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"I Have My Newborn in a Drawer!" And Other Tips On Balancing a Real Estate Career with Motherhood Part 1

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Realty 01238095

 

I write this post to encourage those, who would like to have a successful career in real estate AND have a family, to give it a try. It can definately be done!

December 20, 1999 was the day my first child was born! I lived in a studio condo that my husband and I had recently bought in San Bruno. He worked in a hotel as a waiter and worked most evenings and weekends! I was a new real estate agent with just one year in the business. I wondered how I was going to pull off a successful career with a newborn!

I made a pit stop at my office in San Bruno on the way home from the hospital to pick up a cradle for the new baby boy. He was a month early so I hadn't even made a nest! Luckily, I had a friend who brought me her hand me down cradle for him to sleep in. I looked pretty funny walking in my office to pick it up in a hospital gown and bracelet still on my wrist! That was the day that I realized that I was going to make it in this business, baby or no baby! I could take the ridicule of looking funny and winging it when time didn't allow preparation as long as I kept moving forward.

On week two, I discovered: A newborn fits comfortably in a desk drawer with fluffy blankets and a pacifier. I got some funny looks but we were fine. We were ready to hustle and nobody was going to stop us.

We would drive across town to meet first time buyers, write contracts, and show property! I kept him in a snuggly front pack and never used a carrier. I always had a trendy diaper bag stalked with bottles, baby food, and of course, diapers. I had 13 sales in the first few months of motherhood!

My first tip as a new mother with a real estate career: If the baby fits in a desk drawer, make sure you pad it with fluffy blankets!

Stay tuned for Part 2...I have more fun stuff and tips to share!

Betsie Melter
Realty ONE Group - Chandler, AZ

Good For You! I often took my son with me on showings before he could walk. Now he is three and doesn't have the patience to look at homes so I had to finally put him in daycare.

Mar 30, 2010 08:05 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Would love to see an actual photo of the newborn in a desk drawer. Is your son still "helping" you in real estate?

Mar 30, 2010 08:11 AM
Karin Cunningham
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Realty - San Bruno, CA
"Your San Bruno Real Estate Specialist!"

I DO have a photo of my son in the desk drawer! I was planning on posting a little later! He helps me now by stuffing and labeling envelopes along with his little SISTER!!! LOL

Mar 30, 2010 08:15 AM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

When I had my granddaughter in my care and received a call to do a showing, I let the potential buyers know she would be with me and off we went.  The buyers were absolutely fine with having her (age 6) with us.  Sometimes I think we feel we have to hide our own obligations, so as not to appear that we might not be available to our clients.

Mar 30, 2010 08:19 AM
Raine Carraway (Michelle Carraway)
EXP Realty - Lenoir, NC

I think I've been holding off on going back to the office and back to work because I'm worried people will look at me negatively for having my baby with me, but it's my only option at this point (we're not going to use daycare, and don't have any nearby family or friends who could babysit). I have a front pack and a couple slings/wraps to carry him in, and a pop-up bassinet for him to lay in, but I'm still nervous.

May 17, 2010 10:00 PM
Anonymous
Karin

Part of this business is not worrying what people think of you! We cold call, door knock, send emails, get rejected over and over....if you're worried about what people think in your office, I imagine that you might worry what the public will say when you go out showing homes or have an appt. with your baby in a car seat or slung across your front. That's life, little mama! You are a mother...a mother who loves to sell homes! Our real estate business is our OWN business, right? We run it the way WE want and do an excellent job. You can still do an excellent job with a baby in tow, you'll see! If you believe that you can do it, you can! Sounds corny but it's true!

May 18, 2010 10:52 AM
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