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Dear Guy that hung up on me today a/k/a First-Time Homebuyer

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Real Estate Agent with BlueCoast Realty Corporation

Dear First-Time Homebuyer a/k/a the guy that hung up on me today:

You called me all happy about that ad you saw in the paper;

"There is NO WAY that house in that neighborhood is that price!  We have t317 E. Blackbeard Drive Wilmington, NCo see it.  TODAY!!"

"Fantastic!  I would LOVE to show you that house, it's awesome!  Let me ask you a few questions.  Have you met with a Lender and do you have your pre-qualification letter?"

"No, not yet.  We thought we'd find a place we like first.  There's plenty of time to do the loan stuff.  After all, it's a BUYER'S MARKET!"

"Actually, buyer's market or not, you need to do the "loan stuff" BEFORE we go and look at homes.  We really need for you to be qualified first.  That way we'll know how much house you can afford and I won't waste your time showing you homes that aren't in your budget."

"We have excellent credit and all of our bills are current.  I think we'll be just fine.  When can we see the house?"

"Well.  We can see any home you'd like, AFTER you get qualified.  Not only is that important to you, it is important to me.  You see, I only get paid if I sell a home.  If you aren't qualified for the homes we look at, then you won't be able to buy and I won't get paid.  So it's also a business decision for me.  I work with a number of fantastic lenders and I would be happy to give you their contact information or give your information to them.  Which works for you?"

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Okay, well, that didn't go as well as I had hoped. 

Or maybe it did.  Maybe you aren't really ready to buy?  Or you just don't know how it works?  Hey, that's okay, we can still get there!  There is just one thing that HAS to happen first.  You must get pre-qualified.   If you aren't ready or willing to do this, then it's best that you hung up.  No point wasting either of our time. 

But should you change your mind, please know this:

I really enjoy working with first-time homebuyers in Wrightsville Beach NC.  You are excited in a way that real estate veterans just aren't.  I remember why I love this business when I am working with you; it is fun to look at houses.  It's really fun to see your eyes glaze over when you realize you know where the Christmas tree/Grandma's cherry hutch/Grandpa's old radio will go.  YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR HOME!

But you are work.  You think you need to see everything on the market in your price range (which we will only know for certain if you meet with a lender FIRST!).  Even if it's not in the neighborhood you said you HAD to be in; has none of the upgrades you swore you couldn't live without; is about 1000 square feet larger/smaller than you insisted you needed. 

And I will show you many of them.  It's part of my job.  If I've done my job correctly and if you trust me like you should, you will take my advice and skip seeing about 90% of what is on the market.  There is plenty to see without them.  And we will find you a home,  I promise.

But I need for you to do your job.  Yes, you have a job here my dear first-time homebuyer.  You MUST get pre-qualified.  This is a job requirement for you to complete before we ever set foot in a house.  It is not optional, it is not something you can skate on.  It is im1422 Robinhood Road Wilmington, NCperative.

We must know how much you qualify for so that we can search for your first home intelligently.  Buckshot should not be used when looking for your sanctuary.  We need a laser here, and getting pre-qualified is our best ammunition.

With this letter we will be in a position of strength when we find your first home.  We will be able to go out of the gate with a strong offer of purchase and we will have the documentation to prove that you are ready, willing and ABLE to buy your first home.  

There are other jobs you will need to do; you need to be sure of your requirements, from your house and from me.  And I need to do my job; help you on this journey with all the expertise and professionalism that I possess.  

I will do my job.  I promise.

Will you please do yours? 

  

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Tish Lloyd, REALTOR®

Broker

NC Real Estate Lic. 269076

Realty World Cape Fear

1119-A Military Cutoff Road

Wilmington NC 28405

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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

  We say...you don't want to have a love affair with a house that doesn't work for your budget....it never occurs to first timers...or a lot of other timers...that being a real estate is not volunteer work....they see it as your obligation to do what they say when they say to do it....oh not....not without the magic lender letter.

Aug 26, 2010 12:08 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Sally & David:  Private, Free Tour Guide at that!  With the cost to do business increasing exponentially, this has become a very expensive "hobby"!  I absolutely love helping people make just that "right connection" with their new home and part of my job is to ensure it is something they can afford up-front.  Thanks for stopping by!

Aug 26, 2010 12:19 AM
Kathy Denworth
BHHS Keys Real Estate - Islamorada, FL
Realtor in the Florida Keys, Islamorada, Key Largo

It is like showing the wife a house her husband can't afford, she is mad at him because he won't or can't buy the more expensive house, he is mad at you for causing problems for him as his wife whines about the expensive house she LOVES.

