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Who can I help today?...

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Industry Observer with ARFCO Media

I was reminiscing yesterday about a couple of great guys I use to work with, John Wickwire and Hung Nguyen. Even though they came from opposite sides of the planet they shared many similar traits and values.

John grew up in Ephrata and the Moses Lake area of eastern Washington. The son of a Judge, he had a passion for the law. John served in Vietnam and attended Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington, and the University of Washington, in Seattle.

Hung was from South Vietnam and served his country as a judge. Because he worked with the Americans during the war he had to escape the country after the fall of Saigon and came to America.

John and Hung both gained followings that were legendary in our industry. Both were well known for their expertise, their creative abilities to solve problems, and their authentic and witty personalities. Both embraced life and always had a sincere hello and a genuine smile for you.

 Hung Nguyen, Ticor Title Company

                              Hung Nguyen

Like many great people we work with, we only really know them mostly from work. I knew their families through conversation. They talked about them all the time with great fondness. 

Their office doors were always open and you were always welcome. You’d find them at their desks heaped with reports, documents, notes, maps, and stacks of files working out title issues. Most realtors and lenders don’t realize what goes on in a title plant. Especially now when almost everything is available online, through our computers and networks, databases, and digital documents we often assume that the answers are just a click of the mouse a way. Not so.

Yes it was about the deal, but both were a lesson in ‘give and you shall receive'... 
What John and Hung gave was certainly way more valuable than the premium collected. Each served the real estate community, the consumer, and their fellow employees beyond compare. Both dedicated around 30 years each to the industry. I was privileged to have worked with them both.

John Wickwire, Ticor Title Company 

                        John Wickwire

They were great examples of turning problems into opportunity. I couldn’t begin to count the title challenges they solved over the years, and I loved hearing the ‘war stories’  as we call them.

They were creative solution providers. Both loved taking on the challenge and gave it their all. Yet, both were absolutely hilarious when it came time for fun, a get together with a couple of beers. This is when the really good stories came out.

At Hung’s memorial service his son told a very endearing story about his father. Hung would go out on the back deck of his home for his morning coffee and a smoke. His son often heard him say, “I wonder, who can I help today?”

If you stop in at the Pike Place Bar & Grill, Seattle, as you enter walk around the bar to your left, just around the corner, you’ll find a bronze memorial plaque reserving the stool for John, their favorite customer.

Thanks guys... I haven’t forgotten why we do this... “I wonder, who can I help today?”


René Fabre is well known for his innovative marketing programs. He is a sought after speaker and motivator known for his knowledge, keen interest, and insightful approach to contemporary marketing ideas and technologies. His obvious passion for the subject is well known and contagious. He frequently gives workshops and round table conversations on Internet Marketing, Social Media Marketing, and Lead Generation.

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Matt Sweet
Ticor Title - Gig Harbor, WA

Hung did help a lot of people even outside our industry.  If you go to Vien Dong restaurant in Tacoma and ask about Hung Nguyen, you will be rewarded with a bright smile and a good story.  If you go to Pho Bac restaurant and ask about him, they will treat you like family.  Hung was a highly regarded man and should be an inspiration to all of us to remember that the stuff that we accumulate will come and go but people are eternal and thus our connections and relationships are timeless.

Thanks Rene for the reminder of how important it is to be a servant, however great we aspire to be.

Oct 12, 2009 10:31 AM
Greg Saffell
Tucson, AZ
Real Estate Professional Tucson, Oro Valley AZ

Nice story Rene, you're fortunate to have had the privilege of knowing such fine individuals. I had a friend in the Bay area by the name of Bob Wickwire. I think he may have been related to John in some way because he was from that area of Washington state. I was working with an agricultural publication at the time and he was with Case farm equipment company. Small world.

Oct 12, 2009 10:45 AM
Jay-Paul Lowry
Riverside, CA

That was a great story. They sounded like two amazing men.

 

JP Lowry

Oct 12, 2009 12:40 PM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

thanks JP... I could write a pretty hefty article on that those two... but, this is a blog, so brevity is the order of the day... thanks for stopping by.

Oct 12, 2009 12:53 PM
Margaret Oscilia
Creative Concepts-Home Staging and Contracting, Salem Oregon - Salem, OR
Home Stager, Salem Oregon

When its all said and done there are few things of our lives that have true and lasting significance.  Sounds like these men "got it" and "practiced it" as well.  May we all be more inspired!

Oct 13, 2009 12:54 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

Both sounded like great men and the best lessons are those ones that can't be found in a  book.

Todd Clark - www.LivingBeaverton.com

Oct 13, 2009 12:56 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Margaret: Indeed they were, and they showed the way!

Todd: Yes my friend. There's a lot to be learned in books and I you know I have a passion for them. But, there are many a lesson we learn only from each other. 

Oct 13, 2009 02:18 AM
Scott Cowan
RE/MAX Professionals - Olympia, WA

Rene- I did not know either of the men you were telling us about. Yet, somehow I know I am better for having read your post about them. Thank you for keeping the conversations so positive.

Oct 16, 2009 02:26 AM