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Was It "Paying It Forward" or Doing The Right Thing?

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Real Estate Agent with Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd IA100052670

Was It "Paying It Forward" or Doing The Right Thing?

I have several AR friends that have joined the "Pay It Forward" Accountability Group and are looking forward to sharing with a community who is always trying to do something good.  How wonderful to be part of setting a higher bar in the blog community.

About a month ago we ordered a microphone to go with our new Zi8 Kodak video camera.  The wireless mic was a bit more than we wanted to spend so got the small mic with a 20 ft cord.  That way the voice is clear and loud and the camera does not have to be right in the persons face.

We were going to London the last week in September so wanted the mic so we could record video of a meet up with a social media friend I met on facebook.  Her name is Sadie Harris and she lives in France and is a concierge for anyone coming to France.  We had a meeting we were attending in London and were only in town for 4 days so did not have time to run up to France for a meet up.  I explained this to Sadie and she said she would fly into London and we could have lunch!  We were elated and met her at the London Eye and had lunch at Chez Gerard close to Waterloo station.  The meeting was great and the videos were wonderful!

 

Back to the microphone....the time got away and it was 5 days from departure and the mic was still not in Williams, Arizona.  We had ordered over the internet in plenty of time.  My husband called and told them our dilemma and they sent another one which arrive the day before we left.  We were very happy with the service and that we had our microphone for the London adventure. 

When we returned home the original microphone arrived so we now had two.  This is where the fine line comes between paying it forward or doing the right thing.   Maybe we were paying it forward because we were going to send the 2nd microphone back to the company with no obligation to do so except the fact  it was the right thing to do.

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My husband called the company and they were very confused as to why we were sending it back and so he explained several times.  He got a return label and it will be in the mail tomorrow. It's like returning excess change when the clerk gives you too much back.  It's the right thing to do.

 

Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Great video and I'm really glad the company got you the mic for your trip.  Great service

Oct 26, 2010 06:21 PM
Kathy Schowe
California Lifestyle Realty - La Quinta, CA
La Quinta, California 760-333-8886

I had no doubt you would do the right thing--- and how fun for you to meet up with a "distant" friend!  Kathy

Oct 26, 2010 06:24 PM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Tammy ~  It really was great of the company and I should tweet or yelp about them... so you are helping me pay it forwrad better.. It is unusual these days to have a company jump as fat as they did!

Kathy ~  It was so fun to meet a facebook friend... it was funny as she was thinking how strange it was to fly to London just for lunch with someone she didn't even know... but she see what I write everyday on facebook and how I interact so she was ok with it.. we did more videos and I need to get them up and out!  The international connections in social media are really just amazing!

Oct 26, 2010 07:10 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Carra, paying it forward IS doing the right thing! You surely did the right thing (or are about to do!)

Oct 26, 2010 07:14 PM
Ken Speer
Alpha Global Associates - Phoenix, AZ

Carra ~ Is there ever a real question about doing the right thing?  I don't believe so.  Times may be challenging, yet doing good to and for others is one of the reasons we are in this business, right?  Glad you had a fun trip.  Don't you just love the idea of popping over to London to have lunch with strangers?  I think it's cool.  It makes the world a smaller place.  Cheerio!

Oct 26, 2010 08:10 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Carra, It's sad when the common place way of doing things isn't the right thing and it confuses people when you try to do the right thing!  Wonderful that Sadie popped over to London to meet you!

Oct 26, 2010 11:04 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond
Carra...a wonderful post so true to you...many don't see it this way & it's changing our culture into 'its mine' ...thanks so much for sharing & what a great trip you had too.
Oct 27, 2010 12:13 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Carra:  I've got to admit ... I can't imagine you in your fuzzy purple slippers and warm purple bathrobe pacing the floor trying to make a decision regarding this.   Of course it went back!  You get a good message across with your post Carra ...

Gene

 

Oct 27, 2010 10:22 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Definitely the right thing to do, Carra.  I was just at the London Eye and I think I might have passed Chez Gerard come to think of it.

Oct 27, 2010 02:33 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Carra, It is the right thing to do … and doing the right thing is paying it forward.

Oct 28, 2010 08:16 AM
Jim Hazell
Real Property Inc. - Marblehead, MA
Carra,Good deeds ,Good Karma that seems to be the norm in Arizona,I just flew in from Scottsdale after visiting my son who resides there.What a wonderful place.Happy Selling.Jim H.
Oct 28, 2010 12:06 PM
Dale Baker
Baker Energy Audits and Commercial Properties Inspections - Claremont, NH
New Hampshire Relocation Real Estate Information

Howdy and evening to you Carra

Carra,
you sure are right about it was the right thing to do! Plus by doing that y'all played forward. More folks sure should do that, when they get more than they should have. As I always you are a lady that always does the right thing.

Have a good one
Dale in New Hampshire

Oct 28, 2010 03:28 PM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Praful ~  walking the straight path makes one feel good! 

Ken ~ never a question to do the right thing!  We had a blast connecting with International friends and creating the videos.. taking the relationships to a new level! 

Liz and Bill ~  It is sad that people become confused with right and wrong.. but right is always right!  We had a blast with Sadie! 

Ginny~  This group is doing great things to talk about helping others! 

Gene ~  I think we need some photos of those purple fuzzy slippers :) 

Jane ~  Tom and I were talking about you and Sheldon right on the bridge coming from the Waterloo station!  So you were there with us in thought! 

Kathleen ~  Well put! 

Jim ~  Great to get some good press for Arizona :) 

Dale ~  glad we are all hanging out together!  Thanks 

Oct 28, 2010 06:06 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

What a great story! Although I had no idea we were supposed to return excess change that the clerk gave us. J

Nov 03, 2010 08:31 PM