Be nice and everything will just happen as it should . . .

Mo Anderson literally blew us away at the recent ALC Clinic in Atlanta.

Her wit, intelligence, wisdom, charisma etc etc was infectious.

She had a recurring theme . . . BE NICE!

Each list of things to do ended with: "Be Nice!"

Whenever there was an issue to resolve, the solution always included: "BE NICE!"

Got me thinkin'

As a Principal Broker, Organizational Consultant, and real estate professional, I deal with "Issues and Opportunities" aplenty every day as I coach/consult with REALTORS, work with home Buyers and Sellers, and mediate differences of opinions amongst the players in this game of life.

Most issues arise from what I can only think to call "Be Nice Amnesia" (BNA)

When BNA strikes, tempers flare and priorities become muddled.

BNA creates a messy stew that causes folks also to forget the GOAL.

BNA is a useless waste of time and energy.

"Be Nice" does not consume energy . . . BNA is a horrendous distractor.

BNA creates a veritable petri dish for the growth of toxic karma.

"Be Nice" is CONSTRUCTIVE . . . BNA is DEstructive!

Instead of telling others (children?) how "BAD" they are . . . and dwelling on what they did wrong . . . What do you think would happen if your simple response to aberrant behavior is:

"Be Nice!"?????

Try this . . . I think what you'll witness is . . . what you think, focus on, and say EXPANDS.

Dwell on what was wrong, and you'll get more of it back atcha . . .

Focus on "Be Nice", and you'll get more of THAT.

Wouldn't THAT be nice?

You are here on this planet to sculpt the best human experience you can . . .

Quit making it so difficult . . .

JUST BE NICE!

I'm just sayin'

Best,

b

This message brought to you by BNAA (Be Nice Amnesia Anonymous)

--
Barry Owen
Principal Real Estate Broker
Keller Williams Realty
30 Burton Hills Blvd Suite 175
Nashville, TN 37215 - Green Hills

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