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Be Useful, Honorable & Compassionate - Make a Difference

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Be Useful, Honorable & Compassionate - Make a Difference

What inspires me?

 

I took a page out of Michael Jacobs’ book and pondered Carol Williamschallenge for nearly a month! Oh, there are so many quotes to live by but, digging deep into the ‘inner me,’ I realized my motivator isn’t all about my own success. 

 

The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” 

 Ralph Waldo Emerson

helping hands
I began my young adult life in college, tutoring other nursing students in math and pharmacology to help them get through the state exam. When each and every one of them passed their state exams the first time, I felt like I was on top of the world! 

 

After graduation, I became a preceptor the first day I was allowed to. You had to work and pass the muster first, then you could precept and I thoroughly enjoyed sharing my passion for nursing with local college students from UNCC, Queens College and CPCC. I was also asked to teach neuro at my Alma Mater, Lenoir-Rhyne University. Of course, both precepting and teaching were in addition to my continued work at the hospital.

 

Now, in my second career, I have enjoyed helping many agents, not just locally but, across the nation. It truly makes my heart smile to see others be successful in what they do and if called to help, I will! 

 

The same goes for volunteering and helping my favorite organizations meet their goals. Making a difference in others lives is very important to me. I believe that we are to “Be the light that helps others see; it is what gives life its deepest significance.”  (Roy Bennett)

 

I also believe that the legacy we leave behind will have nothing to do with how successful we were but, how we changed the lives of others.

 

Helping Hands in Charlotte NCOther great quotes to live by:

 

“You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.”

Zig Ziglar

 

“When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.” 

 Maya Angelou

 

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” 

 Charles Dickens

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | Be Useful, Honorable & Compassionate - Make a Difference

Comments(88)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you so much, Lottie! I hope you have a wonderful 2019 - you know you're always on my mind!

Lottie Kendall 

Dec 29, 2018 08:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you, Roy Kelley! I'll have to check it out! 

Have a wonderful weekend...

Dec 29, 2018 08:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, had they been in my area, I would have attended too, Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Real Estate Agent, Top 1% of Lyon Agents - both of the speakers you mentioned are top notch motivators.

Dec 29, 2018 08:29 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you, Jan Green - you know I try!

I hope you're having a wonderful weekend!

Dec 29, 2018 08:29 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I love all of Zig Ziglar's quotes too, Mike! And, that's music to my ears that you will be returning to Charlotte! I'm looking forward to seeing you in April!

Mike Cooper, GRI 

Dec 29, 2018 08:31 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I do try and always wish I could do more, Jeff Dowler, CRS and I often wonder if there will ever be enough hours in the day to do all that we really need to do for others!

Hope you're having a wonderful weekend...

Dec 29, 2018 08:32 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Debe Maxwell, CRS ,

This is one of my favorite quotes and your entry into the challenge is wonderful! Of course Zig Ziglar is an all time favorite . The legacy we leave is not how successful we are......its how we've impacted others which is how you live your personal and business life. Well done..the AR Gods are taking a nap..this should be anointed a Gold Star!

Dec 30, 2018 12:11 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I think they're mad at me, Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR! LOL

Seriously, thank you - it was a fun challenge too! I still have several to read. I've certainly enjoyed reading the entires.

Happy New Year, Dorie!

Dec 30, 2018 02:26 PM
Crystal Kilpatrick
Team Leader -Crystal Kilpatrick Group - Austin, TX
CHLMS,CNE, CRS - Austin & Central Texas Home Sales

Good afternoon Debe!  What a great quote.  I love Zig Ziglar, one of my favorite speakers.  

Dec 30, 2018 03:57 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Crystal! Thank you and I agree, he definitely has some incredibly motivational quotes.

Happy New Year, Crystal Kilpatrick

Dec 30, 2018 04:00 PM
John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Thanks Debe for Emerson and Ziglar quote.  Very Very nice.  My first wife insisted that she had a God-given right to be happy.  Wha???  Did I just write that?? hahaha

Yes, a lot of people think that they deserve to be happy but that is not the point.  Helping others and compassion is more important.  Thanks very much for this important thought...

Dec 31, 2018 04:31 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Add a dollop of kindness and you can you don't have to take this to the bank, life is so much more.

Dec 31, 2018 02:48 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Debe Maxwell, CRS first of all - Happy New Year! Hope you had a wonderful holiday season!!!!  I've been out of touch for a few weeks for the holidays but I'm back.  I love, love LOVE this post - it's so makes for a well lived life full of meaning and building long lasting relationships!

Jan 05, 2019 01:57 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

LOL I love your sense of humor, John! I believe we are our OWN source of happiness and doing for others makes me really happy!!

Happy Saturday, John Henry!

Jan 05, 2019 09:12 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

You do take it to the bank though, Joe Pryor - the book of life! 

Happy Saturday!

Jan 05, 2019 09:13 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Funny but, I was on your blog earlier, Anna! I miss you and I'm so glad you're back. Happy New Year to you too - I hope you and Gary wound up your 2018 with a bang!

Life really is about the relationships - doing for others and putting smiles on others faces...just as you do SO well! Hugs from Charlotte! Say HI to Gary for us, Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS 602-380-4886

Jan 05, 2019 09:15 PM
John Dotson
Preferred Properties of Highlands, Inc. - Highlands, NC - Highlands, NC
The experience to get you to the other side!

Debe,  You are dead on the money with your post.  I have a little saying on my web site which I truly believe in...

 

"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments,
but what is woven into the lives of others."
- Pericles -

Jan 06, 2019 06:16 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I love that, John Dotson! What a wonderful quote to live by.

Happy Sunday!

Jan 06, 2019 06:40 PM
Ricardo Mello
Manhattan Miami Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
Manhattan & Miami Real Estate Agent

Another great one Debe 

Jan 16, 2019 01:11 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

A little late to the party, Ricardo Mello but, I thank you for your kind words!

May you have a wonderful 2020!

Dec 27, 2019 08:55 PM