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THE SCIENCE OF SUCCESS -- MY SECRET PROTEGES -- By Dallas Realtor Bill Cherry

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Real Estate Agent with Bill Cherry, Realtor 0124242

THE SCIENCE OF SUCCESS

Walter Wattles was a self-educated scholar.  His specialties were philosophy and religion. But he was primarily a lecturer and writer on the subject of attracting wealth to one's self, along with happiness and health.

I remember reading Mr. Wattles when I was in college.  It wasn't as an assignment for a philosophy or economics course. It was because I came across his book THE SCIENCE OF SUCCESS: The Secret of Getting What You Want at Voertman's Bookstore adjacent to the campus of North Texas University, and was intrigued by the title.

There are three sections:

  • The Science of Getting Rich
  • The Science of Being Well
  • The Science of Being Great

Although he wrote his book in 1910, the year before he died, Mr. Wattles' book has been printed again by Barnes and Noble.  It's an artistically beautiful book with superb messages.  The books are less than 10 bucks a piece. 

It would be my suggestion that you buy one for yourself and a truckload to give to your clients.

GUERRILLA MARKETING

Jay Conrad Levinson has been seriously in the advertising and marketing business for many years.  He's what I would call an icon.  Two of his books should be in every salesperson's library:  The Guerrilla Marketing Handbook and Guerrilla Marketing Attack.

I have lectured and written on marketing for at least twenty years.  A substantial part of those pieces seem to have found themselves centering around something I learned from Mr. Levinson.

HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE

 W. L. Moody, Jr. Circa 1945

While Dale Carnegie wrote it in 1936, it and its companion book How to Stop Worrying & Start Living still do more to provide the answers than the zillions of sequential books and articles that have been written by others ever since.

When I was about twelve or so, I wormed my way into a one-on-one audience with the richest man in our town.  Just the two of us sitting at his dining room table eating cookies and drinking milk and talking about stuff.

"How can I be rich like you when I grow up, Mr. Moody?" I finally got up the courage to ask.

"Billy Cherry (everyone called me Billy Cherry - not Bill, not Billy, but Billy Cherry)," he said, "You have to have money working for you, people working for you, preferably both.  And next you have to read and practice what Mr. Carnegie teaches in How to Win Friends and Influence People.  And to make certain you stay on track, you need to read and re-read his book every year for the rest of your life."

Then he gave me his worn-out, dog eared copy.  I still have it.  I read it every year during the Christmas Holidays so I can start the New Year on track again.

EVERY GOY'S GUIDE TO COMMON JEWISH EXPRESSIONS

Although an Episcopalian, I always have been very close to my friends, clients and business associates who are Jewish.  I know of no more honorable group of people.  I know of no group I had rather have as close friends or do business with.  If you want some insight, laugh and enjoy Arthur Naiman's 1981 paperback book.  Like that "goy" Dale Carnegie's book, I read Mr. Naiman's every year as well. Oy vay.

CONCLUSION

Real estate people are often asked for advice on how to be successful.  I don't know as I have been, but I can only imagine what a pitiful showing I would have made had these books not become a part of my life.

Comments(14)

Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire
I have always told myself that I should read the Carnegie book... but now that you've told me, I'll do it!
Aug 21, 2007 04:05 PM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Miss Joan, you'll be amazed at how much of this stuff you'll know you ought to be doing, but somehow over the years you've slacked off.  At least that's what I find every time.

Aug 21, 2007 09:58 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

I really enjoyed this post, Bill.  I have read parts of Wattle's book (someone sent me an e-copy of it a few years ago) and the principles in it are rehashed by so many writers today, who all act like this is newfound knowledge ! I believe that all of those principles are in the bible as well. You just have to know how to read between the lines....

I have bookmarked this post so that I can come back to it later today when I make up my library list. I haven't been to the library in awhile and I am running out of books to read.

Thanks a bunch (and I think Billy Cherry sounds so cute...I can just picture you sitting at that table interviewing Mr. Moody)  (((-:

Jo 

Aug 21, 2007 11:59 PM
Ken Stampe
iBrandPlan.com - Grow your e-Profile & Brand - Dallas, TX
iBrandPlan

Great post! I love reading your articles, Bill. And VOERTMANS! I couldn't have remembered the name of that bookstore to save my life. (UNT class of 93). I flagged this for featured because it should be

Aug 22, 2007 03:12 AM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Ken, you're awfully kind, and I'm glad we're not only members of the educated wizards UNT creates, but that you know about Voertman's, too.

I read about you, saw the pictures and stuff on your biographical age.  Said your wife's a dentist.  We need a dentist.  She might as well be it.  Name and number please.

