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Paying it forward... because I've had only $56 or less in my checking account too.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

Last night I took my daughter out to dinner.  We ate a local Japanese Steak House (Little Tokyo) that we both love.  The bill with tip included was around $75.00.  But our fillet and shrimp were really good.  And we both brought home left-overs that will make for dinner another night.  We took separate cars because we each needed to run a few errands. 

I headed to super WalMart and she went her own way.  I'm not the most patient person and recently in that same store I had unloaded my items onto the conveyor belt when the clerk asked me to move to another line because she hadn't had her break yet.  I must have looked at her like she had two heads, but she flipped out her light, walked around the counter and proceeded to help me put my items back into my cart.  Then, she just walked away.

It was one of those moments where I wanted to just walk out and leave my cart, but I got in a different line with only one person in front of me.  When the lady in front of me was done the clerk said, "I'll be back in just a second." And she too walked away.  I clinched my teeth and waited.  When she came back in what seemed like an eternity later and said, "how are you?" as I recall my remark was something like... "I'd be better if I could just get checked out and get OUT of this store."

So last night I needed to pick up just a few things, including some pizza rolls because that's what I promised the kids they could have for snack at children's church today.  Once again something I really needed to purchase.  I also had several other items.  I got in line where a lady was paying ... thinking wow, what luck.  As luck would have it, not so. The lady's debit card had been declined.  She was on the phone with her husband asking him to look on line because she "knew" they had money in the bank.  She told the clerk that although the bank balance showed enough money that it only had "available" $56.00. 

So the clerk and the lady started a process of taking items one at a time out the cart, out of the bag and taking them off the order.  And while I admit part of it was purely selfish reasons I butted into the lady's business and paid the difference with cash from my wallet.  She was putting back cereal and well, I've only had $88.00 in my checking account from time to time in my life too. 

The lady asked for my name so she could pay me back.  I did tell her my name and give her a couple of cards.  I told her no need to pay me back, but if she ever needs a real estate broker or knows someone wanting to buy a house or sell a house to give them my card.  I told her it was my way of giving Thanks for the cash in my wallet and I really didn't want her to pay me back, that I just wanted her children to get their cereal.

She hugged me, the clerk hugged me.  I was still in line for way longer than I wanted to be in line, but in the end I felt really good about what I did.  I'm pretty sure I'm going to look for an opportunity to help someone in that way again in the future.  Sometimes life has a way of saying "HA", you thought you got the short line.  And when it does it again, I'm going to see how I can make the most of my time.

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Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Mary- would be really great if she did. 

Nov 22, 2010 04:01 AM
Hillary Kinnison
Keller Williams Coastal Realty - Dover, NH

Your story made me feel so good to read, nice job!

Nov 22, 2010 07:34 AM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

You were in the right place for someone --- sounds like for the lady --- however, zi am sure you will be blessed for your actions.  Have a great day!

Nov 22, 2010 10:43 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Hillary- in the end, the act made me feel good.

Norma- God's plan usually has a design.  And really the feeling afterward was it's own reward

Nov 23, 2010 01:12 AM
Pat Yoest
Century 21 Aadvantage Gold, 702-719-2100 - Las Vegas, NV
702-521-1442

I believe what goes round comes round.  You have good deeds and good things coming to you.

Nov 23, 2010 07:30 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Pat- I believe that too.  Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 23, 2010 08:02 AM
Debra Harbaruk
Re/Max City Realty, Commercial Dr Condos - Vancouver, BC
Vancouver BC Realtor

I think it is great how your one kind act has touched so many people. Reading through the comments I bet you have motivated others to do a random act of kindness as well.

 

Nov 23, 2010 10:37 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Debra- Today I actually did it again, only this time for completely nothing but the right reason.  I overheard a lady saying her husband had just started a new job yesterday and they needed propane and she was sticking strickly to a very slim list for shopping so I gave her a $20, told her I'd pray for her family and wished her a Happy Thanksgiving.  We both cried a little and I'm going to have a fabulous Thanksgiving.  I hope you do too.

Nov 23, 2010 12:56 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Tammy, what a really cool story. Paying it forward will definitely bless you and others. Thanks for sharing.

Cal

Nov 23, 2010 03:24 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Cal- Thanksgiving is quite emotional for me.  18 years ago a tornado hit my house the Sunday before thanksgiving.  That year my holidays were due to the generosity of others.

Nov 23, 2010 04:01 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Tammy-I am proud and happy to call you a friend and you are one of Active Rain's treasures and such a special lady who I am thankful to have found here on AR. Have yourself a special holiday. I know your thoughtfulness made someone elses Thanksgiving a little more blessed.

turkey greetings

Nov 24, 2010 02:35 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Sharon- I do have so much to be thankful for and I am truly blessed.  I count you among my blessings Sharon.

Nov 24, 2010 03:16 PM
Kate Bourland
Marketing with Kate - Redding, CA
Onlilne Marketing Mobile Marketing

Tammy, isn't it funny how the universe matches up situations and people.  There was a reason that you were in that line.  Both the cashier and the customer will be telling that story for a long time to come.  Great story to read on Thanksgiving.

Nov 25, 2010 03:08 PM
Kathleen Frawley
Keller Williams 916 730-4404 Elk Grove, Wilton, Folsom, Sacramento - Wilton, CA
South County Sacramento, 916 730 4404

Great story. Gods land you in the right place for the right reason weather it feels like it or not. This story made my heart happy.

Nov 26, 2010 03:31 AM
Cinnamon Wright
Wilmington Real Estate 4U 910.547.1446 - Wrightsville Beach, NC
Assistant to Tish Lloyd

I have been in that lady's shoes, so I know first-hand what a blessing you were to her that day.  Bless your heart for stepping up, so many wouldn't. 

Dec 03, 2010 03:44 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Kate- God has a way of working those things out.

Kathleen- you have to trust him.

Cinnamon- Hopefully some day she will pass it along too.

Dec 03, 2010 04:00 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Tammy:  And I'd like to hug you too!

Thank God for the adversities in our lives, for they bless us with empathy! 

I, too, have been there, where I didn't even have the $56 in my checking account, two kids to feed and no help.  I feel the knot in my throat as I write these words...

I am grateful to be in a position where I can now help others.  I will never forget the angst and humiliation of not having money to pay for food or the electric bill.  That type of memory stays with you and renders you receptive to others' pain...

 

 

Dec 04, 2010 09:04 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Now featured on The Optimist Group.

 

Dec 04, 2010 09:08 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Mirela- ah, yes, to walk a mile in those shoes gives a person a compassion that feels so different from the compassion of a person who has never been there.  And Thanks.  Have a wonderful Christmas.

Dec 04, 2010 09:54 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Tammy and why does VB miss all the good posts??? I really like this post and have "Highlighted/ Featured" it at one of my favorite groups ...

LOVE AT ACTIVERAIN

Vegas Bob ;-)

Dec 08, 2010 03:52 PM