I make sure they are BOTH on the same page before showing them anything. Otherwise, talk about a waste of time and money.

Aug 26, 2010 12:35 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Kathy:  Point well made -- been there and talk about being uncomfortable!!!

Aug 26, 2010 01:04 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Tish, He obviously wanted a no strings attached relationship!  You do what I want, and please do it now!!

 

Aug 26, 2010 04:18 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Liz & Bill: Actually, he left out the "please".  Oh, well . . . a marchin' we will go.

Aug 26, 2010 04:32 AM
Melissa McKinney
Everything Pines Partners Fayetteville - Fayetteville, NC
Realtor, www.LivingFayetteville.com

Tish~ I could not agree with you more! Very well said!

Aug 26, 2010 04:42 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Melissa:  I thank you, and wish this could have had a happier ending . . .

Aug 26, 2010 04:53 AM
Steve Baklaich
RE/MAX Results St Cloud Mn real estate - Saint Cloud, MN
Treating Buyers & Sellers to Full Service Always.

Tish, Nice post - I like your points at the end.  I am glad that you did not just run out and show the house. Liz (my wife, when she was licensed) ran into this where people would call and want her to run right out and show them a home. For safety reasons this is never a good idea, she always had them come into the office for a first meeting. Because of this (she did on a few occasions have to explain it to pre-approved people who expected her to just run) she has experienced the hang up too, so have I but fewer times. It stinks cause it might have been a buyer, but it might have been something entirely different too.

Aug 26, 2010 12:55 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Steve:  Thanks, safety simply has to be paramount.  I've had a couple of occasions where I felt very uncomfortable and breathed a big sigh of relief the second I was able to extricate myself.  It is so easy to fall prey to a bad situation and training our fellow agents to always be on the lookout, fully prepared just can't be stressed enough.  There is no sale in the world worth malevolence.

Aug 26, 2010 01:03 PM
Emmary Simpson
Las Cruces Homes and Land - Las Cruces, NM
Serving Las Cruces, NM

It's something that I keep hearing over and over again from agents in my new office and others I know.  I've heard horror stories from agents about going out and showing homes to people without that pre-q'ing, having them fall in love with a house only to find out that it would be affordable.  (Had a few of those when I had my personal home listed last year.)  

 

Aug 26, 2010 02:18 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Emmary:  Amazing that something which should be such an automatic thing to do is resisted by so many, or simply not a priority for some Agents.  Really set the state for failure all 'round.

Aug 26, 2010 02:23 PM
Emmary Simpson
Las Cruces Homes and Land - Las Cruces, NM
Serving Las Cruces, NM

Not to take over in the comment area but I had another thought.  It's funny that folks don't take more time to prepare when buying their biggest investment.  I mean, look at how we buy other things like cars, appliances or even when we check into colleges for our kids (or ourselves!)  We research, figure out what's the best buy, figure out how much we can afford to spend and so on.  To not do that when home buying...well, makes one want to beat ones head against ones wall :)

Aug 26, 2010 02:50 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Emmary:  You are absolutely right.  We hear all the time that buying a home is very emotional.  I think it is especially important to do everything possible to make that experience a good one from beginning to end.  I want a Client for Life, so I want to get us started off on the right foot, and that means taking a serious look at budgetary constraints.  I do my very best to keep my Clients under the top of their range whenever possible.

I appreciate your comments -- thanks for stopping by.

Aug 26, 2010 03:12 PM
Carol Zingone
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Florida Network Realty - Jacksonville Beach, FL
Global Realtor in Jax Beach, FL - ABR, CRS, CIPS

Great post - I had a referral the other day who was all excited to look at foreclosures in the $70-$100K price range, and I asked him to get prequalified. His credit union was going to charge him $250 for the prequal letter. I have an in-house lender who will do it for FREE.  Bottom line? Prospect vanished rather thane get a free prequal.  I'm fine with that - I have too much QUALIFIED business to work on.

Aug 28, 2010 12:44 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Obviously.... he did not want to cooperate. Perhaps not really interested. Just wanted to check out some houses?! 

Anyway. Get qualified and the rest flows smoothly!

Aug 30, 2010 10:33 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Carol:  I totally agree -- we have to draw the line someplace.

Will:  Probably just wanted a free tour-guide!

Aug 31, 2010 12:30 AM