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Fear of Realtors

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Real Estate Agent with Platinum Realty SP00229578 2007027091

I remember when I wanted to buy a house but was not exactly sure how to go about it. There was no internet to begin researching the home buying process.  At that time, there really wasn't a home buying process.  Buyer agency did not exist; all real estate agents represented the seller.  I was pretty sure that if I called a real estate agent they would try to sell me any house they could.  At the time, that was probably true - still is of some agents.

Brookside house in Kansas City

This was before cell phones were invented so I would write down the number on the sign and wait until I got home or to work.  Then I would take out the piece of paper with the address and phone number and look at it.  My hands would actually sweat just thinking about dialing the phone to talk to a real estate agent. 

I couldn't bring myself to make the call...for years.  LOL  I know this may sound crazy but I really didn't like sales people.  Most of my friends were in the medical or legal profession.  A few were pilots.  There were a couple of acquaintances who were in sales but not real estate sales.  I would have felt better if I had some information about houses and this mysterious ritual called "Closing"  - what an odd term.  It sounded kind of final. 

My parents weren't a lot of help.  Both of my parents were wonderful people but neither really had the background to teach me about finances, business transactions, building wealth or house values. Dad was in the Air Force for 20+ years so I had grown up on base housing provided by the military.  Mom was from Dublin, Ireland and told me more about the way things were done in Ireland than here in the U.S. 

I finally started buying houses in my 30's.  It was a trial by error experience.  If only I had had a mentor.  If I knew then what I know now...   LOL   Experience is a great teacher but it's certainly easier on a person to learn from someone else's mistakes than our own. 

Long story short:  I bought and sold a few houses and commercial properties.  Rehabbed a few.  Learned more about plumbing than I ever want to practice IRL again.  Learned the pitfalls of financing the wrong property the wrong way.  Learned that not all real estate agents are the same.  Learned that not all mortgage lenders and title companies are the same.  Learned what's worth paying more for and what I don't need to pay for at all.  Learned about ROI, income and equity.  Learned to turn the power off at the breaker before replacing electrical outlets. 

During these years, I also learned that I love architecture.  That and  the 'discovery' that my hobby could actually produce more income than my 'real job' lead me to go back to school for my real estate license.  Yes, I am now the real estate agent that I once feared.  Well, not exactly... I am the real estate agent that I wish had been there for me when I was just starting out.

The one to help me sort through the houses for sale and decide which one would best meet my needs.  The one who would show me the really good deals.  The one who would tell me how to go through the buying process.  The one who would help me figure out how to finance the purchase of the house.  The one who would give me the information I need to make wise decisions in real estate transactions.  The one to help me build my real estate empire so that I could afford not to work if I choose. 

So, that's why I do what I do. 

Maria

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Comments(8)

Daniel J. Hansmeier
Rochester, MN

No substitute for experience. I believe the best educated from going to the most school is not necessarily the best. Real life experience is more valuable.

May 30, 2010 07:54 AM
Sophia Lin
Intero Real Estate Services - Sunnyvale, CA
Sunnyvale CA Real Estate Specialist

Wow Maria, you sound like the kind of Realtor I'd like to work with (if I wasn't a Realtor myself)

May 30, 2010 08:11 AM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Daniel, the thing about learning from experience is that the test comes before the lesson.

Sophia, I guess you could say that I became my own dream of what I would have liked so many years ago.

May 30, 2010 08:15 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

I don't remember anything about the details of buying my first home, except that I was very scared we wouldn't quality for a loan.  We were only 19 and I don't think we had any credit.  It was amazing and exciting when we found out we were approved!

May 30, 2010 08:25 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Your clients are very lucky.  They have someone who can identify with them and make sure that they understand the process. 

May 30, 2010 03:43 PM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Maria - If only we knew then what we know now .....

May 30, 2010 04:18 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Maria,

Experience is what we get when we didn't get what we wanted to get.  Don't need no more...

Mike in Tucson

May 30, 2010 04:56 PM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Ann, I remember the lump in my solar plexus when signing the closing docs.

Judi, I hope they know that.

Kathy, as my grandmother used to say "If wishes were horses then beggars would ride." ^_^

Mike, I think I have my doctorate in the school of hard knocks. LOL

May 30, 2010 06:58 PM