour, there was a stir in the bar, and I watched as patrons dug into their purses and pockets and brought out candles. Everyone silently lined up and stepped outside into the parking lot.  A big circle was formed, as those with lighters helped light the candles of others.  It was so eerie to look at those somber faces, which just moments before were grinning and laughing.  As the last candle was lit, someone started singing America the Beautiful. Soon, everyone joined in, including me, though it was hard to sing with a lump in my throat.  I have never heard it sung so beautifully as it was that night.  People were singing with their hearts, not just their voices.  When the song was done, we hung our heads, each deep in our own private thoughts, and one by one the candles were all blown out.

It didn't take long for the bar to return to normal. I started thinking that maybe I had imagined the whole thing. It certainly didn't feel real. One of my friends decided to grab all the candle stubs, stand them up in a plate, and create a candle garden.  I watched him out of the corner of my eye, just to make sure he wasn't lighting the whole place on fire.  Much to everyone's surprise, the concentrated smoke of the candles set off the fire alarm. Everyone looked around to see if there was any real danger, and then tried to carry on conversations over the screeching alarm.  We, of course, looked around, too, acting as if we had nothing to do with it. 

Just when I thought my brain would explode if I had to listen to that alarm any longer, a fire truck pulledFirefighter Memorial up outside. In ran a trio of firefighters. As people in the bar spotted them, they each stood up. Soon the entire place was full of people standing and clapping for the firefighters. The men stopped and stood there, looked at each other, and then looked at the crowd. Surprise, and then understanding, flooded their faces. They stood for a few moments, overcome with emotion, and then moved on to do their job. The alarm was silenced at last, the firefighters returned to their waiting truck, and the world returned to normal. Well, as close to normal as it could.

Many things changed on September 11, 2001. I think we learned that anyone can be a hero, and we are living among heroes every day.

Posted by

Kathy Passarette
Creative Home Expressions - Mount Sinai, NY
L.I. Staging/Decorating

Elaine ~ We need Kleenex disclaimers! I'm sitting here at work with the tears rolling down my face!  I am always emotional this whole week, and I did not lose anybody on 9/11, but felt such a great loss that day.  It amazes me even today how our country came together in the way it did - flags flying from every neighbors house, no planes in the skies for 4 days, the change to our New York landscape, everything . . .

Your story is one that made me cry for the thoughtfulness of participating in the candle light vigil to the scene the firefighters came upon.  I think it is both the losses from that day as much as the heroic, human stories that came from it.  Thanks for sharing yours Elaine.

Sep 10, 2008 07:53 AM
Elaine Manes Gage
Home Staging Online Services - Denver, CO
Staging done ONLINE!

Kathy- You're not alone--I was crying as I wrote it! I lived in Littleton at the time of the Columbine shootings, and my daughter's high school was in lockdown, and there were rumors that the shooters were going to go to other schools. I didn't lose my kids that day, but friends of mine did. I really thought that day would be the blackest in my life, but unfortunately I was wrong.

Sep 10, 2008 10:26 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Elaine.

I always like baseball, while not really being a huge fan. After 9/11 they started playing Ray singing that song during every Mariners game. I thin they still do.

Sep 11, 2008 05:46 PM
Elaine Manes Gage
Home Staging Online Services - Denver, CO
Staging done ONLINE!
Steve- I think he does a really wonderful job. I had many to choose from.
Sep 13, 2008 04:22 AM
Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

That is a very special and beautiful memory. I remember when someone very special to me died...I was angry that the world could just keep going on...as if nothing was wrong. This memory of yours is proof that the world is changed...EVEN if it must keep spinning. GBU!!

Sep 13, 2008 04:36 AM
Elaine Manes Gage
Home Staging Online Services - Denver, CO
Staging done ONLINE!

Elizabeth- Yeah, eventually you wake up one morning and it's not the first thing you think of.

Sep 13, 2008 05:02 AM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

Elaine, this is lovely!  What a moving moment that must have been.  It's truly something we will never forget.  This has always been my favorite patriotic song. 

Oct 08, 2008 12:41 PM
Jeannie Kontis
Lancaster, PA

Oh my goodness, this was a tearjerker. I agree that there has to be a Kleenex disclaimer!  so much time has gone by, but the pain still remains.  Thank you for sharing your very personal story.

Oct 08, 2008 02:37 PM
Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

Oh Elaine...I'm SOOOOOOO happy for you. This is such a beautiful tribute, and you certainly deserved your victory. GBU!

Oct 08, 2008 03:17 PM
Michelle Pimentel
Empire Home Staging Solutions - Upland, CA
ASP, IAHSP Empire Home Staging
Elaine, Congrats on the 500 points! What a great story. Sept. 11th really did change all of us and I think if any good came from it, it is the closeness as Americans that we all feel!
Oct 09, 2008 03:34 AM
Richard Ives
Chicago, IL

Elaine thanks for sharing.  Great post!

Oct 09, 2008 05:56 AM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Elaine, you gave me goose bumps. Thank you so much and my heart felt it along with you!

Later in the rain~Deb

Oct 09, 2008 07:59 AM