Aug 22, 2007 03:28 AM
Ken Stampe
iBrandPlan.com - Grow your e-Profile & Brand - Dallas, TX
iBrandPlan

My wife is also a "screamin' eagle" and she just celebrated her 10th year in practice. I'll forewarn you her office is in Wyliie but that's only about a 15 minute drive from Central Expressway or from the George Bush depending on your route.

972-442-2515 Melody Stampe, DDS

Aug 22, 2007 04:09 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

Billy Cherry! I love that people called you that as a boy. The description of you "worming your way to a one on one conversation" is a vivid mental picture - over cookies and milk no less at his expense!

I have been reading a lot over the summer and will add these books to the list - in fact I believe my husband has both around here somewhere.  Just what I needed to hear to push me over to turn the pages of two books I've heard great things about. Thanks for the recommendations Billy Cherry.

Aug 22, 2007 10:51 AM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Miss Jo and Miss Karen --

Nothing about me is very original.  I've always read a great deal, mostly books, magazines and newspapers that can fill my noggin with more knowledge.  I adopt as mine what fits.  And then on top of that I interview everyone.  I just like to know what people do, find interesting and why,  And I adopt and adapt a bit of them, too.

You're going to love these books because you're going to learn more about yourselves and you're going to have reinfoced what you already knew or suspected.

As for the Billy-Cherry handle, I don't know where it came from or why.  People are already calling me Billy- Cherry in Dallas.  Now how in the world did they figure out to do that?  I didn't tell 'em.

Aug 22, 2007 11:05 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Well, you seem like a Billy Cherry to me......    (((-:    Do you mind being called that?

My youngest son, who is 19, doesn't like to be called 'Robbie', however he'll always be 'Robbie' to me, even though his name is Robert. He just seems like a Robbie and everyone in the family calls him that...  his friends call him 'Rob', course they haven't known him as long as we have.  (-;

Jo 

Aug 24, 2007 05:25 AM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

One of my friend's was always called Eddie.   He graduated and went to Notre Dame, and when he got back he was Eddie the Lawyer.  And then he got appointed by the Nixon or Reagan administration (forgotten which) to some sort of hotsy-totsy attorney/judge position.  I imagine that's when he became Ed the Lawyer.

I saw him downtown one time...hadn't seen him in a few years.  I called him Eddie, and he told me he wasn't Eddie anymore, that he was Ed.  I remember giving him my world-famous glare and contemporaneously saying, "Good grief!"

I think nicknames should be with people forever.  I think they should be engraved on tombstones along with all of your other names.  Nicknames say a lot about the person.  I am a Billy-Cherry.  And I know it, and I smile when I'm called that because it always is accompanied by affection. 

There is an entirely different group of my male friends who call me Stamp.  The name is memoralized in our high school yearbook.  Someday I'll get up the courage to tell you why. 

 

Aug 24, 2007 05:40 AM
Ken Stampe
iBrandPlan.com - Grow your e-Profile & Brand - Dallas, TX
iBrandPlan

Now I'm having nickname envy!

I never had one, but with my last name I got called "STAMP" some as well but it just ticked me off so it never became a nickname. Kind of wish I had one now.....

Aug 24, 2007 06:09 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Bill, I'm glad you like the name Billy Cherry....so that means it's ok if I begin to call you that.

I agree with everything you've said in your comment.  It's curious that you mention the name 'Eddie'....similarly in my family, my Dad's name is Edward. His sister , who is now in her late seventies, still calls him 'Eddie' as do his cousins, all people who knew him when he was a little 'Eddie'.   People who met him once he was an adult, all call him 'Ed'.

Funny how that works.....

I went in reverse fashion....my childhood name was Jo-Anne and my parents and siblings still call me that. Everyone who has met me since I've been in my late teens, has called me 'Jo'  ...some call me Joanna. 

Ok, I'm looking forward to hearing about your 'Stamp' moniker..... 

Aug 24, 2007 08:37 AM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Of course you can call me Billy-Cherry, Jo.  I like being called that, if you want to know the truth.  And I pretty much like Joanna a lot, primarily because every girl I've ever known named Joanna was a winner.  So I'm going forward with calling you Joanna.

You won't live long enough to know why I'm called Stamp, unless you come to my funeral and one of my friends can't resist going into great detail.

Aug 24, 2007 03:39 PM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

Billy Cherry one of these fine Dallas days we need to meet for coffee, you just sound like someone I'd enjoy time with. 

The fact that you write "Miss Karen" is another thing that tells me we'd get along.  For whatever reason, some of my dearest friends that are a few years older than I (and my wonderful late father in law) call me "Miss Karen", and each time someone does I'm reminded of my father in law and all the wonderful talks we had over coffee and cake...

 

Aug 26, 2007 03:05 AM