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My Bad - That's Insulting!

By
Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams

"My Bad".  Americans are bad about slang terminology especially when the phrase has multiple meanings.   When someone writes or says "My Bad" what do they really mean?  Before you say it or write it you should really know how they might take it.

It doesn't really matter who coined the phrase or what it meant 30 years ago in sports. 

What does My Bad mean today?

My Bad Realtor

If you look at this black and white picture without any supporting information, what does it mean to you?

It's hard to say? That is exactly my point.

Here are some possible My Bad definitions found on the Internet site Urban Dictionary.

a). A way of apologizing when you don't really care about the situation. Similar to saying "whatever". 

b). A way of admitting a mistake, and apologizing for that mistake, without actually apologizing.

c). A combination of an apology and a dismissal. Basically, saying "oh yeah, I did that, but I don't care".

d). A grammatically incorrect way of jokingly acknowledging a wrongdoing. The terrible grammar tends to drive literate people up the wall in absolute irritation.

e).  It's my fault and I'm sorry.

f). Your definition.

g). The other person's definition.

 

So when is it appropriate to use the phrase My Bad in a real estate conversation?

"The low-ball offer you faxed over was illegible and missing signatures!"

"My Bad?"

I think I will stick with "Sorry", "my mistake" and "I apologize" on the rare occasion I might make a mistake. You say you know me better than that?  My Bad.

Mark Hitz, Realtor - Serving the far north Dallas Suburbs.

 

Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

We definitely need to be careful of how we use slang with our clients and other agents.  Our profession is one that needs to have better standards as it is.  Great point!

Sep 07, 2010 07:20 AM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Use it whenever you want to convey an incomplete thought to someone who deserves no more.  Otherwise, finish the sentence.

Sep 07, 2010 07:25 AM
Emmary Simpson
Las Cruces Homes and Land - Las Cruces, NM
Serving Las Cruces, NM

I see athletes using that all the time.  I can't imagine using that kind of slang in a professional setting, however.

Sep 07, 2010 09:39 AM
Lisa Hicks
Hoang Realty - Augusta, ME
Serving Central and Southern Maine

Mark - I say leave it for the teenagers!  (Actually, my teenagers don't even say it.)  A legitimate apology always works best.

Sep 07, 2010 12:29 PM
Jason Channell
Diadem Property Inspections - Serving Southeast Michigan - Troy, MI
The House Sleuth

I can't believe how many people throw around "my bad" in work setting.

"I'm sorry" and "I'll fix it right now" always work for me.

Sep 08, 2010 06:59 AM